To the guy in a white van on the corner of Agricola & Cunard at 12:30 pm on August 19th, 2009 who blared his horn at my mother because he didn’t like the way she was riding her bicycle: She pulled up to you and said “Hey, I have my rights, too.” and you yelled “Suck my c**k, you f**king n***er! Suck my c**k!”, over & over & over. I want you to know that she felt stunned and sad and violated and powerless because of your racist and violent words. She thought you might get out and beat her up. Maybe you talk to your mother this way. Maybe you don’t mind other people talking to your mother this way. But I mind. I love my mother and she is the most giving, kind person in the world.

To the adolescent boy sitting in the passenger seat of your van: I believe you had a life-altering moment, because you saw the look of pain and fear and heartbreak on my mother’s face. Maybe you imagined someone speaking to your mother this way. Maybe he speaks to your mother this way. If that is your father, take heart: you will be able to leave home in a matter of years and be free. You have the power to grow up to be a better man than this guy. You have the power to be a man who loves and respects women. —Still Angry Two Years Later

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  1. Just thinking about someone doing this to my Mom is making me burst blood vessels in my head that even a neurosurgeon wouldn’t know existed. I’m not surprised it is still with you both. Hug your Mom tight. I know that she knows there is decency in this world, but hug her tight all the same.

  2. Congratz on being the better person and not smashing his car or his skull. Somone said some shit to my mom one time while we were driving, I wanted to go curb stomp him but my mom just kept driving, she didn’t want me to do anything stupid. Don’t stoop to this asshole’s level, he definitely hates himself.

    Try and get over it OP, or he wins. I’ve had some bullshit happen to me that I held on to for a long time, and would sometimes work myself into a rage when I thought of it, then I realized that I was only hurting myself and I should let it go. I’m happier now for it.

    I hope you fuckin closet racists on here (and I know there are some) understand that your bullshit helps contribute to this kind of fuckery.

  3. This is deplorable.

    Absolutely awful.

    I *was* going to post a certain video after reading the title of this bitch, but that would be in bad taste. Even for LTWWB.

  4. Christ, some people just can’t get over things. OB, that was two fucking years ago. Time to move on. Lame bitch.

  5. Well, I guess that proves that Sebaceous doesn’t have a mother. How does it go?
    Some retard fish assfucked a monkey, the santorum ran into the harbour, settled to the bottom, commingled with an aborted fetus that then sprouted vestigial legs and walked into the nearest used car lot that had a help wanted sign. My theory may not be Dawkins, but I think it holds water.

  6. Typical fuckin’ racist is a typical fuckin’ coward yelling at somebody’s mom. Suck my c**k Aryan Nations white power fucknuts!

    Did I mention they started the ECT again?

  7. Does that mean the next woman who takes on old Randle Patrick McMurphy is gonna light up like a Christmas tree and pay off in silver dollars?

  8. they actually called her a nagger.holy shit, the world will end on that word. you lucky they didn’t pull a gun, gangsta style, and blow her away. it copuld happen. rain makes people do crazy shit, just look at the faces, on the weather shows, when they give out bad storm reports. all smiles and shit. but i digress, they actually said that to her. you aren’t trying to, you know, embellish it a lot. that’s my take and opinion o.p., flame away, see if i give a fuck, because dear one, it wasn’t me, in either place.

  9. 2 years ago… what took you so long to get it off your chest ?
    I doesn’t really matter what this person called your mom, because there is no excuse for someone to treat another person in this way. Especially in front of a child, to carry on in such an ignorant mindless rant at another on a bike is nucking futs !
    The way some of these bicyclists drive around the city , on/off the sidewalk, through crosswalks, running lights really pisses me off, but screaming obscenities isn’t the answer.

  10. OMG 2 years ago and NOW your bitching about it.

    Ok OP let it go, you are the looser in this situation becuase you are still allowing it to bothering you, instead of realizing some people are just assholes.

    Move on and enjoy the rest of your life

  11. you know guys, i suspect this bitch is just a flamer to start some more racial tension, as if we need any more ever. 2 years, yep, sounds to me like a b.s. story, everyone has a mom, no matter what color, and something said like this is bound to burn over half of us.
    yep, i call serious bullshit here, prove me wrong o.p.

  12. Well if it happens again tell your mom to tell him “I would if I could find something so small.” Yeah the guy was a fuckhead. As for the teenager, he or she has probably said worse.

  13. I don’t support racism, and I don’t support rudeness to bicyclers.

    But, do yourself a favor. It takes a tremendous amount of energy to stay angry for 2 years. Try using that energy in a better way.

  14. Yeah wheelie,

    Translation:

    i’m, an asshole. and, I, really think, someone would care enough, to start some racial tension on lttwb, for laughs.

    I also, come from a time when, hurling, racial slurs at people, was no big deal, in fact, it, was, encouraged.

    I’m, a, senile, old, bigoted, internet, toughguy.

    Much clearer now.

  15. *peep peep, toot toot* Now why you making personal attacks and assumptions? Is it because of things you’ve read before in his posts? I think sucks will tell you quite a different story about himself, perhaps you’ve got him all wrong? But it’s ok, we’re all guilty of doing this though …
    Dare I mention a word that starts with um the letter after G …

    Anywayyyy,
    TJ, PK and I inadvertently went down this road once with LS. See http://www.thecoast.ca/LovetheWayWeBitch/a… if you care to read it … pretty interesting developments there … we have more than one “lurker” in the forums & some real staunch right wing crackers (yes, I said cracker) who will hold their tongue then let it lose in a most unfashionable manner … that’s no secret …

  16. lol @ “crackers”. Some people really don’t want racism to end because then they’d have one less thing to bitch and moan about.

  17. Lol hey, he said flame away..

    Np wheelie

    Lol guilty, Donk… Touché

    Sucks and I have this thing where we trash each other, as a matter of fact he welcomed me to this forum, if you recall, by basically shitting all in my cornflakes.

    As a result if our ensuing shit flinging my first bitch got printed, and it kind of served as my introduction to this board and all you fine ppls so in a weird way I kinda owe him one. Litle bit of LTWWB history being brought back here.

    But he’s still an old coot:)

    I take back my more serious accusations tho, I just had to take that cue from wheelie, it was caaallin me. What he said was at best racially insensitive though. But he’s from a different time I suppose..

    He’s old enough to speak for himself tho dontcha think? What r u captain save a sucks? Feelin sorry for the old guy? You know as well as I or any of us that he’s more than capable of standing up for himself, crazy old bugger.

  18. Look on the bright side – that young passenger probably realized at that moment, for the first time, that his father was a hateful asshole utterly undeserving of any kind of respect or obedience. That young man’s probably telling his sperm donor to go fuck himself as we speak!

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