Not you.
On a daily basis I can hear you screaming at your children. My apartment isn’t even next to yours. In fact I’m on a different floor, and yet I can still year you loud and clear bellowing at your children. If I can hear you this well I shudder to think of how the ears of your kids feel being trapped in the same walls as you.
While I can hear you clearly on a daily basis I’ve never heard anything quite like I heard today. I saw you stand in your patio door and just unleash on one of your kids. If I listened closely I could hear your son sobbing hysterically, gasping for breath trying to ask you to stop yelling. Then you pile them in the car where you yelled some more, this time with them trapped in an even smaller space. Your youngest, also crying hysterically, told you he was scared of you. I would be too if I was all of 4 and had a grown woman shrieking inches from my face. Your response “Good. Every night I come home and you two ruin it for me. Every single day you ruin it. So you should be scared.” They’ve ruined your day? How about what you’ve just done to theirs? You’ve ruined their day, and have probably mentally scarred them for life. Well done. I didn’t know until today which apartment all this was coming from. But now I know. And now that I do know I will not hesitate to take action.
It pisses me off that there are so many people out there who would do anything to have even just one child, and here’s this wench treating her two like a piece of garbage under her foot. I’m sure the way you’re raising your two kids they’ll grow up to be well adjusted, contributing to society, adults. [Insert sarcasm here]. You don’t deserve to have children, and they certainly don’t deserve to be treated that way. Ever. For a young child to tell his own mother he is scared of her? Unacceptable. Time to reevaluate your parenting approach.
If a couple wants to adopt a child they are subjected to interviews, having their household checked and rechecked to ensure it is safe for a child. The couple have background checks, etc. All to make sure the child’s wellbeing is taken care of. And yet people who reproduce naturally themselves can do so willy-nilly? What about the wellbeing of THOSE children? Where’s the advocate for them? We have to take a test to get a driver’s license, we’ve all had to go through some sort of training to have the skills to perform our jobs, and yet there are people out there creating our future generations, who can do so with abandon?
Take some parenting classes. Try loving your children. If you can’t, there are many families out there who would. —Scared for Your Children
This article appears in Jun 16-22, 2011.
yeesh, this is very sad…rooooooo
euch, yeah I lived near a woman like this too.. The thing is, child services are useless as fuck. They won’t take her kids away or do anything to her.. I’ve heard of worse cases where they have done nothing. Good luck OP, hopefully you can do something about this.
I agree with this. I am just starting the adoption process and I am looking at the process taking 8 years to adopt a toddler-elementary age child.
So sad. I can see those sweet kids crying…. 🙁
I witnessed something like this in a store I used to work at. Some little child was just asking a lot of questions to his mother, like kids do, they’re curious little fuckers. She then proceeds to scream and swear at him, “SHUT THE FUCK UP!! *teeth suck* ALL YOU DO IS ASK QUESTIONS ALL THE FUCKIN’ TIME!! *teeth suck* JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP!” but the kid most deal with this often because he just laughed and kept asking…
I personally would start screaming at her! See how she likes it! Nasty woman, she needs a reality check. She needs to look at her babies and what she is doing to them.
My kids are the reason I get up every day. They are my sunshine.
And you didn’t call social services about this blatant and obvious abuse – Why?
And the Award For The Neighbour of the Year, goes to – Nope, not the OB.
If you reread the post OP states they didn’t know which apartment this was coming from. They do now, however so I can only assume/hope they’ll take action from here.
Of course it takes so much effort to get off one’s tush to walk the hallways to find out where the screaming was coming from.
She could be abusing the kids, selling drugs, having sex for money in the family apt and child services still won’t take her kids. I hope OP proves me wrong.
Bro Tim – Internet Tough Guy since 2004
Fuck that – I’d be yelling: ‘If you don’t stop abusing those kids, I’m calling the cops and social services in one minute!’ Repeat until the whole building is up in arms. A megaphone would add a nice touch.
…but then they’d want to come live with you^^
Videotape this bellicose bovine and give the evidence to social services. That way there’s no he said/she said.
Troodon4’s right – you do need evidence. Film her next time she’s screaming at them on the way to or from the car. She probably has a pattern.
That wretched soul-crushing cunt doesn’t deserve those poor children. It would have been more merciful if she had eaten them at birth.
Gimme a fucking break.
Those kids are probably little shits who deserve to be yelled at, and maybe they’ll learn some respect for adults that way. I’d rather have kids who are at least CAUTIOUS and AWARE of their actions than these little pieces of trash who run around abusing their bodies, other people’s property, and other people. Getting yelled at never killed anyone. Jesus.
well those kids sound like they’re well on the way to becoming the trash you describe
OP, obviously you contacted child services, right? That cow needs to be put down.
Halifox 10 you’re a douch bag. There’s raising your voice to your kids to get there attention and then there’s screaming at them and installing pure fear in them. This woman should not have children. These poor kids are going to spend much of their adult years in therapy or behind bars. This is child abuse – not disipline.
I grew up with my mother screaming and beating the crap out of me. Childrens aid was always involved in our lives. I’m now grown with 3 children of my own, who I love very much. I don’t think I’m a awful person and have never been in trouble with the law. I’ve never laid a hand on my children or scream at them all because of how my mother treated me. My mother tried to get custody of one of my children 10 years ago, I got the records of my childhood from children’s aid. It was the size of a phonebook. In this book, the social workers had commented nurmous times that this woman should not have these kids. We were never removed from the home. Children’s aid is worthless! And FYI, I have cut ties to my mother and haven’t seen or talked to her in 12 years.
well, it sounds like you survived no thanks to them. way to rise above your situation chickie^^
What does nurmous mean?
numerous :p
everybody knew what you meant he’s just being a wabble wouser
Who’s their Advocate?…… YOU ARE. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD AND THE FUTURE WELL BEING FOR THOSE CHILDREN CALL SOCIAL SERVICES?
Watching an act of this kind of discrace is as bad as doing it yourself. I’m surprised a four year old stood up the way you say they did but, as an adult you need to make the stand for them, for their future!
Stop sitting on your hands or wringing them in fury and pick up the phone and dial the digits.