What kind of “respectable” woman sleeps with a married man?? I don’t get it. Are you fucking whores looking for that much attention?
And why do you act SURPRISED when I confront you??
“OMG! I DIDN’T KNOW YOU’D REACT LIKE THIS. I DIDN’T THINK YOU WOULD MIND ME FUCKING YOUR HUSBAND!!”
Just fucking end your life now, because you’re not going anywheres.
PS: thought I would remind you about that STI you have and you should PROBABLY get some fucking meds for it.
This article appears in May 1-7, 2008.
No “RESPECTABLE” woman sleeps with a married man….what kind of “RESPECTABLE MARRIED MAN” sleeps with whores??
Divorce the loser and run them both the fuck over.
i do not get this…why is this chick pissed at the other girl? At last check, this girl owed you nothing. She is out for her own sexual gratification and your man said yes. When you engaged in an exclusive relationship with the guy, you didnt go up to this girl and tell her this did you and she agreed? She wasnt consulted on this, so why is she expected to adhere to an agreement that was struck up between you and your man?You might want to look at this again. There is only one person that you should direct your anger at, the guy that said he was exclusive to you. He was the guy that made the vows. Even though you might think you are what he needs to be happy and satisfied, his actions show otherwise. So really here, is the problem her? In my opinion, the answer is no. It’s you to a degree and your man for the most part. You take fault because you werent doing what it takes to please your man apparently. Whether you are being the perfect girl or not, is subjective and would differ from person to person. While you might think you are doing a great job, the guy cheating shows that something musnt be right, hence him going elsewhere. It is also your fault because the guy you thought enough of this guy to marry him, and it turns out your judgement was wrong. There really is no way of telling this ahead a time with any bang on accuracy, but the fact is we should be more accountable for the bad choices we make. Apparently this guy isnt the faithful man you thought he was when you said “i do”. Now, what did you exect to acheive by confronting a girl about a guy that has obviously disrespected you. You should thank her, because if he is willing to cheat with her, he could be nailing countless others….. you wouldnt know, he already decieved you to be with her. So please do not give some naive response back that you know forsure she is the only girl. Did you realize that you confronted a girl about a guy that you shouldnt want?
The respectable married man who PAYS for whores is one who no longer gets a round of head at home. That’s the kind.
again, whores=paid professionalssluts=give it away for free to your husband.Get the fucking terminology correct, OP.
i love girls that refer to it as a “round of head”
yeah, it sound a little better than, “Gimme some skull, bitch”.
Well put Homie… The OP’s anger is very misdirected… She should be thanking this gal for shining some light on the reality that is her cheating man…And OP your time posting would be better spent on a rant against the man who let you down and inviting all the other ho’s to chime in about him and tell you how it really is with hubby…
Homie, I’m afraid to say I AGREE with your post ALL OF IT 100 % (must be the sunny weather )
it was a friend of mine that brought this to my eyes, as my buddy cheated on her and she told me how much she wanted to beat up the girl that he cheated with. They fought outside the nightclub i worked at and wound up getting bottled. I was in hospital with her and i asked her, “if you won the fight, would you have taken him back?” When she said no, it became apparent that her getting bottled was pointless and avoidable as you arent supposed to fight over shit you dont want anymore.
And it seems like most of the time a woman presents her anger and hatred to the “other” woman involved, I mean the man is/was there too, I wonder if she has presented the same anger towards her husband?? I often scratch my head at that very question…I’m not saying either party is more or less to blame, the “other” woman might have known the man was married, BUT he certainly knew he had that ring on his finger!!
Since seeing that girl getting bottled, i am now of the mentality that the guy that is nailing my girl gets no blame, even if it is my friend. If she is willing to do that with him, then many others “could” have been getting some too. Like Floyd says, that person deserves thanks. Of course not accepting no and being persistant is not cool but it’s always her job to say no and let me know that it is becoming an issue. I would never bug my dude for hitting on my chick once. Some might see it as him disrespecting me, i see it as a compliment that i have someone that is quality and wanted by others. Question for those that have agreed with me, do you think this kind of behaviour the OP is demonstrating is denial of the fact they refuse to accept responsibility for the bad choice they made or in denial that they arent dating the person they thought they were or that they arent as great of a gf as they thought? Hence this anger towards the other person and the quickness to make the possibly unhappy man to be the bad guy?
I think it’s deffo denial Homie, it’s hard to admit that you married a “pig” who strays, or just an unfaithful man, sorry about the “pig” comment but he knew he was married, I think the OP is in SERIOUS DENIAL about her marriage and the kind of man she married and it’s easier to blame the “whore” then to look at her own relationship and issues!
WTF is an STI????
Sexually Transmitted Infection…Old Skool “STD”!!
OP is wasting her time venting at the ‘other woman’. Been there, done that, total waste of time. If it wasn’t this ‘other woman’, it would be some other floozie or a pound of raw liver. Your wrath should be directed at that cheating prick who thinks he can have it all.
I agree with Homie too. But in defense of the OP, sometimes it’s easier to direct the anger at the other woman. Being cheated on has obviously turned her world inside out for the time being and it’s hard to admit to yourself when you love someone that they could do something like that to you. Sure she probably could see the signs, but her heart probably ignored them as hearts often do. She probably already feels pretty shitty about letting herself be with someone who would hurt her that way anyway. Let’s just hope she realizes now what kind of guy he is and gets outta there before it happens again!
and oops, I only had time to skim and ended up repeating Homie and Jenn’s comments. Sorry guys!
