You’re aware of my feelings for you. You’re taking this game you’re playing with my emotions too far for too long for laughs for you and your friends. .You’re still in my thoughts day and night. You know how to contact me but won’t; why?You want me but you don’t trust me? Or,is that part of the game your crowd plays?
I want you but I can’t play this ‘game’ much longer. If I must, it’s going to hurt terribly to have to forget about an “us” and it’s going to take a long time to get you out of my head. Still waiting for your games to end. —Love Zero
This article appears in Apr 4-10, 2013.
People will treat you the way you allow them to.
You know… like.. like..love is nothing. Like in tennis, you know, if the announcer says.. like “forty love”, you know like love isn’t…kinda like.. good.
If he’s “laughing at you with your friends”, OP, wouldn’t it behoove one to say “fuck you” and put them behind you? If you choose to stay, it’s your choice to stay and you should own the fact you’re choosing to put yourself in this toxic situation.
And if the choice is between a) stay and be laughed at, or b) move on and get over it(eventually), shouldn’t you start moving on TODAY?
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Boru, listen to Paul… please.
If this guy cared at all about you he wouldn’t be playing games with you and having a laugh at your expense. It doesn’t sound like he wants you at all. You’re being played and the sooner you realize that and move on, the sooner you can get on with your life. Go get help and learn to love yourself.
I can’t do this anymore.P. I know for a fact your right he doesn’t give a shit.HE IS JUST LAUGHING AT ME WITH HIS FRIENDS…..
He would tell me not to stand for people treating me in the manner he has.This has cut down to the bone.
SUTTHEFUCKUP!
I don’t give a shit about you *thinking* this person is doing whatever you think* he is doing.
Let this sink in, because I am not going to say it ever again:
You are *choosing* to be affected by this person and what you *believe* he is doing.
If he is doing it, get over it. Ignore it and live your life. He’s obviously not worthy of you.
I didn’t even believe you would do another one of these pathetic posts. Why would he want to talk to you now?
It’s over. Move on.
I’m fucking done.
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please don’t post how you “get it” now. Just fucking do it. Get over it, stop trying to get him to come back when he does whatever it is he is doing, move on, get a hobby, buy a puppy, go to a shrink, go to church.
Yeah… screw that guy.
What does he think, he’s unique?
pffft, there’s jerks and assholes abound in this -and any- locale.
It took me 3 days but I pulled off my first impossibottle.
Such a delightful distraction and I found it quite rewarding.
Who knew…. I have a hobby now!
Find yours.
Leave Boroo alone, she sounds like her heart is broken and just wants some advice or to use the love section to communicate her feelings. This guy sounds like he’s a piece of dog shit and so do his friends. That pissy paul guy seems like a dickhead too. Boroo this guy isn’t the one for you, so just forget him. You will get over him and it may take a few weeks, but you’ll meet someone way better. I would suggest not relying on the crew on here for support – they’re a rude pack of bullies.
Fuck you too, No_Fewl. I’ve been giving the same advice for weeks, and gave up being helpful after a couple freakouts. We have no proof the guy is even an actual person, and telling her she’ll “meet someone better is a recipe for disaster. She needs to accept herself and the fact that no other person is going to make her whole- it’s up to her.
And who the hell said we were here for support? It’s a message board, not an AA meeting.
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It’s not?
Oh shit… then I’m in the wrong room.
I’ll just take the free coffee and cookie and be on my way.
This has been going on for MONTHS. The dude she’s into is on the board and she has no other way of contacting him so she does it here. It’s not for support (which, btw that’s not what this board is for). It’s become an obsession, not simply ‘a broken heart.’ I can only imagine what she would do if she DID have his contact details.
I worry for her and I worry for this guy and anyone who gets in the way when she does eventually go off the deep end. I know the signs and she needs to talk to a councellor to help her deal with her emotions. She won’t ever find anyone in the state of mind she’s in right now, and it’s clear she wants that more than anything.
Doesn’t help that you keep bringing it up again all the time either.
Can we all just let it just die already?
http://cdn.stripersonline.com/0/00/009e22b…
i’m not hurting anyone only myself…while annoying you guys.
…i don’t intentionally play head games or hurt people;i take special care with those i care about.
….life goes on….
you’re not hurting yours elf.you’re fishing for attention.Youre unable to see that your emotional blow outs and sooking about the imaginary man is causing your friends anxiety in a message board meant for triviality and debate.Instead its like everyone is in a meeting and some woman walks in and strarts yelling and doing things for attention.
if you cared about anything,even yourself, you would take this to a therapist instead of ignoring everyones advice and care until they one by one gave up.if you don’t ever show you care about yourself dont expect the people here to.
youre on your own.
#1snogdog
Very well put Snogdog. I generally don’t agree with you but it is nice to see you post something intelligently and that doesn’t involve a juvenile pissing match with TTFN.
I was fishing for the attention of one person.I assure people i am fine.I do see a therapist…there’s at least one regular bitcher who can see a”man” does exist.I do care about myself,even more now than i thought i did before.My experiences with this person on/away from this board has taught me some valuable life lessons.
Snogdog groups of people on a board like this can be played to say and think almost anything about another member on the site they barely know and have had limited in person contact.
No all members know anything about my life other than what i revealed.My revealing too much of my life wasn’t done for pity or attention.It’s made me realize I need to take English and writing refresher courses,to learn to express myself better and in more ways.
Oh just ignore those lowlifes, boru. It’s ok you want this guy who write loves and bitches about. It’s like me and Gary. Hopefully one day he will make my dreams come true.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v485/Pie…
Ain’t gonna happen,for that guy and me.He wants something from me ;it’s not a relationship. Unless you call FWB a long and happy monogamous relationship.
iF he refuses to talk with you and runs away when you tell him you like him and use the Love word on the many creepy Loves you post,and laughs at you with his friend s at work then how are you turning him down.exactly?
xoxoxoxoxo
for the love
#1Slogdog Who Runs The Board is Confused And Needs Clarifcation
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Ain’t gonna happen,for that guy and me.He wants something from me ;it’s not a relationship. Unless you call FWB a long and happy monogamous relationship.
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It’s hard to tell if this was written by a Troll, or by you.
You swore up and down the “guy” wanted nothing to do with you, and that he spends his time laughing at you behind your back at work.
Now he wants to *bang you*?
You’re so out of touch with reality. Moreso with the reality that you write things on the Board that you’re contradicting now with claims he (out of the blue?) *wants you*.
When did you get the therapist? Before you asked for a reference on the Board, or after?
Nice manic upswing, btw.
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don’t send me messages on Facebook, alright? I don’t want your phone number.
I didn’t ask for a referral.You read what you wanted to see.
I wanted to speak to you about another matter.
I read someone telling you to go see a therapist and your reply was “do you know any?”
P. “do you know any?” Does have more than one meaning.
Therapist’s do have a private life with friends and family away from work.
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Does have more than one meaning.
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Sigh. If you claim it does.
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Therapist’s do have a private life with friends and family away from work.
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And my cat’s breath smells like cat food.
That’s how much sense your sentence made.
Boru- you need to spend more time on your own self worth and self esteem and less time stalking this man. It’s not love in any way. You need to remove that word altogether from this bitch. This man has shown you no affection from what I’ve read. If you were a man writing about a woman then I’m sure there would be a restraining order in place because you would be creeping her out so much. So why should we be sympathetic to you and not feel what your doing Is obsessive and scary?