To you and all your homophobic friends. If I
hear one more homophobic remark I will explode.
Hate doesn’t cancel out hate, no.. but when love is
ridiculed I just want to scream. And who takes the toll?
It certainly isn’t you OR your dumb posse.
I hope that one day you can look in the mirror and realize how homophobic you really are. Open your fucking heart.You loved me.
This article appears in Oct 30 – Nov 5, 2008.
Why are people so down on homophobic people. I mean, isn’t another personal choice to be homophobic, just like the choice to be LGBT? Perhaps I do not understand what homophobic means. But I think people have the right to not agreed with lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender/transsexual people and their behavior and to not want to see it or hear about it. It is a right and a freedom to think what you want about who ever or what ever. People do no have to like LGBT. If the people that you hang out with or close to you are like this then get away from them. They have rights to though.It is the same as Religion. You can be Religious all you want, but do not force that shit on me. I do not even want to hear you talk about it. I think it is wrong. Now replace the word Religious with LGBT.You can be LGBT all you want, but do not force that shit on me. I do not even want to hear you talk about it. I think it is wrong. The statement is still fine. Is this being homophobic? I do not think so. And even if it is, a person is still allowed to think what they want, even if you do not agree with it. Doesn’t matter what you label it as.
just because you are a homophobe, that doesn’t mean that it is “right” to participate in name calling, violence, or disrespect. just because you don’t agree with the church doesn’t mean you need to go and vandalize or disrupt church activities, you could simply just keep it to yourself and not participate. that way, you’re happy, and so is everyone else.
I thought the OP was talking about talking, based on the word ‘remark’ . From that you could say thinking as it requires thought to talk. You took it to the level of physicality. I mentioned nothing of being violent or vandalizing. That is taking it too far. I can see how things can end up there, but let us leave that out of the equation for now.I still do not think people should be so hard on homophobes. Not everybody has to agree with each other or share the same views.
To Scott:You need to realize that it is not a personal choice to be L, G, B, or T. It IS a personal choice to affiliate with a specific religion or to take that religion to any extreme. Your analogy lacks all credibility on this alone.You are certainly entitled to your own set of beliefs and opinions but to oppress another group based on those beliefs or opinions is simply wrong.I wouldn’t necessarily call every person who doesn’t agree with homosexuality ‘Homophobic’. Homophobia has to do with persecution and humiliation (taunting, pointing, laughing, etc.) based on a fear or ignorance of what homosexuality really is. People who simply don’t agree with it and who leave it at that are not actually homophobic. When people start voicing these opinions in mixed groupings or when they start to take action toward gay or lesbian people…then it becomes homophobic (and possibly abusive).
Its within your right to be straight, but it really isn’t your business if someone else is or isn’t. If it bothers someone that you see two guys holding hands that’s your issue not theirs, so even a remark is something that is infringing on their rights.However, it is a free society with free speech. So you are within your rights to voice your feelings. I just don’t see how it really affects you either way (unless they start making out AND roll onto your lap or something)
It’s obvious he didn’t ‘love’ you but used you for drunken booty call. If he loved you he wouldn’t tollerate the hate. The fact that he does means that he knew he wasn’t going to be with you and you provided good head. He probably justified it by being the one on top hence he’s not gay rule.Remember, sometimes the law of jail rules apply…
I don’t think the sex of the OP or bitchee was given
Being cast off as “trade” is almost a gay rite of passage. If they say they’re straight, do your best not to fall in love with them, unless you want to be someone’s sex experiment. The only challenge in that is picking up the pieces when they’re tired of you.
Thanks Kahlin