I fucking hate all of you superficial bitches. You know, the ones that are soooo obsessed with a guy who’s muscular; a guy who has money and a car. Get fucking real. Looks aren’t everything that matters. And if they are for you, all you are is a woman that cares about the outside, and not what the person is actually like.
Go fuck yourselves; I’m sick and tired of being judged because I’m a little big for a guy. I hope you all get fat; then you’ll know how it fucking feels.—Not Superficial
This article appears in Apr 22-28, 2010.
I can sympathize with you, OP. Sort of. I’ve got some extra pounds I could stand to lose.
However, first, I just wanna say that I find it funny when people who aren’t “conventionally attractive” say that someone is shallow because they were more interested in someone who has a muscular/lean build, etc. That could just be that person’s interest. If North America was socialized in a way that made bigger people seem to be the more attractive option, then I’m betting those people probably wouldn’t be complaining.
I do think looks matter. But “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Some people like bigger people, some people like thinner people, muscular people, etc. You get the idea. Just because someone isn’t attracted to you, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a “fatphobe” or shallow.
So, don’t you worry! There are people out there who will like you for what you look like on the outside AND the inside.
obviously their not interested in you cause your a whiny little bitch, not cause youre a fatty
dude, all you can do is work on you.
You can’t control how smart or idiotic other people are going to be.
You also have no right to say who they should like…
considering you wouldn’t want anyone to tell you who you should date.
it is what it is… so get over it and focus on filling your life with the people you prefer.
they are out there… so I’m told
Dear Sir,
Please see http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/nic… aka “Nice Guys? Bleagh!”
“Are you fed up with your Male friends who are looking to date a woman with the appearance of a supermodel, and yet they continually whine about how “women don’t like nice guys – they only want good-looking assholes”? . . . These people who call themselves “Nice Guys” can’t see that THEIR OWN behavior is the problem.”
Personally, I find guys with attitudes like yours shallow and creepy (because you aren’t looking at women as whole, complex people, who own their body and don’t owe you a damned inch of it).
Ever think that you’re ogling the wrong type of woman? Considering your comment of “I hope you all get fat”, I’m assuming that you’re just as prejudiced against larger women as the thin women you’re berating are of you.
Wow, your bitterness is bubbling over, OP – keep it up and the only thing you’ll attract will be a asthmatic warthog.
While I agree with what you’re saying, OP, I DO have to point out that physical attraction is a pretty big factor in intimate relationships. Sorry. Anyone who denies this is either a fucking idiot or in denial.
Different people have different ideas on what’s attractive — you just have to find someone who finds YOU attractive. Because if they don’t, it ain’t gonna work.
And judging by all the married/attached/dating fat people out there, I’m pretty sure there’s someone out there for you, OP. And the HUGEST turn off is someone who’s insecure about their appearance for some reason. Constantly having to reassure a partner (or ANYONE for that matter) that they’re “attractive” is effing annoying.
Maybe put a little work into your body then! Guys and gals aren’t muscular and fit and trim because they were born that way! I hope you all get fat then you’ll know how it feels? You have a choice to be fat, nobody feels sorry for you! Put a little effort into it man!
Of course looks matter. It’s how someone looks on the outside that helps people determine what kind of person they are. I think anyone can make themselves look good and be attractive as long as they put the effort into themselves instead of self pity.
It’s the outside that attracts people and the inside that keeps them.
Take your anger, bottle it up and use it as inspiration to get healthy.
You are what you put into your body and how you treat yourself.
Personally, I think muscular guys are gross to look at.
All veiny and date-rapey.
I wouldn’t listen to the people who are telling you to go to the gym or lose weight unless you feel you are GENUINELY unhealthy.
Having a few extra pounds is not even an issue if you have the right personality and sense of style.
I hope you meet some girls who aren’t total asses soon, OP.
xo
Hot guys are nice eye candy, but most of them are dumb as stumps and too high maintenance for me – plus its annoying when they’re prettier than me. Average looking guys that can make me laugh and occasionally cooks for me is A-ok in my books.
o.p., seriously, you are 10,000 per cent right about being shallow and superficial. a later bitch proves just what you say, and i do sooooo agree with you on all points.
I’m a big guy and have no problem attracting women or men. Not all of us are doomed, OP.
Like zZz wrote – just worry about working on you. There are PLENTY of hotties out there who like big men and big women. And really, the more happy you are being you the more women are going to pick up on that. Ladies can be attracted to a heavy set man as long as he’s confident and happy with himself. Works for me.
you probably smell good fat
We all know these bitches in time will get old and fat and likely loose they’re tetth to meth and crack ( remember the money).
And then when they are a train wreak and not a pretty chick – we can all turn them down because they are cows and ugly as fuck . And also laugh at the meth scabs they have.
All due time all due time.
I’m sure we all have something about our bodies we’d like to change, but if you’re a little ‘fat’ perhaps they’re attracted to people who take care of their bodies?
I do, GOP 😉
It’s not like guys do the same thing.
All I can say to you is you don’t have to be “superficial” to be attractive and care about what you look like!!!
I gained 100 lbs when I was pregnant with my son and after I had him I BUSTED MY HUMP to lose that 100lbs AND ate right which is not easy while taking care of a child by myself!!!! I know what its like to be both 212lbs and 112lbs and hot as helll… im back to the 112 and hotter then ever but I worked out EVERY SINGLE DAY and worked out HARD to get here.
Maybe instead of being mad at other people for what they have or want, why dont you be mad at yourself for not taking your life by the horns and achieving what you want? I am seriously tired of lazy chubby girls hating on me because I look good when you have no freaking idea what I do on a daily basis (caring for children, work and school) AND still find time to care about my body and appearance. Stop haten, splurge on some good sneakers, and get up off yer butt! Bodies were built to move you know!!!!
PS. a 10 min walk doesnt count. 30 min of exercise that makes you sweat is what you need everyday to lose weight…. PLUS a healthy diet! DO this and you’ll have chubbies hatein on you 2!
If there’s anything I’ve learned in 50+ years is that looks aren’t everything, muscles & what you drive isn’t all that important…but shit loads of cash is !
That’s right, those with money to burn, can get all the toy’s, all the bimbo’s, & afford to get loaded on really expensive hooch, throw up over priced food into the toilets of opulent pads.
But it can’t buy a loving caring relationship… but those are so damn over rated…I’ll stick with the bimbo’s.
After all if I want intelligent converstion, I’ll talk to my co workers.
If I want true love & devotion, I’ll buy a dog.
The dog might want you to sign a pre-nup, More.
Dear OP you can be as nice as can be BUT…
1. If I am going to take care of myself you to take of yourself. SO looks DO matter! Muscular guys…well I (personally) would rather be with someone who takes care of themselves then lets them selves go soft/flabby/super skinny/bear bellied etc.
2. Someone with money. Well I sure as hell don’t want to support you. I can support myself and I expect you to be able to support yourself and together we can be a great team.
3. A car well that depends where you live. I’m ok with you taking the bus just don’t expect to drive my car.
You want it work for it!
I know bigger men that bitch and complain about how superficial all the hot women are because they won’t date a bigger guy, only to completely ignore women who are a little big themselves (but are great people with amazing personalities), and pathetically drool and whimper for the attention of the very skinny bitches they proclaim to hate so much.
I hope you aren’t one of these hypocrites OP.