I get that you’re on a new journey spiritually and I’m trying my best to be supportive. You dived headlong last month into this new positive theory of attraction lifestyle and honestly it’s great! A change is always good especially since you’ve been though some trying times in the past. However, please stop telling me to be positive about everything. Me telling you work is the “same old” does not warrant a “Come on, be positive!” People deal differently, and you calling me an angry person really stung. I’ve never considered myself angry but all this positive, love and delusional bull is starting to making me angry… —Alice
This article appears in Jul 19-25, 2012.
yeah, and don’t tell me to *smile* or *cheer up*, get your own moods
This bugs me too. Like, why do people want others to suppress their emotions? That’s dangerous. You shouldn’t be shamed into wiping away your tears and putting on a fake smile for the comfort of others. Feel how you want, and watch out for these “positive” pushers because they’ll probably snap one of these days. “The ones who smile the most are often the saddest” as they say.
What gets me about these people is that they piss on negativity, yet they’re the most judgmental fucks out there. Like they’re the authority on everything and it’s immoral to be negative.
Frig off. Telling me I’m negative is awfully negative, ain’t it?
“Serenity NOW!!!”
“have a nice day oceansis” “don’t tell me what kinda day to have” ^^
Self-help books only help one person – the author. Your buddy is going through a honeymoon stage with this shit so either be tolerant or hide in a bell tower for the duration.
Some people do need help, as a lot of you people do. I have been reading here for a time now, and believe that over half of you could be classed as nuts.
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Hay look, suckers is back! #get stuffed
Sounds like your Alice in Wonderland thinks of you as an Alice in the Box and would like to extract you from it and take you flying … when probably you’re just and Alice on the Ground and he/she doesn’t get it ’cause the altitude is fucking with his/her brain function.
I sure as shit know all too well what it’s like to be on the receiving end of someone not understanding or believing that you’re quite happy living in a grounded/realistic place instead of a pie in the sky/head in the clouds kinda place … reality is much easier on the head than fantasy.
Another account for Grampie Gary, the Gray Gooser.
Fack off!
Wp
Persevere, speaking as someone who lives inside their imagination, fantasy is how I make it through the day. If not for my imagination life would be awful dull for me. But you’re right, most people are better off grounded in reality.
GET STUFFED: Can you name any names? I’ve got my fingers crossed that I’ll make it onto that list!
Darth Captain, I’ve had a few challenges during this lifetime and my imagination can be a pretty wild place from time to time – a pleasant escape from reality – but living in fantasy land would not serve me well since the reality of what surrounds me is definitely not what my mind can create.
I stay in the here and now. Focus on what is or I’m very confident will be. Control the parts of my life that are mine to control. Stay real about the parts of my life that I can’t control.
I’m not saying I don’t have ambitions and goals in life (which I’m focused heavily on today) or that I am without motivation, but I try to stay real based on everything that’s going on in my life in the present as well as the foreseeable future.
Relating back to the original bitch. I’m with OB. I’m definitely not one who would ever say to a friend that I love my job and can’t wait to get to work every day if it’s just a load of bullshit.
Fantasy vs. reality …
since i don’t like bondage or incarceration, i tend to keep my imagination to myself^^
LOL @ Painey
Unless the thought is shared or acted on … one can never be judged or jailed for the thoughts that are born, live and die in the confines of one’s mind.
good thing eh?
painy…how’d the new Tat turn out ?
incredible, i am blown away, it’s a work of art. going in for touch ups in a couple of weeks
can you post a photo ?
http://s737.photobucket.com/albums/xx20/mo…
I use photobucket for sites like this onewhere you need a web page.
i will take some pictures once it’s healed a bit, i can always use it as my avatar
~:) great idea pg
I tend to keep a positive outlook on things and try to project positive energy i.e. smiling and complimenting people. As well, I dislike negativity, people who are always putting things down, trashing others or expecting the worst. If being grounded in reality means you’re unhappy or angry maybe you need to alter your reality.
If anyone has seen “Life of Brian”, you’ll know the final scene involves Brian and a couple of others are crucified on their crosses but, despite their circumstances, they begin singing “always look on the bright side of life”. Now, that’s the kind of attitude people should have.
Peace out.
am i still here or did i threaten to leave agin.okey fuckk you guys i have a date with a hooker
that’s one of my favourite movies, critter man
Too bad I have to work today >: (
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VROOOOOOOM!
anybody know where i can get worms for fishing?
THey sell worms & other bait at Leno’s in ELmsdale pg.
Just go up to the top of the ramp at exit 8. turn right & drive down into the village its about 2-3 klicks, its on the right just before you come to the 4 way stop lights. Laura’s usually behind the counter, she’s a real sweetie & would be happy to help you out.
PS- I have nothing to do with the place, except I am a customer.
we went to the place on agricola, they haven’t had any for a couple of weeks. if it was wetter we could dig them in the backyard. thanks for the info, they’re for the bear
It’s hard to be anything but an optimist when you grew up dirt poor, eating table leavings from the white oppressors, and now I have my own TV network. Oh… Wait a minute, that’s just some shit I made up to look more “down to earth”, and aggrandize my accomplishments.
Sounds to me like the OP is dealing with someone who is overly vibe sensitive and wants to control the moods of others in order to aid in her own moods. It’s a difficult way to be because these people tend to be less adaptive. Everyone has their “faults” I guess.