I told you I loved you last night. Fuck I’m an idiot. I hate myself. Now I can definitely never see you again. —This sucks

This article appears in Jan 27 – Feb 2, 2011.

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  1. See them again. Talk. Things may not evolve the way you had in mind; but they may evolve into something worthwhile. Don’t be so quick to run up the white flag. And good luck. >: )

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  6. Jesus, Suckers, are you feeling alright, bud? Not even an offer of a “shoulder” to cry on?

    I’m worried. Very very worried.

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  8. I’m assuming this is a dude writing this bitch…I think so did suckster (lack of the offer PK).
    If you truly think that you do love this person and you have a connection that was strong enough to justify an “I love you”…then talk to them.

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  9. OP… don’t look at it as a deal breaker. You simply let your feelings be known and he/she didn’t reciprocate. Now this person knows how you feel and you should be able to put this behind you and continue to strengthen your relationship. Maybe after time it can be something said more frequently- and by both of you.

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  11. You said ‘I love you’ not ‘I want to use your skull for a soupbowl’ – geeze, don’t be so hard on yourself. See the person and just act like you didn’t say it. If they pick up the ball and pursue it, fine, if not, double fine.

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  12. were they afraid that they’re not sure of a love there is no cure for
    you said, “I love you”. Isn’t that what life is made of?
    Though it worries me to say maybe they never felt this way
    You don’t know what you’re up against
    You don’t know what it’s all about
    and you got so much to think about

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  13. Hmm… premature “I love u-ation”. Not the end of the world, take Leonard & Penny, for example. She still lives across the hall and they hang out all the time. you just know they’ll get back together in the end 😀

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  16. I think what OP’s feeling now is embarrassment (and maybe a little crushed on the whole possibility/hope thing) 🙁

    If this person is worth their salt, there’s nothing to be embarrassed about. I know that’s easier said than felt, but, at least you got it off your chest instead of driving yourself insane wondering “what if,” OP! (yeah, that doesn’t help much, does it?)

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  17. David Cassidy, huh? I was madly in love with Mike ‘Woolhat’ Nesmith of the Monkees. John Lennon before that.

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  20. I’m embarrassed to say I thought Andy Gibb was hot too = )
    12 year olds! there’s no accounting for taste = p

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  22. Ok, since I’m a generation off, I’m googling these people to see what they looked like… Andy Gibb was hot. John Lennon – nope, not hot a’tall! That particular Monkee was ok, but the hat, I just don’t understand the hat, doesn’t it get smelly, TTFN? Peter Townsend has an enormous nose, but is quite cute regardless.

    Very interesting! To each their own!

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  35. this just in, halifax is now thinking of putting up toll stations on bridges that cross over railroad tracks. gotta love peter kelly, he will get that fucking convention center, no matter what. watch for this new round of idiosy in tomorrows news folks, and yes, it will get done. just think, any bridge or overpass, that goes over a r.r. track, used or not, you wwould have to pay a fucking toll. if that wasn’t so sick and sad, it would be funny. get your tar warmed up people, and your chickens plucked, i’ll provide the rail.

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  38. I too am a Cassidy fan but Shaun, he was one sexy Hardy Boy damn. ok now that I’m out of my day dream oh yeah the I love you bitch. Maybe he didn’t have the same feelings for you as you did for him. Don’t get discouraged because the first I love you didn’t work out. For sure don’t hate yourself, as the old saying there are plenty of fish in the sea! Go catch one and hopefully he might be Mr. Right!

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  40. OB, you gotta change that attitude. Be more positive in your life’s outlook.

    Nobody, and I mean NO-BOD-Y, wants to be with a ‘Gloomy Gus’.

    Now , stand up straight, put a smile on your face, look this person in the eye, and say it again, with assurance. You might be surprised.

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  46. martym – you could also include Dusty Springfield, but she played for the other team, but had a voice to die for. Is it possible to make a beehive today with all the “no scents” legislation?

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  50. Amy Winehouse or Anderson Cooper (either way you’d have to gargle with bleach afterwards), is a “boot to the head” an option?

    Morning Ivan, morning painey.

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  52. hope y’all likes me new pic, i start on the hockey superhero collection on tuesday. first up will be the penguin.

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  54. LS just leave The Maple Leaf out. What is so cool about being a leotarded tree? This is a super-hero???

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  57. but there are 23 of them, and to be fair, each has to have one day showing, in the order that i downloaded them. far as i’m concened, they all suck dicks, and most don’t even know what planet they are on. hmmmm, mighty good role models there?
    i just got an idea for a good bitch, see you on tuesday all.

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  58. Why are there only 23? Aren’t there a few more teams than that? Are you going to give us descriptions? (The Hawk: Broad shouldered guardian of the Windy City). The Guardian Project: WHY??? ;D

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