As a queer lady, I wish I knew if women were interested in other women or not. When’s an appropriate time to even ask that question? I’m surrounded by lovely haligonians and I don’t want to mistake their kindness for flirtation….but I also don’t want to miss out on any opportunities….! Ak me out or at least make it more clear if you like me or not. No more games please 🙂 — queer looking for queer
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It’s called ‘Gaydar’.
Hone it.
Tune it.
Use it.
Huh? Why don’t you ask one of these ladies for a date? You are sitting back rubbing your clit in the hopes one of them makes the first move. Be bold. Ask. You may get more muffin than a Baker’s Secret pan can hold. Do it.
You could ask them ” are you being kind or are you flirting with me?’ No use in guessing games or beating around the bush. Put your big girl panties on and ask!
Yours truly.
And gay men and straight people would also like to know who are interested in them.
There’s the ‘ole, “wanna go somewhere and fuck?”…
The word of the day is ‘legs’
Wanna go spread the word?
I think the Liberals should appoint a Minister of Minge, with a Deputy of Dildoes to oversee a Committee of Clittylickers?
Basically you’re in the same quandry as most men.
LOL, OB, just because someone is nice to you, doesn’t mean they’re playing games or flirting.
Please don’t be one of those women who thinks any man/woman who is nice to them is flirting. Just, don’t be that gal.
Anyway, Koda’s right. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I fucked myself over in the past because I kept my mouth shut and learned the most someone can do is say “no, not interested.” And most people are usually not assholes when it comes to rejecting others so what do you have to lose?
You can come out and ask or you can do what I do and get the info I want without asking direct invasive questions. It’s an art. If you want to make it known that you’re into women maybe mention things like “my ex-girlfriend” or “women I’ve dated” or things like that. It’s a way of letting people know without just being like, “HEY GUESS WHAT I LIKE GIRLS!” Guage their reaction and flirt accordingly.
OP I did a little research because I thought I remembered a gay friend of mine saying something about wearing a piece of clothing to secretly indicate to other gay people that they were gay and looking…but I couldn’t remember what he said. Unfortunately I wasn’t able to find anything about it online … but I did find this little gem. LOL
http://open.salon.com/blog/tijo/2009/05/15…
I remember, midway through the first season, Mandy, Shemar and Greg from “Dharma and Greg” cornered me in the men’s shower on the CBS lot and accused me of being gay which I, of course, denied. Hurling homophobic slurs they forced me down onto the damp tile and all the while yelling about how homosexuality was a mortal sin and I was a deviant, they took it in turns to thrust their r@c% &*rd p@*$e$ into my (@t @n&$.
It was very sad. Not one of them ever called me back.
i smell blue ribbons
op, don’t go to Saskatchewan. ALL the women there look gay. but they ain’t.