I was seeing this guy for awhile who seemed different from the rest… Called me every night and during the day, came to see me at school and everything. Like he actually cared bout me. I was his baby, his honey all that kinda stuff. Then he started acting funny.
Found out he was talking to another girl, a girl he said he always hated… Now, they actually go out…… after saying he despised her cause she was with someone really close to him (a family member).. and go so attached and she stalked him. You’d think he would have realized and stopped being such a douche.
Now he is spreading rumors about me, saying all kinds of stuff and shit. Real mature eh?…. Go back to kindergarten and play on the playground, that is the only place children like you should be allowed to be out in public, you fuck face…—Pissed off royally!
This article appears in Apr 15-21, 2010.


venting always helps….
and there’s nothing you can do so it is what it is.
been feeling a lot of the same crap you’re going through….POR.
either take the easy route and forget about the guy completely…
or take the nearly impossibly hard route and try to remain friends and in contact.
at least that choice is yours.
Once again, as a generalization, if a guy say’s he “hates” a girl, to a girl whom is with said guy and bringing up a concern she has about this other girl, he doesn’t actually hate her.
I think zZz needs a biiiiiig LTWWB hug
*hugszZz*
Also: this sounds like a guy I know. if it is, you’re better off in the long run.
Some of the relationship bitches lately could fit right in with one of those day time TV shows…you know the ones i mean where 13 year olds want to be whore’s (I believe they call it ho’ing) Along with those who’d fit right into the cast of a Trailer Park Show shot locally !
When your significant other talks to you about an ex, missed connection, friend-of-a-friend in their life negatively (especially with great frequency) it’s a potential red flag moment.
Thank-you refinedsugar, my point exactly.
Unless said ex put you through an emotional/mental ringer… At the mention of my ex I spazz out and practically start climbing the walls; it’s kinda like a Jekyll/Hyde deal
ok, refinedsugar … you are all channeling my thoughts….
it’s creepy.
I could seriously have written this…. and you’ve…
did I? I don’t remember writing it…
not airing dirty laundry… can’t explain more… but damn.
just remember, when you are so close to them… it’s possible for the person to dismiss the red flags until it’s too late.
that is all.
oh, and fyi, I took the nearly impossibly hard route…
which is why my mood swings like a double pendulum on crack.
o.p., dear girl, nothing is forever when you are still in school. highs are the worst, with the ever changing sex crowds. maybe you should just tell all these horny dudes to go fuck themselves for a change, next time, they wanna get in your pants, assuming you wear any,that is.
btw o.p., i’m available if you need someone to lean on, or whatever else you need.
The guy is a douche OP, best to distance yourself from him and move on. Unless the rumours are affecting you horribly, best to ignore them completely.
I knew a guy like this. “Hated” all of these girls but ended up hanging out with them and dumping me for them every now and then. This was years ago and I would never be with someone like that ever again! Your lucky it’s over OP :P!
LS, 15 will get you 20..back off you horny old dog.
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three, in this province, surely you jest. all the lil ho’s is in delight for an older stud, but really, not me.i like mine with a little bit of brains in them.