WTF is the problem??? You have someone who, although has no desire for you, wishes dearly and tries immensly to be part of their kids life. Pays your rent pays for the kid, drives you and your girlfriend all over town. Do you SEE SUCKER written across their forehead??? Although with all they do for you, still, I sometimes have to check myself…There comes a time when you have to grow the fuck up. Take care of yourself and support yourself. Do you really think your child will grow up and not realize the piece of dirt you are. Watching and listening to the way you badmouth the other parent, even though THEY do everything and you do nothing. Kids are a helluva lot smarter than you think. Everyone else takes care of that child for you, you do nothing… oh excuse me, you parade it around like some accessory and post pictures on facebook to pretend to all your “friends” that you’re such a good parent. The most important part of your childs life and all you can think about is making your kids other parent miserable. Do you even have the ability to see that what you are doing to your child, their other parent AND yourself, for that matter is not right? You people make me sick. Once you decide to have a child…and I don’t mean get pregnant…once you are pregnant and you decide you’re going to have this child, what you want no longer applies. The only thing that matters is that child and the needs of that child. And you may not realize it now, but you are doing a great disservice to your child, I only hope you change things before it’s too late for you or the kid.
—Tired of lousy parents
This article appears in Oct 22-28, 2009.
Sounds like a certain person who lives up in a condo building near Clayton Park. Has done everything in her power to totally alienate her family as well, with her stupid antics.
If there was a bitching, woe is me job,that paid you by commission, for your shitty behaviour… you’d be taking in a hundred grand plus a year !
OP, the thing is, self centered people like that won’t even read this , they WANT TO BITCH….but no one else is ever allowed to !
Do like I’ve done, shut them out completely. They’ll either come around eventually or they’ll be gone, & that’s not going to be much of a loss, except to the baby!!! But as long as the law is on the mothers side…there’s nothing you can do, to change anything.
This is such a valid bitch. It breaks my heart to see people like this. I want to shake some sense into them. But you’re right, the kid will grow up and know the truth and that’s when this person will relise that all they’ve done is pushed their child away.
Two sides to every story…my ex loves, adores, cherishes, to trash me. I’m no good, i suck as a mom…he hasn’t paid me a cent for our son in two years, but is “father of the year”.
Children are always the one stuck in the middle of situations like these…
My kids learned the truth about my bitch of an ex and now have nothing to do with her.