I may be trying to forgive you and get on with this relationship, but today I was going through my e-mails and found one I forwarded to myself when I found out you cheated. It was from her to you. She talked about meeting you in the motel that night and how you go on webcam and do sexual things. I was in the library at school. I know it’s about 6 months old, and I’ve read it already, but I still almost threw up. You make me sick. I don’t know why I’m still trying to fix this relationship and trying to make it work. —Lucyboat
This article appears in Dec 2-8, 2010.
lol good ol Cam4 gotta love that site.
btw yer dumb for trying to fix things with someone who lied to you.
I once tried to fix a relationship once I found out he had cheated. That was the worst month of my life. Once someone has decieved you like that it is very difficult to rebuild the trust. If I were you’d I’d forget trying to repair it and move on with your life.
DTMFA.
run and don’t look back
Yes, please run. I’ve been there too – nothing is more emotional, sickening and horrible. Please, for your own sanity – make a better life for yourself elsewhere.
Let your self-esteem guide you far away from someone who would disrespect you so thoroughly by cheating on you. That is not love. This is why you are having trouble moving on with forgiveness. He doesn’t deserve you. Dump-the-mother-effer’s-ass!
Although I am a firm believer that people make mistakes and can learn from them and become better people and truly change, I don’t believe that people can forgive and forget. Unfortunately the fact that you still have this email saved means that you haven’t let the past go or you would have deleted it and truly put in an effort to move on, which is fine….forgiveness is very hard, and not everyone deserves it…this situation is absolutely no way your fault…it was his decision that you had nothing to do with….I’m sure you’re a very good person, and great catch. BUT – I think you should stop trying to repair this relationship and move on to a healthy one.
Don’t ask for help when you can’t even help yourself.
Don’t waste your time on this guy. He’s not worth it.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. dtmfa.
It’s been 6 months? Things are not going to get better anytime soon. It’s been 2 years for me, and I still hate that cheating, lying, thieving, back stabbing, violent sociopathic bitch.
So, throw the boy out with the trash, and find yourself a nice man for a non-serious rebound relationship.
Offering, Hugo?
Depending on the age of the mademoiselle, there may be several willing bitchers to offer her that. (And no, not just suckulicious – though he’s in for sure).
Cheer up, mate! It’s not raining and we’re 17 sleeps from Christmas!
this one’s for you hugo^^
http://www.funnyjunk.in/wp-content/uploads…
HAY HUGO: a/s/l? hahahaha
Oh God.
I’m so sad and broken up.
What should I do?
I know. I’ll write a “boo-hoo is me” post and attention whore some “karma”.
You regular bitchers are like 4chan when it comes to cats.
When some troll posts a “gonna kill myself” or “he dun done me wronmg” the White Knights come a riding.
Puke.
Gimme a good bus bitch over this any day.
Hadn’t thought of that ralmn – yeah, sure.
Drop me a line OB, you can cry on my shoulder, and I promise to be sensitive to your needs as a person.
Thanks pg, made me laugh.
HAHA ML.
PK, american sign language? How did you know that I’m deaf? jk.
I’m not quite brazen enough to “a/s/l” someone. I be a nice guy, so I’d rather like somebody before jumping into bed with them.
at least we’re consistent ml
http://images2.layoutsparks.com/1/21840/fa…
“Get your own Arts Program, ye fairy!”
(MP reference – NOT homophobic slur)
AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! Sorry, PG, but that pic reminds me of the ’90’s and the days of geocities. *cringe* >.<
Don’t waste another breath trying to bring life back to that relationship. Put away the defib-pads and call the time of death.
all i did was google black horse, unfortunately before that i typed riding a black horse. don’t do that
Bahaha especially not with safesearch off.
is that a big key like the any key^^^
can we please skip the ‘xxx sleeps from christmas’ bullshit?
aside from never hearing it said that stupid way until I was in university…
we’re not 6…
it’s retarded.
cause we’re also 17 ‘awakenings’ …
and what about naps? some elderly and children are 34 sleeps…
and I woke up last night twice to my little shark wanting more food….
does that count?
just stop the stupidity.
otherwise, I’m going to start announcing it as
17 more bowel movements to christmas.
hahahaha too funny PG….earlier I googled NSA romp…that craigslist is a little disturbing….but it’s like a car wreck…I just read with my mouth wide open in shock…..trying to look away! look away!
aaawwww Miss Pain….love it!
