Getting out of a three-year relationship on the grounds of needing some time alone to figure yourself out is fine. Sometimes people need some alone time to realize what they have in their life and who really cares for them. When you immediately start seeing someone new just weeks after, it only makes you look bad. Once that new relationship feeling wears off, you’re going to be right back where you started. So to anyone with relationship problems: don’t do this. Take the time to deal with what you just ended or else you’re going to be more messed up in the head than you were before. Problems can be worked out, but only if you acknowledge them. —Probably Better Off
This article appears in Mar 4-10, 2010.
They dumped you because they wanted to be with someone else, not because they wanted “alone time”
Seriously you fell for that line?
Holy shit, cupcake, you swallowed that bullplop? All he wanted to work on was his raging woody dancing inside his favourite bush and it wasn’t you. Hey, I got a two for one deal on bridges.
now really guys, that sounds like a good bit of info there.i give this o.p., two fucking big thumbs up.
Agreed LS… sound advice for certain.
Awwww….the OP is saddened and jealous that no one else has picked them up as quickly as their ex picked up. Honey, try the Palace or Reflections, where every cover charge includes giving/receiving a BJ.
I guess they figured out everything they needed to in a couple weeks.
don’t pout or grudge against it….
not everyone works the same way.
like you said, you’re split up. Because they potentially lied on the way out really doesn’t mean a lot… so don’t give two sweet shits about whatever they’re doing, do your own thing.
they’re someone else’s problem now.
Sounds like my ex! She told me the “it’s not you, it’s me, I just don’t want to be with anyone” line too, and what happens just a couple months later? She’s with someone else! That bitch! Meanwhile, I’m stuck trying to pick up honies at The Coast… so, anyone wanna fuck? Rebound sex, anyone?
Maybe the only issue left to deal with was you. Done. Moved on. You don’t care if she looks bad, you care that it makes you look bad. Sucks to be you.
Aww who complained about my valid comment? LOL.