To the very young drunk ladies on the dance floor at a Halifax nite club. There you are drunk dancing with your friends, having a good time, he spots you, decides to invite himself and his hard-on over to you. You turn around, with a look of a little girl that’s been sexually molested and bolt off the floor. It’s sexual assault, report this guy, you did not invite. Where he comes from it’s perfectly acceptable. You’re dressed like a whore so you ask for it, that’s his belief. Not mine or anyone I know. The more this kind of thing gets reported the better chance of getting the creepy sleaze like him out of the bars. —Cheers 2 U
This article appears in Jan 5-11, 2012.
Did you ask him if that’s his belief or are you judging him because of his colour?
Either you discussed it with him or you didn’t. If you didn’t, is his race really as important as getting your (otherwise very valid) point across.
I bet if he were white and 25 you wouldn’t have even noticed.
the reason i assume that OP is because young guys grope girls too. I should know. I’ve been groped by enough of them at a wide array of establishments. It’s pretty much a constant annoyance that women (and men) in bars have to deal with. Why did you even bring up his race or culture? I don’t like the way certain cultures treat women either but none of that shit matters when you’re getting your ass grabbed. I don’t care if he’s black, brown, white, asian or fucking clingon.
Whatever happened to minding your own goddamn business?
I’m all for minding my own business … but for some things it’s not cool to look the other way. If I were to witness it … I would have gone to security myself … and not wait for the day that I (or someone I care about) becomes the victim to report it.
A Klingon would NEVER grope a young earthwoman. It has NO HONOUR!
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2p78rkgqNe8/SfZx…
where he comes from? what the hell is that,how is this ever acceptable?
Persevere fair enough and all. I’m glad we have people like you looking out for the human race (I assume you’re OP so stop me now if you’re not) Just make sure that when you do, you don’t racially or culturally profile. Otherwise you’ll miss most of them.
Nope, IK … not OP on this one. When a person does shit like that … I’m gonna call what I see … a smarmy perverted bastard … no need to pull race or culture out on that because no one race or culture has total ownership of that kind of behaviour.
“Not mine or anyone I know.”
how the hell is that a sentence?
it’s sexual assault for a person to walk up to you while you’re dancing? (assuming it even IS you they’re walking up to…) since when?
how do you know he wasn’t walking over there to pass you to talk to the hot girl over there who isn’t plastered, dancing like she’s trying to take her panties off without using her hands?
I have no idea what this stupid rant is trying to get at….
them bitches should not have been out boozing then. if they don’t expect to be hit on by some dude with a stick in his pants. then again, some purposely look for this, and then cry harrassment. can’t have it both ways girls.
Why can’t mothers teach their daughters to be kick-ass instead of being simpering little idiots? My kid would have told him to fuck off or she’d stretch his sac over his head like a cabbage leaf.
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Why can’t mothers teach their daughters to be kick-ass instead of being simpering little idiots?”
Oh ttfn … I wonder this a lot. A lot.
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” Where he comes from it’s perfectly acceptable.” … … … … I can’t.
I was a Pacifico last weekend and someone mentioned a term that was very very derogatory when referring to a certain people … legit was shocked! Absolutely shocked! Oh the creativity of hateration.
I’m with IK.
TTFN … I hear what you’re saying. I have dealt with unwelcome individuals on more than one occasion (usually only takes a well placed elbow to get the ‘innocent’ to back off) … and every woman should know how to handle herself. But some I shouldn’t have attempted to deal with on my own … it’s important to have the wisdom to know when you need help. When alcohol is involved resulting in impaired judgement … it’s probably best to just back off and let security deal with it.
And, Suckster … there is a difference between being hit on and being grabbed/groped … no one has the right to touch me like that unless I invite them to do so.
I slammed one guy up against the wall back in the ’70s because he grabbed my then-existing ass but most of my retribution for those type of lizards came with a nasty verbal edge. Slice and dice was my motto – my mudder always taught me to take no shit from no man. When I reproduced, I imprinted my kid with a ‘take no prisoners with words’ attitude. She does quite well in dressing down any knob in a bar who acts like a hump-happy dawg.
No ALWAYS means no. Even cats understand that
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxRX6LXDpWs
So it would have been okay for these young ladies to grind the old guy but not vice versa? Isn’t grinding the norm of dancing these days cause that’s all I see out there, everyone grinding everyone.
Tim … you’re missing the point … unless I missed it, no one said it was okay for women to grind but not men. I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman … when a person touches (gope/grab/grind/etc.) another person when it’s not welcome or invited … it’s not okay.
Then it is up to the “victim” to report it. They’re in a bar, therefore adults and are big enough to lodge their own complaints.
UGGHGHG PEOPLE stop going to the Dome, this doesn’t happen so frequently elsewhere. I went there once, some guy touched me, I shoved him and never went back there. Go to Pacifico 🙂
The chick just runs away. LOL. Does she not have elbows? She could simply jab him in the ribs or his dick.
Bro Tim be chaperoning all them school dances!
I’m with triple Z, I don’t get, from the description, what this guy did. This smacks of ageism more than racism, he was older, not desirable in OP’s eyes ergo he cannot just walk up and join the fun, that’s perverted!
If the gent in question did something, it wasn’t evident in the bitch. I can only react to what is written.