I’ve read every post following my bitch. Some agree, some do not.
I guess this is the problem as far as “I” can see it:
If your going to gag the Scotish Flag Pole when you meet your man, “DON’T STOP”!!!
Here in lies the problem:
No matter how repulsed you are by the idea of snackin on some sackin, dont start a job ya cant fuckin finish! Oral sex is what “all” men seek. Dont let em lie to ya. It is the be all and end all!
A couple blow jobs for the first few months and that dumb ass (including myself) thinks this is the way it’s going to be “forever”.
Jokes on us! It all ends.
So do me a favor ladies, stop your groaning when your beau decides to find his pleasures elsewhere. You shut the tap off… This also applies to the vaccum comments. Dont start sucking if your gonna stop, we “WILL” buy a new vaccum!!!!—Stop the faking!
This article appears in Aug 19-25, 2010.
“Oral sex is what “all” men seek. Dont let em lie to ya. It is the be all and end all!”
No, we don’t and no, it isn’t. If you’re a man OP, I’m ashamed to be lumped in the same group as you.
Sexual compatibility and willingness is important, but using “she stopped blowing me” as an excuse to fuck around is bullshit.
Just take the gender out of the equation, that’s all bullshit. Stop using useless phrases like “all men” that in reality don’t have any actual value.
Op’s only valid point lies in the right everyone has to pursue sexual fulfillment, providing that their pursuit doesn’t harm others. Be they men or women, everyone is entitled to leave their current partner if their sexual needs aren’t being met. Just as everyone has the right to refuse performing a sex act that they don’t want to perform, especially if it’s something that makes them uncomfortable.
However, I would argue that this would be a last resort, only after you have told them explicitly what your sexual needs are, and that you must have them met in or out of the relationship to be sexually satisfied. As long as those needs aren’t outrageous or harmful, your partner shouldn’t have a problem complying, given that you are also meeting their sexual needs in return.
Cheating is another matter entirely. If you’ve told them what your needs are, that you need them satisfied, and they still withhold, its better to just end it before you get your needs met elsewhere.Why would you want to stay with someone who isn’t invested in your sex life as a couple anyway?
And breaking a promise you made to someone is wrong. If you make a promise of fidelity and then cheat, you are in the wrong and your partner has every right to be angry with you. Regardless of how you justify it, you always had the option of ending it before you went to someone else.
And I’d like to apologize for my comments frequently being too long, I suppose I’m building up a reputation for being long winded (or however that translates to typing). What can I say, I’m a thorough person?
Gets the job done snoop!
I agree that the biggest problem, at least in MY experience, is in the talking. I am not a mind-reader. Tell me what you like, I’ll tell you what I like, but just assuming I know and then running off with someone else when I didn’t get it right is wrong.
And I’ll leave my thoughts on lying and cheating for a country song! 🙂
“all men”….not true. Better luck next time OP. Enjoy your hand lol.
I wish a woman with teeth like Hilary Duff would clamp down on your blue-veined joystick, boyo. Not all women enjoy having their mouths used as a sperm catcher and if a relationship is based on blow jobs, then it’s not much of a relationship to begin with.
OP you’re a pig. I agree that both parties in a relationship should be sexually fulfilled, both the man AND the woman. But you’re a pig for thinking that blow jobs are your right as a man. I’d bet money it doesn’t even occur to you to go down on your woman once in a while. It’s a two way street, and you re sounding like a selfish creep.
perhaps he has a big shlong like ron jeremy and can do it all by his lonesome…watch out for those canines
I’ve not read all the other comments so maybe someone has beat me to it, but my *goodness* you seem like a charmer. Maybe people lay off doing it to you because you’re an ass. There are few things worse than sucking on the bits of some man who pisses you off every other hour, especially if he things it’s his right to receive such treatment.
TTFF’s onto something here.
Whoops. *thinks*, not things.
I’m glad I found someone that actually loves me, not just my skills ;D. I have a fucked up jaw which makes it quite painfull at times so I can’t always do it and he understands! Imagine that, he actually loves me, the person! This is why so many people get divorced, their whole relationship is based on having sex every day, then when that stops, someone leaves.
Although, everything I said earlier stands. OP does have another valid point, if only indirectly:
Oral sex is standard these days. It used to be pretty taboo but now it’s normal. It’s run-of-the-mill, not something that you can easily justify not doing for your partner. Things like scat and fisting are easy to opt out of, but not giving head. Unless you have some abnormal aversion to it.
That said I still think that you should tell your partner that you aren’t getting enough. Cheating without even giving them the chance, and then trying to spin it as their fault is bullshit.
Ruff, ruff, paingirl!
Spot on TTFN! I love it when you hit the nail directly on the head, as usual!
I said it in Part 1 of this bitch and I’ll say it again…how many people actually wash their genitalia before expecting someone else to attach their mouth there? If you were getting some in the beginning then what changed? Instead of focusing the reaction look for the cause. It’s amazing how many people rely upon ESP for sexual communication a la Black Rose.
I truly do get this feeling that this guys is somewhat bitter. His x wife was saving all her “face” time for someone else, and whenever she went home she would look upon his shriveled up freckled cock and gag, she would think about how much she would rather be slobbering on that big long fat veiny chocolate dick she met on gottingen.
Maybe your wives DID in fact like sucking cock… Just not your cock…
Have you ever considered the possibility that your penis is disfigured, gross, or emits an odor that no amount of showers can get rid of? Perhaps you should grab a spoon and scoop up that gunk of smegma you’ve had building up under your ol’ nasty uncut cock since 1997.
OP, I’m not saying this because it’s a taboo subject….
or because I think you’re a fucking tool for whining about something I’m not sure you even deserve….
it’s because you think this is a ‘problem’ yet think you shouldn’t have to do anything about it. It should be a given….
Keep dreaming there bub.
and stay away from TTFN’s ring of fire!
snoop makes a good point ..oral is pretty basic nowadays .on both sides. I think every guy out there who takes good care of their woman should be getting an occasional BJ. a start to finish BJ. and/or a few mins of it as part of the whole sexual act…”ew BJ’s are gross” isnt really a legitimate answer. I will say also though that with the way movies have gotten more racy and porn more mainstream, raunchy and accessible via the internet, women are under more pressure to do other things that years ago were crazy risque. Anal for example. There was an article recently that stated it was the new oral. I cant disagree really based on what I have seen around the media universe in the past few years as a typical dude. I have had enough serious relationships to know that I have to earn my “perks”. And I do. A happy meal at Macdonalds doesnt get you any special bedroom favors…But on the other hand if you are treating her right and taking “care” of her like you should then yes you should be getting your fair share of occasional super-kinky, illegal in some US states, fun-time!!..And I agree that when you are doing what you should be and making an effort and your woman has gradually slid from exciting sex partner willing to try new things to mrs vanilla sex with maybe one or two positions only and lets get this overwith because big brother is on in 3 mins, then yes she is not holding up her end of the give and take relationship. I suppose this theory works both ways. But cheating is only ok if they have allready cheated on you as far as I am concerned. The OP is a bit too fond of absolutes. Do most if not all men appreciate some head atleast once in a while??? I believe so. And as far as the whole cleanliness thing, i once had some bad seafood that was several days over the due date and was pretty grossed out but i still love seafood. I just dont eat at that restaurant anymore. I am guessing one bad experience has caused her to require stringent cleansing minutes prior to sexual contact. If my woman says “hey if you go wash that dick off I’ll suck on it for a while”, you can bet I would be on my way to the shower and wouldnt take it personally. Its a bit extreme germaphobe but whatever helps things along.