This is lunacy. I find that finding someone who is committed to a relationship, someone who’s sweet and trustworthy, seems to have dried up in all aspects.
Like, my dearest friend can’t get a guy because they either show their true intentions, get bored or just can’t wait to get to know her.
From personal experience of being a gay guy into monogamy, I thought straight people had it better—but in reality it’s not much better at all.
I swear to god that future generation will ask “What’s monogamy?” because there are way too many FWB, open relationships and people looking for hookups. I weep for those who are generally nice people but are surrounded by an ocean of sleaze and unreliable jackasses who will say things just to draw you near and get what they want from you then leave.
—Malh
This article appears in Dec 13-19, 2018.
As a gay man in his mid 50’s, I see nothing wrong. If you don’t like it, go elsewhere.
Social media has a lot of do with this. As face to face interactions decrease, so do the opportunities to meet someone ‘nice’. Aside from the fact that ‘nice’ people are often overlooked & ignored by people looking for love.
I find most people nowadays are lacking in emotions and have the depth of a shot glass. Social media and smartphones are to blame along with our instant gratification culture.