I still miss you. I can’t stop thinking about you. You said you didn’t want to fuck it up? Well, you did. Now please come back and fix it.

I know you’re enjoying what you’re doing right now, but is it REALLY worth it? You’re missing out on a lot of fun things here too, you know. There are a lot of people who miss you.

I hope you get your fill soon. Or, I hope I get over you sooner. —Drinking tea alone

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  1. this has to be a female, ole sucks is here to provide ANY comfort you need. and fuck, you just might really like it enough, to make an ongoing thing. come see me, i’ll be waiting.

  2. Doesn’t sound like a soldier to me…sounds like a guy who dumped his wife for another woman and she is just sitting around drinking tea waiting for him to stop enjoying fucking a brand new pussy and come crawling back.

    I hope she has a shitload of tea, ’cause I think it’s gonna be a long wait

  3. I’m enjoying your comments. And it’s making me more sad/angry (and yet happy?) that you’re all pretty far off the mark. He treated me like gold. He’s actually one of the few good guys out there and he left to go work. The good ones are hard to get over.

  4. If he left for “work” why do you have to get over him? If he cares about you and you care about him you can do the long distance thing for a while then decdie where you should be together.

    Of course when a guy tells you that he doesn’t want to “fuck it up” and you refer to his work as his “getting his fill” it ain’t meant to be honey because you don’t respect what he does and he does not want to be with you anyway, otherwise he would be trying to make it work

  5. Then why don’t you move to where he’s going, if it’s a permanent change. If it’s a term thing, then just suck it up and let him get the job done. Of course he could quit and work for Rotten Ronnie’s or a call center.

    I know too many people who changed their lives for a “loved one”, only to get fucked in the end.

  6. Why does this sound eerily similar to my situation… identify yourself immediately, OP! Though I don’t think it’s you, unless your initials are AM and do you live in PL? Fuck I hope not!

  7. nah q., it couldn’t be who you think, she would have better sense than to leave choice meat as you no doubt are. be lucky for what you have, if you have it. you could wind up like the ole suckster here. alone, bored, and most times morose. but hey, at least i can use the bitch board as a playground. and yes, i’m looking. if interested, get hold of me. i don’t have very high standards, living, breathing, female, and semi human, that last is a plus.

  8. It’s a tricky situation. First of all, she’s all the way there and I’m all the way here, plus we never had anything really too big. I kept wanting to keep it more casual, but she’s a really nice girl and I think she’s really into me, more than most girls, which is a plus, sometimes. Sometimes it’s nice to be loved, other times it’s a bit annoying! I shouldn’t feel smothered when she’s 3,000 km away from me.

    I’m still not 100% sure on her, but I know of so many guys who’ve let something good go just because it wasn’t good enough and end up regretting it the rest of their lives because they never end up finding something better. I don’t want to be one of those guys. Some say never settle for second best, while others say once you have something good, hold onto it. This one’s tricky.

    I’ll give her your email address though Gary, but I don’t think she’s into guys over 30. On the other hand, have you met my mother? She’s 60, a bit overweight, but very sweet and looking for love!

  9. Yay for matchmaking! Hey zZz, if it works out with q’s mom and LS, your total for the spring could be reduced to 7! Spring is also the time of new loooooove!

    Meanwhile, OP, I hear ya on trying to get over someone who’s left. It’s so tough, especially if it was something special. Don’t drink tea alone, surround yourself with friends and keep busy. That helped me…

  10. oh, I don’t think new love really cancels out separating…
    the split still happened, technically.
    but the overall ratio is certainly affected.

    and if by spring is the time for new love, you mean beaches, golf, and more kitchen parties… then sign me up.

  11. i don’t dislike the players, just the game…i used to caddy for my gramps, i loved him

  12. ok, substitute golf with margaritas…
    hell, include the margaritas with the golf and you may find that you like it!

  13. well ok… but you do need the tube socks all the way up to the knees and shorts that button above your belly button.
    that swanky hat wouldn’t hurt either with the pom pom on top

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