Am I crazy to think that it’s a dick-head move to bail on plans with someone (without telling them) to hang out with other mutual friends but not invite that person either? You could have just told me you couldn’t go out with me- it’s not like I would have pressured you into telling me about your ‘other’ plans and then invited myself (contrary to what you parents must have you, it’s rude to invite yourself anywhere/to anything- you must have though that it’s common practice and that I would do the same- but I assure you, I was raised properly). But I’m annoyed you had the audacity to ditch me so rudely and then invite yourself on *my* weekend trip, with *my* friends (who you do not know). ??? Where are you manners, boy? Sadly, telling you what I really think of you is not condusive to our living situation
This article appears in Mar 6-12, 2008.