Bahumbug Z
I’m a mean one, I really am a heel,
I’m as cuddly as a cactus, I’m as charming as an eel,
I’m Mister Grinch!
working 26th to 1st inclusive… I’m allowed to be.
By choice?
i’m stunned, “stunned” is gone. on well it was fun while it lasted, this one’s for you sexy beast http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kVBIKsx0ZqQ/SyuK…
I’m shocked the suckster hasn’t waded in yet…
OB, I know how you can fix the relationship…ignore all the rest of the comments telling you to ‘dump him’. What you need to do is get to know her, maybe take a chance & get together with her & your boyfriend/husband. Yep, have yourself a 3 way & in doing so you may find out she has a significant other on the side & then you make a move in that direction… not for good, maybe not even for long, but revenge is better served up cold, & getting even may make you feel better. As well there is the possibility you & her & her other will hit it off & you can dump your old man…revenge truely is better when its a 180 & they don’t see it coming ~:)
Painey, I think he’d be Ebenezer Scrooge, if he worked voluntarily.
You’ve work there how long zZz?
Or did you lose a bet?
give it the hell up o.p., and do what you have to do, to move on. fuck the douche, he’ll never change, no matter how much he says he will. personal experience tellling you this.
and i’ll let this one pass guys.
Somebody cheats on me that’s it, doesn’t matter how long I’ve been with them. People should keep their promises, especially the one’s about not sleeping with other people while in a monogamous relationship with someone. Which is funny because I’d probably be okay with my significant other fooling around with other people occasionally if they asked me first.
Anyway you should dump this guy OP. Allow yourself some time to cry or eat cheetoes or listen to James Blunt or whatever it is you do when you’re sad. Delete all those emails and get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Cut off contact with him completely, delete him from your phone, email, facebook etc. And set a date to be “over it” even if you aren’t over it yet; this is the day you stop eating cheetoes while you listen to James Blunt and cry, the day you stop talking about him to your friends, the day you pull yourself together… life goes on. Seriously, set a date, and mark it on your calender.
Sorry, z3, it’s not my fault yer a grinch!
🙂
Just kidding, but seriously though – we’ve been counting sleeps since when I was a little kid. I like it. And I’m goign to enjoy my 2 weeks off at Christmas too!
2 weeks? Srsly? I get like 3 days plus a day in lieu of New Year’s.
Not to rub it in Zedman – but I’ve got the week before Christmas off from Dunder-Mifflin. My last week of vacation for the year. And all it cost was…MY MORTAL SOUL! *Thunder Crackles – Organ Crescendoes – MWHA-HA-HA-HA!
we get a few days, but the boy is coming home so it matters not^^
I’m using up the end of my vacation for the year. I was just going to take the week… but I have lots of time left because all of my travel plans for 2010 fell through. Boo. New year’s resolution: get out of the feckin’ country AT LEAST once.
I’m so happy that the boy is coming home, painey! That’ll make the holidays extra special.
I work tomorrow & I’m off until January 6th.
It cost me nothing at all…good thing too.
You see I sold my soul for a cold beer about 22 years ago.
Ah, I understand now. Yeah, I don’t have vacation time yet. >.>
More – I hope it was an imported beer >; )
Ho Ho Humbug, as my grandpa would say.
No it was a local brand…it was ice cold though ~:)
I’m taking 3 days off – but in total get 10 days off cause the holidays and in lieu of days. I’d like Christmas eve off too…but I think it’s a half day anyway.
That’s great Miss Pain!!! I’m glad he’ll be home for a few of the holidays!
i haven’t seen him in about five months. i hope he didn’t grow any taller^^^
http://www.coolcinematrash.com/movies/vill…
Could make for an intersting visit *narf*
teehee, i ❤ bad movies. tommy kirk no less http://content9.flixster.com/photo/94/25/4… *sob*
That and “Ring of Bright Water”. Hey Filmakers – you know what would be fun – to make a kid’s film that will make a child cry for a week. >: (
or in my case a 49 year old big baby…rooooo
http://ihasahotdog.files.wordpress.com/201…
Moi Aussi. I still can’t watch “Watership Down” with anyone else in the room, and don’t even get me going on “Plague Dogs”….>: (
just think OP you once fucked him and licked his tool. now you can throw up again!