Unless you want your pathetic “life will never be the same without you” emails to my husband sent to your fiancee, you better back off or your wedding is going to be cancelled, bitch! My hubby just keeps you in touch so he can show off how he’s not only moved on but moved up. You set up another meeting with him and I swear I will call you out in front of everyone for the nasty cheat you are and then you’ll have nobody.
This article appears in Jul 2-8, 2009.
What’s this? A new section? Wicked!
OP: Your husband’s cheating on you with his ex. You’re an idiot.
*enters cautiously, looks around*
Hey Nevermind, what’d you find here?….a new section? Neat! This one has lots of juicy bitching potential too.
OP, listen to Nevermind. Your husband is cheating on you, or soon will be.
Oh hey guys! I see you found this place too. Another place for our witty commentary to roam free – sweet!
I’m in agreement with NM and Miles on this one. “My hubby just keeps you in touch so he can show off how he’s not only moved on but moved up.” Your husband sounds like a douche, and that sounds like a lame excuse that you’re actually buying. Wake up, OP. It’s not the woman you need to worry about, it’s whether or not you can trust your husband.
Agreed, OP should mimic the photo in the heading and move on…
this post however is purely to be the top poster, Woohoo!!!
Screw you LOGIC – I win!
Dammit – now I win.
Ooooh…this new section is all kinds of awesomeness.
DTMFA, OP. You can blame the woman all you want, but the real problem you need to address is the lame sack of shit you’re calling a husband.
mmm…top of list again… Take that MN!!
Damn, I meant NM… Yay another post, this competition is now over, so says the leader!!!
Uhm, I’d be pissed at my HUSBAND for continuing to ALLOW said bitch to set up meetings, not her.
Either talk to your husband to be and tell him you hate this skank, you could DTMFA, or e-mail Dan Savage 😛
You win Logic. I give.
The OP should be on Springer fighting with some fat bitch over her man!
And he should have a mullet.
“My hubby just keeps you in touch so he can show off how he’s not only moved on but moved up. ”
Riiiiiiiiiight….because that makes total sense.
WTF is this? Did Andy create this as a surprise place to dump all the boring breakup stories in? Does TIM KNOW ABOUT THIS?!?!
“My hubby just keeps you in touch so he can show off how he’s not only moved on but moved up”
Could possibly be the most naive statement ever…
so let me get this straight … you what stole her man and calling her the bad one for still caring for him? if you can’t see why she would still want him then maybe you shouldn’t be with him.
Ignorance IS bliss!!! It really is! Right Kay?
It would be great if this section was for all the hitching and hookups and break ups and so on, then we could ignore them when we want to, but come here when we need a good soap opera.
And, I gree with all of the above, you can keep telling yourself that, and when they’re sleeping together, you’ll be saying, he’s just sleeping with you to confirm that I’m better than you in bed.
Uhhmm..you rhubby is fucking his ex..I do not know how much plainer I can make it Ms. Naive. Fucking around, getting some on the side, stealing a piece//however you want to term it. But if you really believe that he is only keeping her in the loop to show how he has moved up then I have some land for sale for you..oceanfront property in Phoenix.
little miss pussy cat…ohhhh….who’s so special now!!!! let’s see who buys the next christmass TrEEEEE!!!
Denial is not just a river in Egypt. They’re knockin’ boots babe. Time to find another man.
yea word to to the wise, your husband is tapping this woman, or soon will be for sure, otherewise he simply would not respond to the email. He is covering his ass by saying” she is emailing me”. capital B-ullshit
Never before has there been such unanimous agreement in one thread. Thanks OP!
OK, I think this must be a hoax just to stir things up and get a good thread going. Obviously it has all kinds of intrigue..if not..forward her e-mails back to her fiancee, give your husband an ultimatum..no more contact with the bitch. period. or its over (he’s just as guilty)..and um, call her out anyways..wtf..is that your man, or her man? snarl
I get a huge kick out of this shit every tiem I hear it. The new gf saying “He does not want anything to do with you so leave him the fuck alone!!” HAHAHA. In the meantime hubby is getting off on all the attention and the fact he has two women fighting over him. He is leading the ex on so he can see the fight over his penis continue. Priceless.
ps if your the bitch that married the love of my life, my bf knew from day one that if he ever came back I was gone. May sound mean but atleast I am honest unlike you who is heartless and conceited.Be careful, pride comes before the fall.
ps I’m glad it rained on your wedding day. It has to be doomed you were talking to him about blow jobs before he and I were broken up……takes one to know one slut!
relationships often end the same way they begin. Good luck weathering the storm of divorce, OP… all of you.
