It’s been a few months since our relationship ended and I’ve seen a few girls in that time, mostly to take my mind off of you. But none of them compare. The thing is, you treated me so lousy. You were jealous and aggressive, demanding and high-maintenance. But I still miss you and I still love you. I just wish I could stop because I really don’t think there’s any way we could ever be together (the reason I’m getting this off my chest anonymously). I guess I just wish things had been different. Best of luck to you and I hope I can find someone who makes me feel as wonderful as you usually did—but without all those REALLY bad parts. —Will Be Awhile
This article appears in Nov 1-7, 2012.
Did you ever discuss the negative aspects of the relationship? Was it occuring all the way through or were there triggers? I don’t condone bad behaviour but sometimes you need to see different perspectives in order to fully understand. Understanding may help you to get over it or to try and resolve it.
Sounds like you may be open to either?
“jealous and aggressive, demanding and high-maintenance”
yeah, really sounds like a keeper….