I don’t like your girlfriend. I don’t like her because I want you. I want to be with you. When I first met you, all I could think of is how you would be the best boyfriend in the world. I thought about how lucky she would be. The way you look at me when I tell a joke. The way you watch me from across the gym. The way you push my buttons.
I’m pissed off that I allowed myself to feel things that are beyond the boundries of our friendship. I’m pissed off at myself for telling you to stop. Stop flirting. Stop texting. But the truth is, I didn’t want you to stop. I miss it. I miss it too much.
Leave her. Be with me. Have fun again. Experience the thrill and excitement. I know you want to. —Skinny Vanilla Latte
This article appears in Jul 8-14, 2010.
Why do I feel like this was meant for me… haha.
Actually I’m sure it’s applicable to nearly everyone I know.
Exactly.
You should have told him earlier. Now you sound like a desperate stalker or a soon to be one.
Wait it out ’til (s)he’s done with her is my suggestion. No one wants to go out with a cheater, including you, right?
Don’t worry honey, it isn’t just you. The tag-line is perfect: “temptation is a part of life, do the right thing”,
Suck it up, and don’t test the waters.
Agreed with OL, though I would even go so far as to allow him appropriate rebound time, so that you don’t end up falling into that category yourself.
You did the right thing by telling him to stop talking to you. If he does decide to wise up and be with you it will be on the up and up, and not a secret cheatfest beforehand
Blehhhh
What is meant for you is meant for you. He obviously isn’t … at the moment.
Oh this totally the way I feel about someone at my gym! Except, I want them to flirt/text more.
It’s all good.
As long as you don’t sample you’re not crossing any lines.
this has got love triangle o’ trouble written all over it ( keep us informed with all the juicy/gory details yep )
The OP should tell an adult.
well, see, you should have thought about that in the first place. maybe she gives a better blow job than you would, or just maybe, she has 3 tits, mmmmm, my kind of honey. either way, she got him, you don’t, so why not go after someone who might really want you, or learn to deep throat, or do the anal semi trailor parking lot trick.
Perhaps I’m just jaded and cynical, but you just know that at some point a pet bunny simmering away merrily in a stock pot is going to feature prominently in this saga.
I hope he does leave his woman for you because you know what he’ll do to you, right? You sure the fuck deserve it.
Brit, “As long as you don’t sample you’re not crossing any lines.”
I assume “sample” means flirting in secret, communicating in secret, writing between the lines and general DECEIT since you wouldn’t do any of those things with your lover looking on (without expectation of getting your ass DUMPED). Here’s how you know… when you fall in love and everything is new NO ONE can turn your head and NO ONE can distract you from your new love let alone seduce you. Once in the relationship anything less than that indicates you have no business being in said relationship and likely have “commitment issues”.
Simpsons fortune cookie quote:
“Your infatuation is based on a physical attraction. Talk to the [wo]man and you’ll realize you have nothing in common.”
Solution: Threesome.
Unless it turns out there’s plenty in common.. Thennn….
@Mrfitness, hahahaha you’re basing this on a simpsons quote? Looks like we have some talking to do then…
Does that mean I should have used a ‘Friends’ quote?
Rachel: How do you expect me to grow if you won’t let me blow?
Now you’re going to msg some guy in Burnside about this, and he’ll have no clue what you’re talking about… Unless he’s as big a nerd as me. (and others frequenting online msg boards)
haha you know me too well. I think Rachel’s got it right on this one.
Its your own fuckin fault for telling him to stop… RETARD New bitch WHY CAN’T WOMEN JUST SAY WHAT THEY WANT AND STOP PLAYING MIND GAMES
BFugi: I feel as though the OP may have been saying ‘recommence’ (in the off chance the individual had read it of course.) Which as it seems, may have happened.
Well MrFitness, if it is actually you, then you should grow some fucking balls and break up with your girlfriend if your going to be flirting with someone else. Not cool to your girlfriend jackass.
And to the OP, never trust a guy who is willing to cheat for you, he will do it to you.
The OP is a dude!
@virgomom I’m not so sure it’s for me 🙂
I’m sure it’s more likely a random coincidence which I read to much into. I do that sometimes. 🙂
ah, the lust continues….
they must be putting rabbit pheromones in the tap water.
I agree with the mindgames though… them womenz be tricky folk.