Jesus Christ I don’t want your man so calm down before you give yourself a hemorrhage. Stop harassing me via text and email while you’re at it and try being a little less insecure. You will probably find yourself a much happier woman if you do so! Just because a female talks to a male on a fairly regular basis about things like the weather, news, sports and other general topics does not mean they want to sit on his penis while it is an erect state, ok? You are just making yourself look bad here. Eventually men grow tired of needy insecure women, so you are only hurting yourself, sweetie. —Someone Who Doesn’t Want Your Man
This article appears in Aug 4-10, 2011.


When someone talks to me on a fairly regular basis about things like the weather, news, sports and other general topics DOES mean I want them to sit on my penis while it is in an erect state
How did the girlfriend get your e-mail address and cell phone number? If all I was doing was making light conversation with some dude about the weather and other superficial bullshit and his girlfriend started getting crazy and creating drama in my life, I’d stop mingling with her boyfriend and save myself the headache. You can make small talk with just about anyone. Maybe the girlfriend isn’t crazy and she’s seeing you for the little hussy you are. Something doesn’t add up.
OP, talk to him even more, text him, email him…..get her into a violent rage and then he’ll see she’s fucked in the head and leave her.
Stop talking to him then, if he really doesn’t mean that much.
the only time a woman talks sports with a man is when she’s interested in getting his interest.
You want him bad.
or a lesbonim…. they talk sports.
Only sports I talk is tennis and football when World Cup is on … which is every 4 yrs … sooooo yeah … … … but why can’t women talk sports. Ain’t nothing wrong with that.
OP, just fuck him, she will dump him. Problem solved.
Lou — maybe she saw it on OB’s facebook page? I have a lot of friends who put way too much information on there and I have a few more friends who regularly log into their SO’s facebook accounts to check up on their boyfriends.
I don’t see why bitching about someone harassing them means they want the harasser’s significant other. And why would talking about sports mean they wanted them? I have friends who are athletes into certain sports and enjoy watching/talking/playing, etc and I’ll talk about sports here and there with friends — male and female.
I have a few friends, who I will totally admit are like the chick OB describes, and every single one of them are insecure as fuck. One actually creeped out her bf so badly he dumped her.
My advice, OB, is to stop talking to this guy. If he’s letting this crap go on and he’s not dumping the nutbar harassing you for being, well, an obvious nutbar, then you really don’t need that shit.
Though. Maybe he’s SCARED to dump her… maybe he thinks she’ll go all murderous on his ass. :|
Bitches be CRAZY sometimes. And not in the “ahhhhh I’m CRAZY” sense, but the certified nutcase sense.
I always like a good “Fuck off you psycho bitch”. Oh and do it in front of your friend. Then there will be no misunderstanding.
Sorry babe, all those topics are code for YOU HAVE FABULOUS TITS or LET ME TEACH YOU WHAT MY GIRLFRIEND WON’T DO.
On a serious note, most men don’t discuss this shit often…
… either the last 5 women that tried this really did want to see what the weather was like on Mount Fuckmore…
… or maybe you look like Salma Hayek and dress like you are having hot flashes, and she isn’t quite sure she can share space with THAT…
Is he Polish?
“OP, talk to him even more, text him, email him…..get her into a violent rage and then he’ll see she’s fucked in the head and leave her.”
Same thing must have happened to you more than once.
that’s right o.p., why settle for fucking hamurger, when you can have steak like me around you.
Eventually men grow tired of needy insecure women, so you are only hurting yourself, sweetie. —Someone Who Doesn’t Want Your Man
you’re sort of all over the road here, hon.
Sadly, a lot of men DON’T get tired of needy insecure women.
If what I’ve witnessed lately is evidence.
Maybe insecure men like insecure women because they know they’ll be all over them and maybe being all jealous and shit makes them feel better. Insecure women tend to drown their men with affection and attention and if I was insecure I would likely like that validation, myself.
In any event, stop talking to this guy. If he’s not a close friend, no biggie, right? If this c-unt’s getting your info from your FB page — delete him as a ‘friend’…. and if you’ve ever texted him or whatever and that’s how she got your cell number…. well then he’s an asshole for giving it to her (or needs to kick her to the curb if she decided to be sneaky and go through his phone). I can’t STAND sneaks! Even feline sneaks! LOL