Its no wonder I am gay. Some or alot of you girls are such bitches. Ya all are so scary. No wonder I have barely any girlfriends.
I am such a nice guy and some of you want me to be friends and hang out sometimes but man you girls arn’t even nice to eachother. You all talk about eachother behind your backs you even trash eachother.
Unfortunatly I have always had to deal with this because I always work in environments where there are lots of girls working.
I should just assume that all girls who wear lots of make-up and act like they are the hottest thing on the planet are truly the most bitchiest meanest sickafant crazy girls.
Also those women who made it into managers positions I don’t care who you sucked to get the job. I hate women bosses they really do suck almost most of them have treated me like shit.
also telling people about your bar stories of how you got soo drunk and got kicked out and in the drunk tank or ended up with a bunch of guys who you don’t know in your room, is not a story to be told. Not Hot.
WHATEVER girls
This article appears in Jul 10-16, 2008.
such a nice guy, eh? doesn’t sound like it.Seriously, are you for real? you start it out by saying you’re gay, BUT the whole thing reads like the rant from a boy who’s been turned down waayy to many times and now assumes all girls are evil.we’re not. we just don’t like you.I always find it amusing, when people make those sweeping comments like ‘all women bosses they really do suck’ (ps get some punctuation)- if EVERYONE else around you sucks, and the same situation keeps repeating over and over (i.e you find yourself with petty friends who bash each other behind their backs, or bosses treat you like shit) maybe it isn’t them. it’s you. after all, you are the common denominator here.
Hedqy, quit being such a sickafant.Not hot, hedgy. NOT HOT.
WHATEVER qwerty.(you don’t know me…I do what I want…I run with 12 gangs…we commit hate crimes….)ps for those who don’t know that was a SP reference.
hedgy: we’ve been indoctrined by our society to think that sweeping comments aren’t fair and that everyone deserves individual treatment and that we’re all butterflies and innocent until proven guilty etc and so onBut sometimes it’s true that the majority of a certain group (such as, say, female managers) are just straight bitches. And that’s not to say they are, but you have to open your mind up to the possibility that maybe it’s true instead of just shutting out the concept entirely.As for girls being mean to each other, I can say from experience that some girls are very good at being very mean to each other. Why do girls have such a hate on for each other? Envy? Competition? It gets nasty, man.
sickafant!..that is all.
Hedgy, don’t make me get all up in your face in here.Alexander – most female bosses ARE bitches. Then again, most of my male bosses have been nasty stereotypes whose wives just don’t understand them… blech… maybe it’s bosses in general that draw succulently upon the anal cavity?
All I was saying was that often, people who make sweeping generalizations are more to blame for the circumstances than the people they’re blaming. so with female managers: I think it could be said there are a lot of terrible managers out there, male and female. I DON’T think women managers are more likely to be particularly worse than any other flavour of management. BUT some people may notice issues with female managers more- as women are still more likely to be called bitchy when they’re authoritative than men, and being authoritative is sort of a big part of being a manager.So maybe if you or the OP think female managers are generally worse, it’s because you actually have a problem having a woman in charge of you. or maybe you perceive female ways of communicating directions as ‘nagging’ or less direct or more annoying or whatever than when a male manager does the same thing. maybe it’s because girls are generally socialized to be more social than men- meaning female managers are more likely to try to bond with their staff, whcih can be annoying in and of itself, and cause more problems when they do need to step back and be in charge. basicallyw aht I’m saying is that yeah, some generalizations will have a grain of truth. but when you have the same problem, over and over and over again, maybe it’s not everyone else, but you who’s the problem.as for girls having a hate on for each other, I’mw ith you there. not all girls, mind you, but girls can be catty and mean to each other. I think it’s because when girls fight we don’t just punch each other and it’s done, we drag it out and talk about it and talk about it to everyone and their dog and beat it to death. this is why I hang out with guys. or you know, mature people. cuase guys can be JUST as petty and backstabby.
I’ve had experiences where I’ve witnessed girls acting this way. I tend to avoid large groups of women for this reason.About two years ago, I volunteered with a fundraising group in the hopes of getting to know people. I’d had considerable experience with what I’d volunteered to do (in another province), so I figured no problem. I won’t say the group, but it was all women. It was the most miserable experience of my professional life- the hostility was amazing. Enough to scare me off volunteer work for a long, long time.Now, I get to know girl friends on an individual level. I refuse to engage in the catty behaviour, and avoid those who do. We aren’t all like that, OP.
