I would love to know why after two weeks of chatting. There were many things I would have loved to talk with you about. We go out and meet for coffee for about 20 minutes, it was kind of loud, hard to make conversation with all the racket from the machines. Then you say OK I’ll message you later. Then I never hear from you again. Is it that hard to have the decency to say “Hi, it was a pleasure to meet you, however I’m not interested…” rather than to disappear off the face of the planet. And now I sit scratching my head wondering what in the hell I did. Who needs friends. —I Give Up On Friendship
This article appears in Jul 5-11, 2012.
I bet his name was sean
It is hard. People have a hard time handing out rejection. But that doesnt make it any easier. Youll be better off.
now you’re getting it.
Who does need friends?
phooey.
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perhaps if you had zipped your pants up instead of sitting there with the meat and veg hanging out?
Just another reason why juggalo’s have a rough time on dates.
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I am getting the impression that you’re a little desperate, OB.. that could be one of the reasons that they don’t want to see you again.
It sounds like you chatted online for 2 weeks, had a measly 20 minute date and are expecting them to have the “decency” to tell you in person that they don’t want to see you again AND tell you what you did, etc. Sometimes it just doesn’t click.. it might not be anything you did.
Who needs friends? I fucking do. What I don’t need is to date someone that I have absolutely nothing in common with. -_-
“Maybe I was the problem”
“No it was me”
“No really I was the problem”
“Ok it was you”
Haven’t you heard, those dating sites are for getting free, fast ass. So, if you weren’t giving him head behind the loading dock at Sobeys 10 mins after meeting, then you didn’t bring your A game. Nobody wants to start an hour long relationship with someone who’s dragging their heels with the booty!!
Everyone needs friends.
Even 30 year old EMO wannabes.
Fire-Everyone needs friends.
With the loud coffee machines, maybe he/she misheard something. Try a quieter place next time.
What naveed said
Get over it, OB. I chatted with someone for over a month, we met for a drink, chatted and laughed our asses off for over two hours. Everything seemed great but she didn’t feel a genuine spark between us and that was fine. It’s a little disappointing when you first get the news (or the hint) but you can get over that shit. A week later I was on a date with someone else. It’s just a coffee date, not a funeral.
Just put yourself out there and meet new people. And like Naveed said, you do seem desperate. Women can smell that shit from a mile away so chill the fuck out and go with the flow.