Incase some of you women out there haven’t noticed, the english language is full of loopholes, and massive ambiguities of meaning. If I’m interacting with you in a date like setting and I mention my job as a requirement for communicating a story; you would most likely think I was trying to impress you to get you in bed. Whereas, if I didn’t talk about my job, you would think I was trying to hide something. You see, a lot of these sweet talkers can avoid all these INNEVITABLE loopholes and give you the illusion of the perfect guy “my goodness, no questions or issues came up, he must be a good guy, why else would it be”, when really your dealing with a man who isn’t being straightforward. I have yet to be impressed or see this specific form of “womans'” intuition. It seems to get in the way of a lot of woman using their heads.
This article appears in Jan 31 – Feb 6, 2008.
What are you Ron Jeremy or James Bond or something? What kind of job can you possible have that you are afraid of impressing the pants off a lady over? And I don’t think I have ever heard of a guy complaining about that before. Or, maybe you can’t talk about your job without sounding like a cocky jerk, and they are turned off about that, not because they are too impressed to sleep with you. Or maybe you are a standup guy and going out with some real flakey chicks or something.
Stop trying to getting into a girl’s head before getting into her pants.Let her do the talking . You’ll find what she likes to talk about, and go from there.Is your life so boring that talking about your job is the only topic you can think of to keep a lady interested, other than buying her another drink? Maybe it’s the only thing you talk about, so they start to yawn.Ya, and if you are indeed trying to be a standup guy,being funny once in a while is fine, but all night… hey she might get tired laughing and sum up you’re the joke.We won’t go into what Miles call real flakey chicks,that’s another load of interplanetary debris we have lots of here.
Easy lol, I can tell you are feeling frisky, but take no offense, I was just being coloquial. I only meant that this guy seems like he is interested in women who are more deep than shallow, and maybe that’s why he’s not connecting with them. So I meant “flakey” as in 2-dimensional, not to be confused with “flakey” with some sort of skin condidtion. And I meant “chick” as in “chick” ‘cus chicks are cool, flakey or not.
hey Miles, good to hear from you. that’s cool, i know what you mean. and yes,i took flakey to mean 2 d .i agree chicks are cool, ..but ..flakey, hmm,not sure if i agree with you on that last part. but everything’s ok :Pfrisky i am, but not in a vindictive way. i just like pulling the cranks once in a while , heh heh, if you know what i mean ;)but not on you, you’re cool, cheers.