To my hubby: I’m so sorry about last night, I love you so much and I never want to lose you through my own stupidity. I want to thank you for always being there for me and putting up with my drunken escapades and always forgiving me when I’ve done something that upsets you. I never want to hurt you, I just don’t always think about my actions and the consequences they have. I love you more than anything and I’m sorry. —Your Lady Forever (I Hope)
This article appears in May 5-11, 2011.
“I just don’t always think about my actions and the consequences they have” -Well Time to think about them OP!! He may have forgiven you the 1st, 2nd and third time but there will be a breaking point and if this man really means that much to you then maybe you shouldn’t fucken drink! Actions speak louder than words so make the effort to be a better wife and stop these shenanigans instead of apologizing!
Yep, I agree RC. You sure do learn that lesson the hard way. Man up, lady, and stop putting yourself in the position where you’ll hurt the ones you love. You need to lose the selfishness to hold onto the special people in your life. If he’s worth it, do it. Or he’ll decide you aren’t worth it.
Yeah, nothin worse than a stupid drunk bitch. It happens to the best of us but when it becomes a pattern it’s time to get help.
Alcohol is the worst of all drugs in my opinion because it’s the easiest to obtain, its relatively cheap compared to coke or heroin or even weed, and very very socially acceptable, to the point where people look at you kind of funny when you say you don’t drink. There are no billboards for crack, or lavish parties sponsored by heroin, or million dollar TV commercials for crystal meth. There’s also no store for these drugs.
And you drink it, you don’t smoke it or pop a pill or inject it. People tend not to realize it’s a problem till its too late. I think people don’t think of the risks before they have their first drink. I don’t think that’s the case with other drugs, everyone knows crack, for example, is bad, but drinking isn’t looked at like that.
my 2 cents.
I know my ex was a drunken drama queen at times and man does it get old fast. Please drink responsibly.