Let me clarify. He has not met with her…when writing the post I meant to say “try” to set up meetings with my husband. He sees her sometimes since she moved back here and frequents the same place he does (use your imagination..hair dresser, gym, works in the same building..whatever). If we all dumped our partners or spouses just because they spoke to someone they used to be with, I’m afraid we’d all be alone and angry like the guy who keeps saying my hubby must be fucking her.
I was the one who said to him, “there is no reason why you can be friendly with her, I mean your married, she’s getting married etc”. I mean, there is no reason to give folks the “stink eye” just because you used to go out years ago and things didn’t work out. Remember kiddies, we DO live in TINY TOWN. I really didn’t expect her to try and get him back.
Also, to the chick who thinks I stole her man, you got the wrong girl…I didn’t even know my husband when he was with this lady..it was months later that we even met. Besides, if the jerk left you for someone else he is now married to, you weren’t for him so forget about him and move on.
I still can’t get over how many women contact their ex’s who are now married (she is not the first women who has tried to get together with him, knowing he is married now). I avoided married or men in relationships like the plague but I guess I don’t have the low self-esteem that makes me want to chase married people.
Anyways, he agrees that because she feels the way she does, that it would be inappropriate for him to reply to any further emails and has deleted her from his contact list and will just smile and nod next time he runs into her in our TINY TOWN.
I won’t be telling her fiancee. He already knows he is his future wife’s second choice and accepts that. Beside’s, I just think when you get involved in stuff like that, it just makes you the asshole..kinda like if your best friend’s husband makes a pass at you…it’s your friend who will blame you, even though you are the innocent victim.
“I avoided married or men in relationships like the plague but I guess I don’t have the low self-esteem that makes me want to chase married people.” ok 1 you are judgemental and 2. since she liked or loved him before you even met him then it is a different story….feelings don’t just go away because you want them too or especially because someone else wants them too. Most marriages do end in divorce so get off your high horse and stop caring that she wants him back. You should feel secure about the relationship if you think you are his only one forever and ever and ever. Good luck with that tho, you’ll need it…..and you can deny all you want that she ever meant anything to him but he choose her out of hundreds just like you. give her a brake and understand that she sees the same thing in him as you do. A little empathy. Poor Girl
ps just cause they were ‘apart’ for a few months, how long were they together 5 years? if so you stole him!
Haha so ghetto
And next week on Springer…”Trailer Park Trash Leave my Man alone!”
Sooooo, S’up…at WHAT point would someone be allowed to date the new singleton without be considered a thief, in your eyes? Do you have a formula? Say…they were together seven years should we say one month for every year? Any girl who even touches him is a slut, bitch, whore loser who is stealing another woman’s man?
Look…it’s just common sense to make sure that anyone you are considering a committed relationship with should not still be contacting or meeting with their ex when you start dating. It’s for your own good. How many of us think we have a good thing going with someone and then as soon as they brag to their ex that they found “the one”, he or she panicks and starts to turn up the activity to try and derail the relationship?
So, for that reason alone, you should run like hell if they are still playing with their ex. Otherwise, I don’t give a shit if they were broken up five days and you met him, if he is over and done with her…everyone else can just fuck off including S’up who has one fucked up way of looking at things. Just remember, when you say those words, “we’re done” you can’t say jack shit nothing about where they go or who they are with from that point on. They aren’t with you and that is all that should matter.
i just thought that every relationship should have a chance to try to work things out and the chances of that are less likely when someone is there to grab him up when things get a little shaky. On the other hand you won so congrats; I still think that you shouldn’t get your panties in a twist just cause she is writing him though…you obviously have faith in him. It’s always the other woman you don’t have faith in but you cant control that.