To the 5 guys last Wednesday night who made me feel like a million bucks by dancing with me – fuck you.
Do you get a sick pleasure of making a girl feel like a million dollars then just screwing off?? Do you know how much it took for me to actually give you my number after dancing with you all night?
And then you don’t call. I hope the next girl you guys gang up on isn’t as blind as I was. —Wedding Party Dancer
This article appears in Jul 22-28, 2010.
you actually gavbe your number to 5 different guys, you are either stupid or a slut, or fucked up pretty bad lady.
I agree with LS. A bit fucked indeed! Just because someone dances with you doesn’t mean they want to sleep with you, or date you! Just because people like to flirt doesn’t mean it’s going to go any further than that!
I can understand being dissapointed after a whole night of dancing with one person you feel like you connected with…it wouldn’t be wierd to expect they might be interested in you after hours of dancing together. But you said 5 and referred to them as a gang. WTF?? So either it was some innocent, platonic fun on their part, or else you let each of these 5 guys dry hump you on the dancefloor, which would have made you look…well…totally unrespectable.
The first OP in a long time that LS could maybe get with and he’s calling her stupid =P Hehehe.
Maybe the five guys were friends and when they talked about a chick giving them her number they found they all had the same number. Being smart they didn’t want to get involved with your infested pussy. Five guys per night seven days a week fifty two weeks a year. Even LS is too smart for that.
Betcha OP’s a fatty.
Sounds like you should have brought a lasso with you. Nothing smells more pungent than desperation.
Self confidence issues much?
I’m with the others here in saying that dancing with five guys (in a group from the sounds of it) isn’t going to get you any dates, maybe a gang bang if you were the only girl dancing with them, but that’s about it.
That’s why I’m guessing OP’s overweight (or obese) — she says “To the 5 guys last Wednesday night who made me feel like a million bucks by dancing with me” which screams “I don’t generally get a lot of attention from men.” Usually the women who don’t get a lot of attention from the opposite sex are heavier — not because all men are turned off by larger women, but because a lot of larger women had low self esteem, feel they look like shit, and won’t try to pursue men because they feel they’ll be rejected anyway.
And since I get a vibe from this bitch that the guys initiated the dancing that made OP “feel like a million bucks” (because she was getting attention from the opposite sex), it makes me even more suspicious that OP is overweight.
Finally, OP, like a lot of overweight women out there, doesn’t sound like she has a lot of experience with men in the least if she expects to hand her number to 5 guys (who are probably buddies) she meets in a club (who were probably drunk) and expects that it’ll turn into dating — and OMG IF THEY DON’T CALL OMG THEY’RE LOSERS!
Just because people dance together at a club doesn’t mean they’re an “item.” I know lots of people (men and women) who come home with new contacts in their cell phone (damn, I have TONS in my phone that I’ve never EVER called) after a night out all the time and a week later they’re all “who’s so and so?”
Anyway, just my two cents on the matter.
Maybe not fat but just generally busted looking? She could have a huge nose, nappy teeth and could be one of those orphan-Annie-looking gingers that have more freckles on their nose than there are grains of sand on the world’s beaches.
Or could be kay stepping out on Desi.
Hey, I enjoy the gingers…guys and gals so I doubt this was the case. The OP should be thankful these boys showed her a nice time on the dance floor rather than having her be a wallflower all evening.
Enjoy the moment! Next time I hope it is me 🙂
you think only overweight people suffer from self-esteem problems? from your judgmental comments it sounds like you are all overcompensating for your own personal issues. sorry to ruin your “coast comment get together” but for fuck sakes it’s like being in junior high again when I read these comments. let the girl bitch.
I think OP has other issues that may or may not include weight. Seriously, chicky, get a grip. If you had a good night out, what have you got to bitch about today?? Enjoy and go out again instead of being a fucking attention whore and expecting more than what you got. Enjoy life moment by moment instead of whining about it afterwards. It’s a waste of time.
The girl (OP) is bitching like she’s back in junior high though, tf.
Dear OP… boo-fucking-hoo
Ya need to get over it, and move on to better things… I don’t think you really want anything to do with any guy you pick up DT
perhaps they were uggo hunting and lo and behold, they all found the same one!
I don’t know,… I’m not one to talk.
I generally despise dancing and am thus fairly poor at it.
why on earth would you give your number to five guys though?
I mean, did you give it out once to the group of them and have them try to decide who gets it?
or each individually?
This sounds bizarre… and who gets married on a wednesday???
It’s Hump day FFS and we all know married people don’t engage in that sort of shenanigans anymore…
Mind Snap would you dance with me?
I would if I could NGF…
I generally despise the DownTown scene; it makes me want to get into a fist fight because young drunk stupid people packed in as tight as possible make me wanna, well *Mind Snap*
And of course a broken wrist restricts my mobility :s
Hey OP: why are those five guys “losers?” I mean, you’re the one that can’t get a date.
Haha! The OP is a fat slutty loser. Wait… LS was bashing her and not making a move? Strange…
Ha! Really eh, NW. The one gal he’d have a shot with and he’s getting after her. Maybe all part of his plan 🙂
And MindSnap: street dance! or sidewalk. but it’s a fun thing sometimes to go to a club and upstage the little bar stars and tarts who think their moves are innovative and captivating.
They weren’t dancing with you OP, they were making fun of you. Dummy.
I have a theory.
This is a classic case of crossed wires. I think each of these five guys wanted to call you, but because of some misunderstanding after that evening, each thinks one of the others has priority and is calling you.
I think the next time they all get together and realize that none of them called you, there will be rush to the phone (quaint?) . . . I mean a rush to whip out their cell phones in order to be the first to call you.
On the other hand, maybe they were in town for Pride Week and have no intention of calling any of the women they danced with that night.
It doesn’t look good, OP.
BAHAHAHAH face.
Hay mind snap: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFQ7ymCmBzs
heehee
Love it, PK – it’s perfect! And so, so, so true. I imagine OP as the girl in the cab in the end. 🙂
there are just some things in this life that i won’t touch, this chick would be one. she must be just a walking virus culture waiting to happen. 5 guys, all at once, or one at a time, seems a little bit on the very desparate side to me. therefore the suckster says, uh uh.
plus the fact, that i don’t want to scape the old boy for an hour after sex with someone like that. get away beasties.
You know, I saw a girl (this month) with Uggs in the club. What’s up with that?
It depends on who your friends are PD, things like that are okay, funny, and even considered “unique” as long as you’re popular or something. There was this one girl at my high school who would ALWAYS wear socks with sandals and she was one of the popular girls, so all of her friends thought it was SUPER FUNNY LOL and didn’t hold it against her at all. Now, if I did that in high school, it would be completely different :P.
Guys aren’t dumb. 5 of them danced with you and you didn’t put out.