Well, I must agree with some of Hedgy’s points…this bitch raises a lot of questions. The OP makes self-aggrandizing comments like “such a nice guy” and has the “hot nice guy” sig. Further, the sweeping generalizations are bash-worthy – the assumption that all women suck to get ahead. Sexist, demeaning, dismissive, and wrong.Maybe the OP spends too much time hanging around the wrong kind of women. Perhaps trying to make friends outside of the bar scene would prove useful in meeting women who are not overly made-up, who do not trash their friends, who are strong and capable leaders and managers, and who are not sycophants.I will give the OP props for using sycophant in the proper context, but your spelling could use 15 seconds at dictionary.com.
Good point – groups of women can be really toxic and mean to each other, yet strangely codependant, but like Tasha and hedgy said, lumping all women into that one group is pretty dumb.
I don’t know about you gals, but i’ve got a solid group of girlfriends who would never act catty, backstabby or sickofanty to one of thier own friends. I think it’s all about sifting through the bullshit to find real friends..and sadly, that can be pretty hard to do.
honestly this OP annoys me. he sounds like the gay male version of exactly what he’s complaining about- vapid, annoying, mean catty people who use words like ‘fierce’ and ‘hot’ far far too often.and five bucks says he’s lurking somewhere now, waiting for everyone to poor-baby his nice-guy self and currently making sweeping generalizations (all those LTWWB people are mean etc) becasue no one will rise to his self- agrandizing attention whore behavior.opps that’s another rant entirely ;)gotta wonder too- most women say they avoid groups of women for this catty behavior, but if this was true, there never would be groups of women! I thinkw e need to embrace our catty- all of us, male and female. EVERYONE is mean, at some point. accept it. own it. LOVE IT.
I’m with you poop, my ladies are great. Nothing but laugh over laughs with each other. These gals are all jokes. But it did take a some back stabbing and cattiness from other “friends” to find these girls.
I’m allergic to cats.I do have a number of female friends, however, who are kind, thoughtful, intelligent and hilarious.
Actually, OP, you’re right. Stick with queer boys for friends. We all know there’s no cattiness there! ; )Seriously, I’ve got girl friends that I’ll have for the rest of my life. But, just like finding the right husband, you’ve got to plow through a few a-holes to find the right ones. Get some perspective, lose the attitude, find some fabulous girls to be fabulous with.
This OP sounds like that toad Robert that used to post here for a while… Very fucking annoying… I even wonder if the OP is a fake…Is he suggesting that he is gay because the girls are mean..??? How retarded is that..??Its a wonder the OP can make friends of any gender with an attitude like that…BTW I have seen many examples of where groups of women/girls are very good to each other, as well as those who are incredibly mean to each other… It all depends on the individuals involved…Hot Nice Guy..??? Give me a fucking break…
yeah, definatly reads like a boy who’s been rejected one to many times, and has decided that all girls are CLEARLY skanks, whores, and vindictivie bitches who can never possibly hope to appreciate or love such a truely nice guy like him….I’d be questioning my ‘hotness’ if this was the case.
One thing I have noticed for sure, on several occasions, is that the one thing you DO NOT want to be is a beautiful, stylishly dressed city girl in a room full of average, casually dressed country girls. Now that shit gets NASTY.
“No wonder I am gay”???? I thought being gay was hard-wired genetically. Are you saying you CHOSE it?Sort of blows the whole “treat them equal because there’s nothing they could do about it” argument right out of the water.
But I agree the OP is probably experiencing this problem because he’s young and gay and out in the clubs and hanging out with his faghags and other general bar trash. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that – we’ve all done it to some degree! But you’re going to run into a lot of shallow and insecure people that way.
The way I interpreted the OP is that he works in retail. Reading the post in that context explains a lot: vapid clerk-girls with too much makeup discussing their drunken escapades, and how far too often, promotion to shift manager or store manager is made from this shallow little pool. Those little darlings are the ones I hope work on commission.