To the guy who rejected me: Okay, you rejected me, I’ll get over it and find another (better) man. It’s your own loss. What I find hilarious and fucking ridiculous is the sole reason *why* you didn’t want me. I am smart, successful and fun to be with. I’m in very good shape with a toned “hourglass” figure, I have very symmetrical facial features, acne-free skin…need I go on? I won’t lie, I’m not exactly undatable.
Your reason for turning down my dinner invitation: I HAVE FRECKLES! “I’m not really into girls with a lot of freckles”, you told me. Am I the only one who finds this absolutely ridiculous? Granted, some people don’t like freckles (and some do). But for fuck’s sake, you would honestly prefer to date a really fat, lazy chick with a big nose and bad acne (for example) as long as she didn’t have any fucking freckles???!!!!!
No wonder you’ve been single for over a year, dumb shit!
—I have Freckles, so fucking what!
This article appears in Jun 4-10, 2009.
Did it occur to you it had nothing to do with your freckles?
As “hilarious and fucking ridiculous” and you may find this OP, bottom line is you got rejected.
Wait… that is hilarious. 🙂
to the OP. The fact that you need to state all of your good qualities indicates to me that you have self esteem issues. Maybe it has nothing to do with freckles.
Or could it possibly be that the guy is just grossed out by freckles? Everyone has their own definition of what they do or don’t find attractive in the opposite sex, and there’s nothing they can do to change that.
Just be happy that he gave you a reason at all, else you’d probably be bitching about that too.
Yeah I agree with kay and bobby. There is good chance, judging by your attitude here anyway, that it was more than just the freckles that turned him off.
“But for fuck’s sake, you would honestly prefer to date a really fat, lazy chick with a big nose and bad acne (for example) as long as she didn’t have any fucking freckles???!!!!! No wonder you’ve been single for over a year, dumb shit! “
Did it ever occur to you that people sometimes want to date people for what’s on the inside too?? Seriously, get over yourself or you’ll be lonely for a long time and it will have nothing to do with your freckles.
OP, let’s go drinking. I love freckles.
Guess your only option is to make like Lindsay and get a deep skin facial peel.
brains big giant brains sexy and right some tasty too maybe your perfect packaging isn’t the bomb but freckles are sweeeet
Freckles are hot. Especially on gingers. Being a freckleless (yes, I made up a word) ginger myself, I think freckles are cute as hell!
The guys at my work loooovvvvveee freckles on women – this guy you went out with obviously needed an excuse but, holy fuck, what a lame one. Be glad this one’s gone – I pity the poor woman he ends up with.
Full of your self much….jesh
I’m with TTFN and a couple of others. It sounds more like an excuse, but a very lame excuse. However you do seem to be focusing on outward appearances..maybe dude got that and decided to put you down a notch?
Can I play “Connect the Dots”? :o)
You sound really superficial. You probably started pulling a “he’s just not that into you” move and started bugging him about going on a second date, so he probably spewed out that bullshit answer to get you off his back. If you’re everything you say you are (and more, I’m sure) then why don’t you just move on to someone more fantastic? Also, it’s none of your business regarding why he’s been single so long.
Personally I think most of you are being pretty hard on the OP. She’s probably hurting, if she really liked this guy. No one likes to be rejected for whatever reason. Sorry OP. Hope you have better luck in the future. Keep smiling!
OP there are hundreds of thousands of single men and women out there, and I personally feel that no one should “settle” for anyone who doesn’t warm their heart and make them feel lucky to be together every day. While you sound (as per your description) to be a very attractive woman, maybe the guy doesn’t picture his dream girl as having freckles. His loss, don’t worry about it. There are other guys out there who go gaga for cute freckled ladies such as yourself. To state that you will find a “better” man (thanks for getting Pearl Jam stuck in my head, btw), is being petty though. What you should have done was wish him luck in his search, keep smiling, and give the next eligible bachelor a chance. Wouldn’t you rather be with a guy who thinks you’re the butter to his toast instead of a guy who is attracted to all but a few of your features? Good luck!
I agree with Vexi. Take your “symmetrical features” and shove them up your ass.
I love freckles, but only in moderation. When they start to creep down your arms and chest is when it gets bad. I have only sparse, light brown freckles on my nose and upper cheeks and I’m proud of them. You rock those spots, girl.
I enjoy green eyes.
kay said it best. That much self-centredness will turn off many a guy, and this guy here was too polite to tell you so he copped out with freckles.
Agree w/NGF. Green eyes are quite attractive.
I wish I had green eyes
I wish you did too.
Jane, you can borrow mine. I’m not really using them anyway.
I’ve met lots of guys who like freckles, and not a whole lot who don’t. In the summer my freckles come out on my face and I’ve been told I look absolutely adorable *blush*
ANYWAY, just so you know, OP, there are men out there who aren’t into “toned hour glass” body types, and like girls with a bit of meat on their bones. And no, not every girl who isn’t “toned” is fat and lazy.
Perhaps you’re a butterface, OP? What someone sees in the mirror doesn’t necessarily reflect what others see. OR maybe you’re too cocky for words?
Freckles just seems like a cop out to me (unless you’re one of those orange-headed chicks COVERED in freckles….I could see how that could be a turn off to some).
Wow. I’m bitchy today.
Hey onion, that fucking weirded me out, you little rapist. Please relieve yourself with your dog or something before you abduct a child, psycho.
PS: Yes, Dino has green eyes. Be jealous 😉
Shit, I’m bitchy too today. Thursdays suck?
onion’s comment made me laugh out loud.
Don’t hate her cuz she’s beautiful…
I laughed too :S
Did it occur to you that he might find a girl who is just as “wonderful” as you but without freckles? Just because he doesn’t like your freckles doesn’t automatically mean he wants a girl who is your complete opposite.
OP, you’re the kind of person that is only hot when your mouth is shut.
Here’s some advice, work on building some fucking character, because once your looks fade (and they will) no one will want your shitty self-centered superficial attitude AND your grubby old body. I don’t care how “smart, successful, and fun to be with” you think you are, right now guys are only putting up with you because they are compensated by your looks… and your pussy.
Dino! I have green eyes too! *high five* Really dark green eyes! We are HOT!
Dino Jr., you are definitely bitchy today. Take two cocks and call me in the morning.
With pleasure, onion. And I won’t call you, I’ll come to your house and give you a present. But it’s a secret.
There’s a reason and the real reason. It goes both ways. Both sexes do it. It’s called a blow-off.
Personally I deem freckles NOT hot. However, they are insatiably adorable. Which I sometimes prefer to hotness, believe it or not. But no amount of freckles can male a shitty attitude cute. Thus my opinion of the OP stands.
ugh, *make*