Red-haired goddess. We’ve never spoken, nor am I so deluded as to think we will. But before you presume the worst of me (if, that is, you don’t already), please accept my very sincere apology. I don’t mean to stare, but so rarely has my fantasy ideal been made a reality that, despite my best efforts, I find it hard to look away. —Creepy Crossworder
This article appears in Nov 1-7, 2012.


OP…how do you know she’s not staring back when you’re not looking? I do it all the time with this really cute guy I see every morning at the food court when I’m having my morning Timmies. Its a little game we’ve got going on.It’s called ” who’s gonna grow a pair and make a move first? Lol.Good luck with the redhead.We can pretty feisty.:)
OP..how do you know this person isn’t staring back at you when you’re not looking? I’m in a similar situation with this really cute guy I see every morning in the food court when im drinking my morning Timmies. Its a fun game I like to call ” who’s going to grow a pair first and make a move?” Good luck with the redhead. We can be feisty..but we’re worth it. 🙂
Very flattering to be stared at as long as it wasn’t creepy!
When you see your fantasy appear before you, it’s hard not to stare. I have tripped up in a set of stairs before when I encountered my fantasy man. Wonder if he gets it a lot?
Yes, I do, gentlerain. All day every day 😉
You’re not a very successful stalker if she’s noticing you…
Way to blow your cover.
She is probably staring back at you 😉
I hope you saw the response.