I hope the OP can take this situation and do with it whatever or however she chooses to live her life, my opinion she should deffo get rid of the clown, but I don’t know what their life is like, I think sometimes men make a honest mistake and cheat and some women can accept, “Once is a mistake, TWICE, he knows better”, but from her anger she clearly loves this “pig” and Sorry the jaded woman who has been cheated on by a “pig” still makes me a little bitter…..so in the end I hope she settles down with the hate on for the “whore” and figure out what really happened with her “married husband”
There is no “honest mistake” in cheating on a spouse. Either you have an open and honest agreement in place, so that you can sleep with other people, or… You LIE and cheat on your spouse. There is no in-between. It wouldn’t matter to me if the cheater in question was drinking either, because, hey, who poured the alcohol down their throat?Either you are honest, or you aren’t. There is no middle ground.
Good point Lori. Guys can’t complain that they don’t read minds when their girlfriends are mad at them but wont tell them why, and then say that a girl should just know what he wants more of in bed, so he can cheat if she doesn’t automatically give it to him.
“he could have been doing everything right, he could have loved her, but most men are dogs, and will fuck anything that comes at them”Wow how simple minded of you…you DO realize women cheat too…oh but wait…you probably believe that is a woman cheats, she has good reason to, right?Please open your front door and look around, at this stage in your life you should realize there is a bigger world out there than your narrow perception of men, which is pretty offensive and sad.
“unless he has expressed….”does that matter if he has or not? The fact is that he isnt satisfied. It is courteous for him to tell, but that doesnt mean that it isnt the case. Again, rude that he might not have informed her……. but that doesnt change that she might not have been what he wanted.
I do agree with you Homie, EXCEPT for 1 thing, when you said “You should take fault because you werent doing what it takes to please your man apparently.” She could have been doing everything right, he could have loved her, but most men are dogs, and will fuck anything that comes at them, this not her fault, nor the other womans, just the slut man that cheated on his wife!
ALSO adding in my defence, not saying all men are dogs, but there is a huge majority, as well their is a huge majority of woman who are as well.
“She could have been doing everything right, he could have loved her, but most men are dogs, and will fuck anything that comes at them, this not her fault, nor the other womans, just the slut man that cheated on his wife!”but that is everything right in yours or her mind. However, when the choice is to be made by the only person that’s opinions matters is what the guy thinks. Although his thought process might be flawed, it is him that has to be judge if she is doing everything right. Just the same as it hers so that she doesnt cheat.
The cheating train goes both ways, unless your husband was walking down the street, tripped, his clothes fell off and he fell in her crotch just after getting a hard-on for an unrelated reason… Highly unlikely I’d presume.Just a comment on the new terminology of STD, now STI. Why did this change? An infection is something that is curable IMHO. Herpes is not curable, nor is AIDS, HIV; so STD would be a better name for them. My 2 cents.
This is why Jerry Springer was always so dramatic. For some reason girls always want to fight the other girl in the situation, while the guy just sits back and watches the cat fight. Stupid. Then they both fight over him, because even though they both know he’s a cheater and not exactly an ideal choice, they just don’t want thr other girl to have him.The best thing I’ve ever seen on TV was actually on Jonovision. A girl finds out during the show that her boyfriend (who is sitting next to her on stage) has another girlfriend, so she turns and punches him directly in the junk. They replayed it in slow motion like 3 times. IT was amazing.
Well Redlocks….Some people HONESTLY make mistakes they regret and I have known men and women on this side of things SO it has nothing to do with having an open relationship…they HONESTLY didn’t set out to cheat on their spouses!!
Unless this or any other guy has expressed his “unhappiness in the relationship” and has actually said…”if you don’t change/sleep with me more often/suck my dick more often/etc. I’m going to go be with someone else” and his wife answered with “go ahead” then there is no justification in what he did and absolutely NO blame on the woman who was cheated on. If you are unhappy you tell your partner, if nothing changes, you leave them! …Then you can fuck all the sluts and whores that you want!
The “facts”.The married person can tell an outsider ANYTHING. They can say you never sleep with them, that you are separated…..basically, whatever it takes to get the deed done.It’s not about whether or not the outsider is “respectable”.The married person knew exactly what they were doing.You don’t “accidently” have an affair. You have to meet, converse, plan out times and places….and lies. ( Lies to your spouse AND the outsider)So, if you want to be pissed, be pissed at your husband.And, get some self respect. You shouldn’t consider her a threat, she just did you a favor. You just found out what a piece of shit he is, and any “respectable” person would leave at this point.Do you want to spend your life wondering WHEN you WILL get a STI??? Or, whether or not he is where he says he is??Or, constantly trying to improve yourself, falsly believeing if you are “perfect enough” , he won’t cheat?Lady, this is a “no-brainer”!!!!!
If she wasn’t what he wanted then he should have “expressed” it! It DOES matter, and if you think it doesn’t,Homie….well then, your a slut!
“but that doesnt change that she might not have been what he wanted”This is when you dump someone, or get a divorce, not cheat.