I wish for once in your life you would just tell me the truth, just to think outside of yourself and think of the child we are trying to raise. I left you for good reason, and one day she will see it too. She will see you are abusive, she will see you are a cheater and she will see how little you actually care about our child. One day she will see. —Hope it was worth getting the clap
This article appears in Oct 14-20, 2010.
i would think not, only you could do it.
One indifferent parent, one bitter one. The loser in all this is that poor child.
Who cares. You’re collecting child support, be happy he’s paying that and hasn’t skipped off.
Where does it say she’s collecting child support?
Ah…the old “think about our child”…& not a word about what a bitch you are !
There’s at least 2 sides to every story, & typically theres 3.
THere can be nothing good that comes from 2 people staying together “for the children” there will be too much bad & that will cancel out any good.
Stop trying to get him back. Stop blaming him for your problems, and stop making him the focus of your misery. Your child will be better off if you move on. He made his bed, let him lay in it.
If you think he’s lying to you… he is. If you think you and your child are peons to him… you are. You’ll NEVER change him no matter how many times you forgive his bullshit, no matter how many tears you cry. Move… the… fuck… onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. By the time he “grows up” (starts thinking about responsibility like you do) your child will have been pumping out grandchildren for some time. Let him serve as a good example as to what NOT to do when you’re a parent. Nobody but an absent father can teach that lesson so very very well… fuckin’ THANK him for it the next time he bothers.
1. She never said she’s trying to get him back.
2. More, they aren’t together and why are you assuming the OP is a bitch?
3. I bet she has moved on, but she can still feel bad that the father of her child is a loser and that eventually her poor daughter will realize what a loser he is.
I know someone in the EXACT same situation. I feel like this could be her bitch considering we were talking about it two days ago.
It’s sad when a parent is such a loser. The only one who is the victim here is the child, it seems to me like the OP realizes that.
Thanks PF for coming to her defence. She says that she left for a good reason…she doesn’t rip him to shreds….she sounds sad… not bitchy
Purple fire…she’s posted her bitch on this bitch board, exactly how much more proof does one need ?
I don’t understand why she’d be sad… I can understand pissed off & bitching.
Sad I just don’t get it !?!
I agree with your last sentence Purple F….
THe child is better off than they would be if around a parent that really doesn’t care for them.
I had kids, I had a marriage break up, I never abandoned the kids, never stopped staying in contact ,paying for school, rent, food, vacations anything I could do.
Never bad mouthed their mother to them no matter how much she put me down to the kids & anyone who would listen…because the kids are already fucked up by the breakup, the whole is it my fault (child feels they are somehow at fault)
I truely believe if the parent has no time for their own child, the kid’s better off without them in their life .
More- the op is most likely sad for her child. The father is obviously a loser and unfortunately that will be a hard thing for their child to realize when that time comes. How can you not be sad for that? I’m sad for her (the child) and I don’t even know anyone involved.