To the girl who’s just not taking a hint:
We’re not friends, we haven’t been for a while. No we didn’t have a fight, but we just grew apart from one other over the years. We’re merely acquaintances now, but yet you seem to think we’re good friends. To be honest, I don’t even like you that much.
I can count on one hand how many times we’ve hung out in the past year. Most of those few times, we were only together because your brother (whom you’re close with) happens to be my friend- We were hanging together THROUGH HIM. There was one time -ONE!- that I hung out with you one-on-one. And it was less than thrilling. Does it look like we’re friends? I don’t think so!
Yet you keep trying to rekindle this “friendship” we had. “Hey what are you doing this weekend? We should do something” you’ll post on my fb wall or text me once or twice a month. For the past 5 months I have given you “excuses” to get you off my back. I am really hoping you’ll finally get the hint and give up, so I don’t have to give you the awkward “(your name), you really have to realize that we’re not friends, we’re acquaintances. I don’t want to hang with you anymore because we’ve drifted apart.”
Hints: I don’t write on your fb wall (I didn’t even send you a bday wish on your bday and I go on fb every day), I don’t text you on my own, I post frequent photos of my social times with OTHER PEOPLE on fb and I know you see them in your newsfeed (and I’m sure you’re thinking “why wasn’t I invited?”), any time I run into you on the street I make the convo short and sweet and move on my merry way… lastly, ever wonder why even though I live one street away from you, yet we still never seem to hang?? (Clearly, distance isn’t the reason!!) Really though, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND LET ME GO. —Wow that was a long rant!
This article appears in Nov 25 – Dec 1, 2010.
Do yourself a favour and don’t fucking give them hints. Tell them straight off to fuck off and not to bother you.
You need to grow a spine and tell her you don’t consider her your friend anymore. By the sounds of it, she is better off without you anyway. Did it ever occur to you that she genuinely gives a shit about you and is sorry the friendship drifted apart and that you are probably really hurting her? Probably not, because you sound like a selfish douche.
If you don’t want to be friends, at least try to be an adult.
Good riddance to crappy friends. Oops, sorry: Acquaintance.
Get over yourself.
o.p., a friend is one who goes out and gets two blow jobs, and comes back and gives YOU one. a really GOOD friend, is the one that comes back and gives you both the blow jobs.
um… so they’re on your facebook…
which button did you click to get that?
“verify as acquaintance”?
I’m pretty sure it says FRIEND.
if you don’t want to be friends anymore… do what all the other childish tweens are doing and de-friend them. that should give them the hint.
Anyone who says ‘friends & face crack’ in the same sentence, obviuosly has no friends.
From the bitch posted, who ever this person is OB, tell them to piss off. Its the best thing that could ever happen to them, that way they will no longer waste time on a loser like you.
Are you 14, OP?
Because your maturity level sure shines through at 14.
I’d say your former friend is the lucky one here.
You…. are a bitch…..
That is all
OP, you sound like a cunt. You “acquaintance” is better off without you.
That poor kid. She only wants to be your friend and you’re too much of a cowardly bitch to gently clarify the situation. You sound like a waste of time anyway.
Agreed, you’re a fucking bitch.
Yeah, wow, what a bitch!
Is your friend a hot chick though? Has she ever wanted to visit Edmonton? We got a pretty big mall here!
OP, I know people like you– the type who will only do something with someone when *they* feel like it. Leave lame excuses such as ‘I’m not feeling good’, ‘I’m tired’, ‘I’m kinda broke’… your real reason is that you just don’t want to be with that person because you don’t like them but you’re too chicken shit to tell them the truth.
My guess is that you initated the friendship with this girl in the beginning, had a few good times, and perhaps ‘got sick of her’? You two drifted apart because you deliberately avoided her, not because you grew apart due to personality differences.
I hope this weekend coming, you message your friends about Saturday night plans, get no response, spend entire said Sat night at home on FB and by the phone, check FB the next day and find your newsfeed flooded with pictures of the people you *do* consider friends all having a good time without you! Not so great when it happens to you, is it? By the way, your friend-turned-acquaintance is better off without you, you nasty cunt.
It’s all been said, dude.
Now I need to go look at something else before bed. If I die in my sleep, I don’t want this shit to be the last thing I ever read.
Friendship as defined by Facebook… What has the world come to?
I’m getting on the “You’re a bitch” bandwagon here. Because let’s face it, you’re a bitch.
Totally valid bitch. Some people don’t seem to realize friendships drift apart. Take a hint….if the person doesn’t call you, email you, or bother with you, you’re not friends.
Hey OP, you’re a bitch!
People are not mind-readers. Tell your former friend that your through with them.