Why are there hardly any decent girls online? Only fatties and skanks going nowhere!
Anytime I actually come across a good-looking girl with a good career, I’ll write to her but she won’t write back! I put up 5 pictures, full view, of myself. The good catches either don’t write back to me or they tell me I’m not right for them!
FUCK! Why not? Am I not good looking? …Yes I am! I am fun and I like to travel. I’m going to school. And I make $20000 a year! Hello, I’m the catch!
Sorry if I’m being conceited. This other day a girl wrote to me, she had no pic, but we seemed to get along famously. Then she finally showed me her pic: ARG! Not good-looking at all!
Why oh why won’t it work out for me? Why can’t I get a woman who meets this criteria: Good paying job, nice, likes to travel, likes to have fun, 7-9 range (on a scale from 1-10 for good looks), educated.
PS: anyone who reads this who’s single and meets this criteria, let me know! I need the right girl! —Single and NOT a loser!!
This article appears in Aug 5-11, 2010.
I hear ya! Th BS on those sites is off the charts! I am done with them. I guess its back to the bars! Fuck!
Maybe it’s because you’re shallow… I’m not saying I’m a prince, but you seriously don’t know why you’re not getting any play?
Holy Shit this is hilarious! This is a joke right? It has to be.
“I make $20000 a year! Hello, I’m the catch!” LMFAO!!
Why, oh why, aren’t there any hot girls online? Probably because hot girls don’t need a dating site to find a boyfriend, you ignorant fuck!
You’re a student, you say? A student of what? God I hope you’re not a sociology or psychology major or something like that, because your understanding of how humans interact is severely lacking.
Try Jersey Shore.
oh my fucking god!!!…i agree ..this has to be a joke…
Exactly! Try being gay in this city and finding a ‘normal’ gay guy who isn’t:
a) fat and/or ugly (they seem to go together)
b) on drugs
c) working in a call center
d) obsessed with reflections
e) a high school drop out
I believe most of the educated, smart, and cute girls (like myself) with good paying jobs that happen to be single are not necessarily looking for students that make half what we do. Just sayin.
BT – Brilliant!!
full view pictures…like naked?
Walk away from your monitor…..actually leave the house….go somewhere that is of interest to you…..voila, there are girls interested in the same fucking thing you are!
Talk to one or more and make a plan for the next time.
20k? How is that a point in your favor?
Isn’t like 40-50k the national average?
A) You are not black.
B) You are not rich.
Guys are much nicer, not nearly as aggressive, judgemental, controlling and cruel as women.
The “New Deal” is just not on. Sorry. They can all fuck the same rich black man until the end of time for all I care.
Ooh western woman,
Ooh western girl…
$20K? Pretty funny man, Reality check here bud… you know what a house and car costs now? You know they all expect to have at least one of each?
Women are for the rich, and you son, are not rich.
Pfft, black people aren’t rich. You ever see “Ghetto Pool”?
Oh BT…you read my mind!
Mind you, money isn’t everything.
Also…I’m sure most “decent single girls” aren’t signed up for only dating because they actually have the social ability to strike up a convorsation with someone in person? That or their just sick of being sexually harassed online by fat (and/or) ugly men.
So I ask—where are all the decent single men who aren’t fat or ugly (and who make more than 20K a year)??? It’s a two way street OP…maybe you just don’t meet the cut?
**online dating** my bad
Just because you put up pictures doesn’t mean you aren’t ugly as ass.
Which is why the girls you’re going for online probably don’t write back.
And the types of girls you’re looking for aren’t on dating sites because they likely don’t NEED one. I doubt your awesomeness if you REALLY rely on a dating site to get a gf who meets your high standards, dude.
However, I’m kind on the same side of the fence as the others with: this HAS to be a joke, right?
Also BT: right the fuck ON!
Seb: ok, now I’m interested. Post some pics dude. 😛
Sounds like he has champagne taste on a beer budget.
This is so funny. Honestly, man, I think you’re too picky. You are EXACTLY whats wrong with men in our society… too focused on the perfect woman (re: “7-9 range”).
If you’re really THAT great, why are you trying to find a girl online? Surely there are plenty of women in your 7-9 range all over HRM.
dude the fact that you thought you had to splain the number ranking system says to me there might be some ummm issues with you 🙂
If OP has “full view” pictures and women say he isn’t “right” for them, that can only mean one thing.
