I’ll start by saying I love the bitch column, and totally get a lot of them. I get why it’s good to be able to gripe about that guy who cut you off, or who’s driving actually can put us all at risk. Or that ignorant server in the green dress, working Friday night downtown…yada yada. It feels good to unload, I get it. But what I notice as a real trend, is how many bitches are directed at someone specific, and personal. This is actually a very fucked up scenario, when really thought about. Do these “bitchers” actually think of this as somehow communicating with these people? Are we so far off the garden path in our inability to communicate, that this is somehow seen as “doing something”? You REALLY think they will read this and know it’s you the bitcher speaking to them. And that is OK?
Instead of hiding behind some anonymous bitch in a local column, why not stop acting like a bunch of wimps. Grow some balls (metaphorically for the ladies) and try actually communicating. Because if you’re patting yourselves on the back for getting something personal off your chest this way, holy fuck, are you stupid! —Bitcher Bitchen’
This article appears in Dec 20-26, 2012.
It’s cathartic Bitchin’ Bitcher. Each have their own way of releasing the poison, an anonymous bitch board seems ideal. I have no issues with this kind of bitch other not knowing it’s essence because I’m not on the inside.
hmmm agree with op on the ‘personal’ aspect. if you know the person you are bitching about, their name, a personal relationship with them, what the heck are you doing posting your issue on a public forum? looking for warm fuzzies from others? looking for justification? hoping someone else will recognize the ‘bad person’ and heap troubles upon their deserving head?
i wouldn’t use the term ‘stupid’ but i would say ‘foolish’. but that seems to be a trend, neh? taking a great deal of moral credit for a virtual finger pointing.
the same can be said for all the LTWWL where the OP has missed a love connection.
usually goes like, “hey saw you smile at me while I was at the bar. I was too chicken shit to say hi, so you get a LTWWL to say thanks for makin my night”
grow a set and say hi when you have the chance losers!
Yes, let’s just change this whole format just for you, OP – how ‘about ‘Love The Way We Kvetch and Kry’ – or ‘Love the Way Kittens & Puppies Divert Us From Our Mundane Problems’? Jebus H. Fucking Cripes.
Thats what Facebook is for. Everyone here has done it all and seen it all, and your a stupid idiot for even thinking about it. Look at how many smartass responses get posted, do people act this way in person? If they do, I wonder how many times their noses have been broken?
I totally agree. AMEN OP!!!
Well it goes for the “love the way we love” too, just tell the guy/girl you like them, instead of passive aggressively telling them on here.
yuuuup.
Better yet patty, they should put them in the PSST section where they belong.
It should be for the abstract…
loving the leaves in the fall
or the new and improved cock rings some store has…
If it’s relationship related, to PSST it should go.
Whatever, wigpig. You can’t seem to keep your personal life, that noone wants to hear about, off the bitch board. So cram your hypocritical opinion up your freshly bleached asshole!!!!!!!!
Merry Christmas Stevie 😉
My spelling,grammar and punctuation is awful so I would rather tell someone how I feel in person.I know I must come off as a less than intelligent person on this board but I try.Hell almost 1 year ago I would never thought of “trying” to communicate my thoughts and feelings on this board;leaving myself(albeit anonymously) to criticism about my writing mistakes.
BTW A person in that predicament would have to have “a pair” in order to tell a person/people their inner most thoughts and feelings at the risk of loosing face.
Boru, my father couldn’t spell or write proper grammar to save his soul, but he has a genius IQ. There isn’t a math problem on this planet that he couldn’t solve. Point being, nobody is perfect. I’m sure you have many strengths in other aspects of your life 🙂
NurseHezz Thanks.Yes there are a few things I do well.