It has been a year and a half since our break-up. You; overweight, pale, sullen looking and still working the same lame job you wanted to leave so badly so you could make all these “positive changes.” You still chronically smoke weed and have stayed in the same dead-end job. This is a bitch, but it’s also a frustration. Why would you not take care of yourself to, you know, spite me? Better yourself, help yourself, better your future. Yada yada yada. I don’t pretend to know everything about your, what appears to be, miserable existence. You could be quite content. Perhaps that is happy to you. Thank you for all of the lessons. The screaming, the verbal abuse, the emotional abuse, the lying, cheating, games, childish behaviors…Letting me go was the best thing for me—wasn’t it suppose to be for you, too? —Why
This article appears in Nov 19-25, 2015.
Why are you bitching about it. They don’t want your sorry ass irrespective of their current situation. It has been A YEAR AND A HALF… it’s time you get over it.
You need to ‘know when to hold ’em, know when to fold ’em, know when to walk away, know when to run.’ Don’t look back, jack. It’s a waste of time.
So why did you wait for him to “let you go” instead of just leaving yourself?
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Yep!
“Get out of here and move forward. This never happened. It will shock you how much it never happened.” — Don Draper (Mad Men)
sounds to me like your the one with the issue. If the person is happy smoking weed and being fat, who cares. Let them be. Maybe there positive changes, was getting rid of you. Clearly you miss the abuse, otherwise you wouldn’t be writing about them. But I read somewhere that abused people always go back to there dog shit. Maybe subconsciously you miss this person, and are angry that they don’t give you the time of day.
it doesn’t really matter in the long run anyways…
nothing does.
depressing as shit these days.
Ummm….You’re welcome?
You’ve been broken up for a year and a half . . . and this other person’s lifestyle is somehow remotely your business? Why?
Let’s see…’You’re overweight, pale, sullen and still working the same lame job’…. shit, sounds like they were better off without you anyways…