OP is ugly. (If you were thinking I would say something naughty, you deserve a hug.)
hahahahahahahaha!!!! you gotta be kidding me! as a proffesional woman, and not bad looking if i do say so myself (and apparently i do and am doing so right now)…there is no way i would want to touch this guy with a ten foot pole covered in purell. let’s begin with the use of the words “fattie” and “skank.” your very obviously lack of intelligence comes across as soon as you begin communication. and 20000 a year? you think that’s some kind of accomplishment? pair your obvious lack of success with your obvious lack of intelligence and your a catch all right…one i’d throw back. this bitch is so insulting to women it’s disgusting. grow up.
skinnyvanillalatte – You are EXACTLY whats wrong with men in our society… too focused on the perfect woman (re: “7-9 range”).
Can you elaborate on this?
also – where is LIFE SUCKS?? a poster has identified herself as a single female? Is he sick? on vacation?
Usually when someone here says they are female he crashes through the friggin wall like the cool-aid guy.
he’s all happy and less suckful now hence his libido has toned down 🙁
I’m not the OP but…. To all you people belittling 20k a year, fuck you! I make a little more than that but hey at least I work. I have cash in the bank and no debt so it’s not like I’m visiting food banks. Eventually I’m going back to school in an effort to up my income but for now, this is what I make. And if some chick doesn’t like it, tough shit. I don’t want some stuck up bitch that thinks she’s better than me.
As for the OP: You sound desperate. Women don’t like that. Stop it.
that’s why i gave up on the idea of my ponn farr o.p. not enough females that are interested in the mating ritual. all they seem to want is some dolt playing video games all fucking day.good luck finding a female that is accepting. as to the class you describe, hey, they give better lovin’ than some of the miss universe types.
jeal2004 – Agreed, but please learn to spell and edit before you start bitching about someone else’s intelligence.
Here are just two examples of the mess you posted:
– take off the “ly” in “your very obviously lack of intelligence”
– turn “your” into “you’re” when you mean “you are”
dgaf – It’s completely fine that a student is making 20K a year. It’s just slightly ridiculous that he expects beautiful women with degrees and careers to be falling head over heels for him all around town. Looks and money aren’t everything but there has to be some compatibility. I know I would want a man who can afford to do the things that I can afford. That’s not greedy. It just makes sense.
@lovinglife – in my experience, and those my friends have gone through, I think men expect women to be perfect… perfect body, smooth skin, nice rack, nice smile… the slightest imperfection (i.e. an extra 5 lbs, a weird birthmark, etc) can easily knock a beautiful girl from 8 to 7. The OP put emphasis on looks (re: emphasis on seeing a photo of the individual before ‘getting to know them’) in his bitch, so whether or not he claims to want a woman with a good career, educated, and all the other bullshit he listed, ultimately if shes not good-looking, its a complete dealbreaker — BEFORE even speaking with her. THAT is what’s wrong with men in our society.
I think women can be guilty of the same thing. When it comes to men they sometimes have higher expectations than most guys are able to meet, even though they may be interesting, articulate, considerate guys, if they aren’t the whole package they are rejected. How much a role does the media’s emphasis on physical perfection play in our search for a mate?
@oceanlady – very true. And in regards to the media, I think it plays a much bigger role in this than we are all willing to admit.
OP’s a hypocrite: he’s bitching about women doing the same thing he does (i.e.: they see his picture and say ‘nah, not my type’).
But, what we see in the mirror isn’t necessarily what the rest of the world sees. Kind of like a “shallow hal” but mistaking how he looks, himself. And the type of women OP goes for might not be attracted to the type of guy OP is…either that or they can smell the eau d’asshole he’s bathed himself in a mile away. Or maybe it’s eau d’entitlement….either or
I met my man online, so it is possible. But there were a lot of guys like who assumed they were a catch, but really aren’t. Personally, I wouldn’t want to date a student (they never have time for you or they’re pursuing a field that they’ll never get a job in, especially in NS) so that could be a deterrent. I would encourage you to meet people outside of what you’d normally look for, maybe you’ll be surprised.
It could be worse, OP. Some dumb cooze at a concert professed her undying love for Justin Bieber by drifting a full water bottle at his head. And the little nonce had the gall to cry about how it hurt. Wait’ll he’s in his 40’s, living at the Dakota with his Japanese conceptual artist boyfriend and some Holden Caulfield wannabe approaches him for an autograph.
