Here I am years later after being subjected to you and what do I see, you’re taking a photo of my house. Seriously you took my job, my community, access to my friends, and now this. I’m scared and it brought back all of my insecurities from being treated like a yo yo. If you wanted someone else why screw me over and why are you anywhere near my damaged sterilized life? Go away. —Damn Your Blue Four Door Piece of Crap
This article appears in Nov 17-23, 2011.
How did your ex (i can only assume..) take your job? Did he go to your boss and say “my ex is a moron. Give the job to me” and your boss was all like “durr.. okay…” and now he works there instead of you?
How did he take your community? How did he take your friends? Where i come from, friends have minds of their own and will side with the person they feel is right if they choose sides at all.
Sounds like you got left for another woman and now you’re blaming your ex for all your problems. All the things i’m hearing are things you probably contributed to yourself. There is no legal way someone can “take your job”, excommunicate you from a neighbourhood or deny you access to other human beings.
You need to pay closer attention to where his responsibility ends and yours begins. Playing the victim means you’re always going to be one.
He left you for another woman hon. Get over it and move past it already. It’s a small city and you’re probably going to see them together. It’s something you’re going to have to deal with and stop blaming everyone else. Breakups can shatter lives. Why not put energy into putting YOUR OWN life back together instead of focusing on how it’s all his fault?
Here’s the wallowing formula. One year for every 5 you were together – and that’s a maximum.
You’ve undoubtedly sucked the life out of your family and friends over this for way too long. Think about that for a moment and smarten the fuck up.
Jesus… that wasn’t presumptuous or judgmental or anything, IK.
I’m sick of people assuming they know people’s situations.. we can’t even be sure if OP is male or female.
Agreed Tommy, once again someone looking for help and/or sympathy gets shit on for it. If this continues OP you should get legal help. We are all entitled to an harrassment free enviroment!
hint o.p, car bombs are easy as fuck to make.
Oh yay, another person completely dependent on someone else for their happiness and social life. Close your curtains and get yourself a couple unfixed cats of alternate sexes and watch you new friends multiply, only the love of 100 mangy cats will save you now.
If you think you have something to fear from this person OP I would talk to the police. Good question, why is somebody who left you taking a picture of your house? It does sound like they are up to something.
Your former partner was probably a controlling person if they took that much away from you. Again seek legal advice and keep your guard up.
Everything will be okay OP, don’t let that mess around you anymore. Take it from someone who has crawled from the bottom of a simillar situation and made it to the top. If your friends left , or took sides, they are NOT friends. if they took your job, find one that will respect you and you will enjoy. See it as a fresh new start. As for your community, don’t let people change your mind if you are set to leave and tired of the bs( as I once did) trust your heart and your instincts. Also, if you see that jackass taking pics of your home again? Call the cops and let them know you mean business or …walk out that front door, pull all the rage from past issues you can muster and ask” what the fuck are you doing taking pictures of my house?!” Don’t give them a second to answer. Say if you see them again the cops will show. Gauranteed like the bully they sound like they are they will back off quicker than butter on a flap jack. Bullies always look for targets, and you don’t have to be one OP. You deserve better.
Maybe he’s selling it. Buyer’s market though. Start packing your boxes OB and looking for an overpass to live under.