For all you commitment-phobic men, of which there are PLENTY in Halifax, just leave the good-hearted women alone. If you meet a wholesome, loving woman who’s obviously into you and clearly wants a relationship, resist the temptation to pursue her! Why spend weeks convincing her that you’re a romantic and intimate man who cares, when, in fact, you’re an immature boy who thinks of immediate pleasure, and self-satisfaction? There are plenty of women who are more than willing to engage in an open relationship with you, so, as difficult as it may be, please leave the commitment-seeking women alone. —A girl with a phobia for commitment-phobic men
This article appears in Feb 10-16, 2011.
Sing it, sister. 100% agreement.
maybe this broad and the one yesterday, should get together. they are both seeking something they will find hard to come by, an honest male.
give it up ladies, take what the fuck you can get, an leave mr. glamour boy to the movie starlettes, where he belongs. because he will be the most shallow fucking dude, you will ever find. settle for what is real, breathing and has a big dick, or close to it.
It’s the old case of the find ’em, finger ’em, fuck ’em and forget ’em, OP, the thrill of the chase and the boredom following the conquest. Sharpen up your radar and go slow next time – you sound like you’re pushing too hard for a relationship.
Seriously, LS?! She’s looking for commitment not perfection. And her complaint is about players, not about men who have some decency.
Settle for a real, breathing dick? I don’t think so.
You sound clingy as hell.
jees theres a lot of broken hearts around valentines day.
“There are plenty of women who are more than willing to engage in an open relationship with you”
*cough cough cough* BULLSHIT *ahem… cough … hack…*
There are plenty of “girls“ who are up for open relationships maybe….but none that would date the men you are talking about OP.
Also LS…read the bitch again…she’s not asking for anything but honesty. Why is that asking for too much?
yeah, either she is desparate, or just got dumped by the mr. perfect from another story. double bullshit.
OP was being generous, z, but 4…yeah, 3 or 4, maybe…or even 2.
“Why spend weeks convincing her that you’re a romantic and intimate man who cares?”
So he can bang you senseless! ~ What part had you confused?
Hey, Koda, honest to fuck, you said it best.
Weeks???? Bahawhawhawhaw – Hub Unit didn’t get the ‘Slam the Clam’ Show until we were going out for seven months. No dermis canine is gonna wait that long, kid.
Don’t be such a ho, OP.
two months for me ttfn, would have been longer but we were stuck in the woods^^
TTFN’s right. on. the. fucking. money.
Also, PG: LOL!
algonquin park is a big place but he kept finding me
…using his penis as a GPS? Heh-heh.
teehee, that rings true. seriously though we worked at the same resort
Cool – my bro asked me to go over to his friend, Hub-Unit, one cold January night in 1983. We were there for ten minutes, then my bro made some lame excuse and left. Sneaky little fart. Hub-Unit then proceeded to serenade me on his D35 Martin with a couple of ol’ Beatle tunes and the rest is history.
Here’s our first pic together:
http://www.break.com/pictures/squirrel-mas…
loverly, this is one of our favorite beatle tunes…the whole album is whacked
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytYTq2vSycE
Haven’t heard that in years!! Thanks for that, Painie.
“Wholesome and loving,” OP? Who uses the term ‘wholesome in describing anything else but food? You sound about as appealing as a plate of brussel sprouts! And judging by your post, it sounds like you have a bit of tunnel vision. Relax and enjoy the ride and if it’s meant to come it will. I don’t think most men are out to dupe women; I dont think they have a mental checklist of what they want; when they the right one they know, and if she isn’t, they
I think it funny that she assumes that a dude is afraid of committment because he just wants to get laid and move on. Maybe he just doesn’t want a committment? duh
checklists are fecked
maybe he doesn’t find you attractive anymore.
zzz- you almost hit me in the dome with the bathroom door earlier.
—No dermis canine is gonna wait that long, kid.—
Vagina dentata?
very good wp, but i’m intrigued by neville’s words
And weeks from meeting him you want a committment, fuck I would have run too. She probably wants a committment of a rings and half his assets. He being smart, wasn’t falling for it and got out of Dodge.
Oops, some typos at the end; the buttons on my blacberry are too small& i just had a manicure to make things worse. I just meant that i don’t really think men know who the right one is going to be until they’ve met her….and I think they know pretty early on, as in within weeks, whereas with more of us girls it takes longer and that is often why we’re surprised at the sudden shift away men can sometimes take.
Glad I waited till I was 35 to get married. Still happy at 46 and no regrets. Patience OP.
Manicure and a BlackBerry? No reason to be stealing diapers, Z.
I think the only manicure I’ve ever had was pulling off my hangnails. Girlie stuff, yetch.
ttfn, i always thought you wuld be wild, but holy fuck lady.
Hey I’m not into manicures either but I stopped biting my nails last month and I wanted to cement the change. As for pedicures, I got one when I was pregnant and it was so uncomfortable I nearly threw up; I got all hot and sweaty and had to hold my sisters hand; i hate anyone grabbing my big toe.
…er, not because my sister wanted to hold my big toe; the manicurist was and she was digging her tweezers in like an earwig, and chafing her hand up against my surgery scar.
big toes are better for other things z.
What about those chicks that just want to get knocked up so they can get more money from the Gov’t?
DAMN IT, I’m way too late for a TTFN/Painey Divining Rod joke…
and neville… you’re lucky I didn’t throw someone through it yesterday.
t’was a bad 24 hours it was.
that sucks good sir. hopefully things shape up.
Commitment you say !
No problem here…just bring your Pre nup agreement, where everything of mine stays mine & everything of yours stays yours….& i’d give you a commitment !
( I’m not giving anymore of my retirement funds or houses away)
NFG – You’re being a jerk!
Z – I love pedicures so much!
TTFN & Painy…you guys are so cute.
Z3 – When is it ever a good day for you?? Mr can’t reply to emails.
Am not.
Probably the same guy that did the same thing to me last year. Fucking Narcissistic Assholes.