(Oooooh. Even Ivan found that one in bad taste) >; )
OP, you can’t be that much of a “catch” being so self centered, and trying to find a connection through on-line dating.
You say that you’re a student? That you have a job? Try looking for someone in your class, or where you work. At least you know you have something in common…
Then again, the chicks you see in real life have probably figured you for the douche nozzle you really are
Haha. Ivan, do you even know who Justin Beiber is?
Sadly, I do. I labor Monday to Friday for a company that is accutely aware of the slice of the market share pie graph that is currently occupied by tweenage girls. I know much, that I wish I did not. >: (
Hahah, a 7-9 on the scale.
Just letting you know…when you’re a pompus jack ass 7-9’s aren’t interested in you…and neither should the rest of the “un dateables”
Get a lifee pal.
Ps, 20,000…really…isn’t that impressive, sorry. Maybe 30, or even 35.
Pps, money isn’t everything.
Ppps, the way you’re talking, you’re probably lacking in the bedroom.
Cheers.
I make a good living and I make 3.5 times as much as you do. $20,000 does not constitute a “good-career” paying job, so I don’t know why you have such high standards for the girls you want to date.
No offense, but who the hell do you think you are judging people online… You expect girls to want you because you’re so called “good looking”… well beauty comes from the inside and as far as I can tell from your less than 200 word essay up there, you’re a pretty ugly mother fucker yourself, so stop judging these girls.
And yes, you ARE a loser!
whew……..i’m glad im a “fattie” and out of his range
Yup, I suspect your life would be a little nicer (not sarcasm) if you knew not of the gayest unicorn to have ever lived and people like Lady CaCa. Seriously we need to start giving humans (likeeeeeeee the OP and the aforementioned) ‘right to exist passes’ that can be revoked at any time … mm yes.
PK: you are on the right track with the “eau d’ ” train of thought. Scientific research has proven that we are attracted to people’s natural smells because it matches us with people of compatable immune systems in order to produce the strongest offspring. Physical attraction plays a role too. This is likely part of the reason why relying on dating sites to meet others can be difficult. It is also the cause of so many mismatches when olfactory attraction becomes the determining factor in selecting a mate. Perhaps people who are overpowering their natural fresh aroma with chemical scents are going against nature in their quest to find someone. Just a thought…
i’ve seen your picture vot…not true^^i’m missing the bear smell, but he’ll be back tonight
Because you sound shallow and insecure.
Sure physical attraction is important but its not everything. Because I’m not a size 2 makes me not dateable? I don’t think so.
Get over yourself. I don’t blame the girls for not responding to you.
Why does OP care where she works? Lots of intelligent women don’t have the chance to go to university and a lot of the ones who do graduate uni don’t always end up with great jobs.
Try expanding your horizons and maybe you’ll find someone. I would at a min-wage job with a lot of intelligent people who all have degrees but can’t find work in their field.
People like this are why I would never go on a dating website.
Without strong attraction there is no spark. It’s a necessity, and to think otherwise is absolutely ridiculous. Some people look for true love, while others look to cure loneliness.
Yeah, I’m miserable.
Why would a student, probably surrounded all day by young hunnies, be on an online dating site? These sites are more for ppl too old or isolated to meet others in person or at bars, not for those in the middle of live action.
Making 20k/year as a student is admirable. I hope you didn’t mention this fact online though. Sounds like OP needs lots of help.
Here is my advice. Start getting with the uglies, and work your charm on them. Once you have a couple dozen under ur belt and develop a better way with women, then u can start tryin for stuff outta ur league. Meanwhile, stop whining, its pathetic. The world’s not all about u. Its about Veeny. And THAT OP, is what gets the ladies..lol
yea really; what veeny says; when I was in Hali I happened across the Dal. campus (I was umm checking out adult ed. studies yea that’s it trying to better myself yep:) and it was babeapalooza there; if you can’t find some companionship like i said before you may have issue OP
***the first line of my post initially read… Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but without strong attraction there is no spark.***
It shouldn’t be taken out of context.
Don’t waste any keystrokes…
Maybe you are looking in the wrong place, bud.
20k ?? That has to be a joke.
I’m a single, white, 20 year old female making 48k a year in a growing career field… DARN, too bad I’m a fattie, might have got me a catch!!
a swf 20 and making 48 thousand a year hmmm… how do you feel about weird ,poor, old dudes that live far far away 🙂
I think the desperate and clingy personality is enough to answer your own questions….