Dear Narcissist, try looking at your own behaviour before you pin the blame for your woes on others. The only person being victimized here is you by your own actions and misfired responses. Time for a new chorus. You should get some professional help for that nasty personality disorder. If not for your own inner peace then to protect the innocent by preventing more alienated masses in your wake. —Fiddle Tunes, Please, I’m Reeling
This article appears in Oct 20-26, 2011.


a narcissist is just a song and dance away from a sociopath. Beware..
If you think they’re a narcissist, that’s all you need to know. They will not shoulder blame, that’s for everyone else to do. If you can, avoid this person.
Who cares who they blame for their problems, as long as it isn’t you? Some people prefer the easy way, blaming other people is the easy way. It won’t help them in the long run so when they crash and burn, be there 1st to tell them what the real problem is, when they realize it they can fix it, until then…
We live in a narcissistic society, what do you expect? lol
There’s a huge difference between being a SET (thanks TommyJ) and having a narcissistic personality disorder. SET’s are merely whiners compared to narcissist psychiatric cases who can possess SET characteristics among many other undesirable traits.
HEY GREAT VALUE! HOW’S IT GOING?
The phrase “nasty personality disorder” gave you away. GV used the same one over on “Halloween Costumes” and I had to spank him for his impertinence (check the last few posts). I guess he was still smarting and thought he’d post a Bitch and get a groundswell of support but – get this – he got only 5 replies. The poor wanker.
But GV, always remember, Montrealman is in your corner. He wants you to heal, but only if you do what you’re told.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
Show me a narcissist that will recognize they have a problem and seek help … and I’ll show you someone who isn’t a narcissist. No professional credentials to back that up … just an excess of personal experience.
I know someone who has actually been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personalty Disorder and OP: you have no idea what you’re talking about, believe me. Actual narcissistics will actually blow your mind to shit.
No, you’re talking abou a SET here, OB… cause srsly.
does any of this have to do with me? If not, then I don’t give a shit.
lol I’ll let OC and PK use the term free of charge this time, for use in good context.
“SET’s are merely whiners compared to narcissist psychiatric cases who can possess SET characteristics among many other undesirable traits.”
I laughed ^^^ You’ve done me proud.
You’re so vain, I bet you think this bitch is about you, don’t you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHWrudgCc3Q…
RSVPs
: Reserve (Oct. 18, 4:44PM) – Does that mean you’re not a narcissist, Reserve, or what, if anything, does it mean?
: pretty kitteh (5:13PM) – That narcissist wouldn’t have been you, by any chance, would it Scholar?
: Great Value (5:55PM) – Pull you pants up and go home.
: Tommy Jules (6:21PM) – Please distinguish between SETS understood to be the “whiners” and those “narcissistic psychiastric cases” who can possess SET charistics (and presumably, are not “whiners.”) Do it now, Tommy. Your credibility turns on your reply.
: Hugo Phurst (6:26PM) – I’ve actually had a fellow (female) teacher sing that to me, quite spontaneously. Do you think that she was trying to tell me something? It’s always been one of my favourites. Thanks.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
that ‘s what we keep trying to tell some of these assholes here. you are the maker of your own misfortunes, and you are the only solution to them. grow the fuck up, and get a life, and leave the self pity behind.
Excellent post, Montrealman! I think PK is referring to Lisababe or Survivor or Kay.
Must be an Air Canada flight attendant.