I would like to officially ask the women of this world to stop vilifying me for being attracted woman who are thin/athletic. I know women ( and Men ) come in all shapes and sizes. I know for every body shape a woman has there are tons of guys out there who are into it. I happen to be attracted to women who are in shape or thin and petite. I am sick and tired as being regarded as shallow or superficial because of this. This just happens to be the body type I prefer like about 80% of the rest of the men out there. They also have to have something to say and be genuinely nice people to keep my interest, that part seems to get overlooked.
I know it is very politically correct in this feminised pussy whipped hemisphere to say things like “ real women have curves” and guys who say this always get applauded like a fucking hero. Let me just say I agree; a woman with nice curves is sexy…..period. There is a part of the male brain that sees nice a hip to waist ratio and an alarm goes off way down deep in the primal part of our brain. ( ladies have the same alarm for good shoulder to hip ratio too by the way ) but have you been to a dating website lately? There are women who are clearly hauling around an extra 50 pounds who describe their body type as “average” or “Curvy”.
When I think curvy I think Scarlett Johansson, not Cameron Mannheim.
If I am into women who happen to take care of their bodies and who don’t shovel it full of shit like McDonalds or hot dogs 24/7 then so be it. How that gets twisted into me being shallow or “only into looks” is beyond me. I am not ONLY into looks but I do know what turns my crank, and a spare tire isn’t it!……..Sorry?
This article appears in Mar 6-12, 2008.
That’s great that you’re attracted to thin, fit women! All the power to you! But you don’t have to be so bloody rude when speaking about the bigger gals in this, how did you put it…” in this feminised pussy whipped hemisphere…” WOW. You say your’e not ONLY into looks, but that’s pretty much all you talk about in your post. Sorry, that does make you seem shallow…I hope your’e not that rude to a big girl’s face…
Let me be the first to say I fucking love this post. It’s witty, articulate, free of spelling mistakes, and he dude clearly put some time and thought into it. Bravo.
I think the part of the post that could reveal the shallowness is the “If I am into women who happen to take care of their bodies and who don’t shovel it full of shit like McDonalds or hot dogs 24/7 then so be it.” bit. I think it reveals how you really see overweight people and you appear to see them as flawed for not taking care of themselves. With that view, no wonder you don’t find them attractive. I’m not saying you are shallow for knowing what you find attractive though, just that if you always articulate yourself that way, people could read you as shallow. Some overweight people find skinny/athletic people annoying for thier obsessiveness over thier food and health. But you gotta go with what floats your boat and I agree with the OP in principle. Curves or rack-o-ribs can be a turn on for different people, along with funny vs. serious, blonde vs. brunette, or bald heads and moustaches (on dudes…well usually). Size is just one of the features that goes into our “ideal” of what is attractive, and there is enough choice out there that people can afford to be choosy.
“If I am into women who happen to take care of their bodies and who don’t shovel it full of shit like McDonalds or hot dogs 24/7 then so be it.” wow you had a good thing going at the first of your post yes ppl are only attracted to some people but that made you look like an ass hole
I’ve seen many tiny, slim, fit women pack on the pounds after a) popping out a sprog or two, b) letting themselves relax once they are in a seemingly secure relationship so enjoy it now, bud, it might not last forever. Fortunately, age is the great equalizer. By the time you’re middle-aged, you’ll be looking at the young stuff who’ll screech ‘Ewwww!!!! GROSS!!! GETAWAYGETAWAY!!!’ when you try to make your move. Of course, the pecker wants what it wants.
Great Post !He was vilified again. Too funny. No one should be chastised about their personal preferences. The majority of people these days are over weight. If you have a health problem that causes you to be over weight, then you should not be offended by what people say, ignore the rude pricks. The rest of you fat pigs, suck it up. You made yourself fat. The truth hurts. Don’t get all bend out of shape cause some said something you don’t like. Too bad! They offended you, ever think you offended them by being fat. If your BMI is 25 or above you are Overweight !I personal do not care what people say, flame away. That is my opinion and damn it I am entitled to it.
The problem is scott, people with a BMI under 25 don’t always look trim and lean…the “spare tire” the OP commented on is pretty common on people within a healthy BMI range…yet they get the same flack as obese people. That fact gets lost in a lot of the comments here about obesity…you don’t have to be skinny to be healthy…there are many healthy men with ponches and many healthy women with saddlebags, love handles and big butts. People are just built differently and it’s not fair to judge when you don’t know someone.
Good call Miles. I am just a bit over my target BMI. pffft I could definately lose some weight. So, I totally get what you are saying. I still agree with the poster. People give too much flack about what other people like and dislike.
So TTFN, the pecker wants what it wants huh? Like the “young stuff” who haven’t had a chance to “pop out a sprog or two (as you so kindly put it), I too am picky about the men I find attractive. Maybe the reason the “young stuff” yell GROSS!!! GETAWAY!!! is because you have also allowed yourself to look like a haggerdy old pedophile who may have popped a couple of sprogs out of his asshole and who also is a tad too comfy in his relationship. Last I checked, I can’t imagine “young stuff” turning down Brad Pitt or an older man of equal attractiveness. Its just the old, sluggish, beer belly, financially insecure, balding men who complain about young women not being into them. I imagine women and men are equally guilty of letting themselves go… its just the old perverts who still run around with their piddly little peckers looking for sex with women half their age- Better go out and buy yourself a blowup doll and slap a porno in the VCR!
Lynn, I really can’t disagree with you on this. Men, however, do seem to pecker-directed, it’s biological. And nothing, but nothing is grosser than a beer-belly, belching businessman who thinks he can still score with the ‘babes’. I swear that when some men look into a mirror, they see Brad Pitt looking back, no matter how old, how ugly, how pathetic they really are. Delusional? You bet but it’s all pecker-driven.
I don’t think the poster is shallow or rude. If anything, just a little short sighted. Know it or not he associates slim and fit women with a certain ‘desireable’ lifestyle. What’s wrong with that? The right person for a lifetime of sharing must connect on a level much deeper than skin and a person’s lifestyle is not always indicated by their body type. Presumption is the root of all miscommunication (and missed opportunities)
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