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I’m a single guy in his late 30s who has quite the bulge. I’m 5’9″ and weigh 252 lbs. This has affected me negatively in the dating world. I know people probably think because I’m a fat man I should date fat women. The problem is, I’m not attracted to fat women, I like small women size 0-6. I’ve tried to date many small women, but usually get rejected. My friends have told me to lose weight if I want to get these type of girls, but why should I? I like my food more than most people and this is who I am. Maybe some day, a small chick will be OK with my gut, triple chin and man tits. —Fat Boy
This article appears in Dec 10-16, 2015.
A few unanswered questions remain. Are you a good person? Are you fun to be around? Good sense of humour? Do you make a lot of money at least? So far all you’ve told us is that you are almost 40, single, and overweight with a preference for small women. (Small sounds creepy as fuck. Did you mean slim?) If that’s your best conversation starter then I see your problem. Though I’m sure this bitch is fake.
A woman who is slim probably eats very sensibly and likes to be active. She is probably looking for someone who has a similar lifestyle.
You need to adopt the habits of the people you want to spend time with. It’s that simple.
Just like you are attracted to a certain body type, so are women.
I knew this really sweet and kind guy years ago. Such a nice man, but seriously overweight. He got friend-zoned because the slender woman he REALLY liked just wasn’t into his body type. There was nothing she could do about it, it was just her natural preference. She preferred someone who mirrored her own slimness.
That isn’t to say there are not slim chicks who dig big guys, but perhaps the percentage of slim chicks who dig slim guys is higher.
Good luck!
I know a number of people in their thirties, forties and older who have rarely dated, have only had very brief relationships, and been almost perpetually single. They all have one thing in common – they are far too set in their ways. They find it difficult to accept the give and take of a relationship. They don’t want to compromise on anything – including their bad dietary and lifestyle habits – which seems to be another common trait.
The good news is that sometimes people can recognize that they are in this self-made rut and make changes. I can personally attest to that. It was difficult but it is worth it.
I would hardly consider this a bitch. More of a sobby whine.
Oh my fuck, you’ve got to be kidding me. OP, you are morbidly obese and you expect skinny women to look past the fact you’ve got bigger tits than they do.
Sorry but fact is, most slim to average built people don’t want to date or fuck obese people. I know I don’t. I’m at the heavy end of the size range you prefer your women, but that’s because I eat healthy and exercise regularly. I work hard to keep myself in good shape so why should I go out with your fat ass, who can’t even be bothered to put down the fried chicken and go out for a run instead.
You want to get your type, you become your type’s type. Lose some fucking weight. Or stay fat and entitled.
“I like small women size 0-6.”
And I’m like a chocoholic, only for booze.
The thing is.. if you don’t try, you’ll never know. I’m a larger man also, but I’ve had many women find me attractive. As much as your physical nature, are you an intelligent person who can converse on many subjects in an interesting or humourous manner? If you’re not interesting, who will be interested in you? You need to spend your time making yourself into a good partner for someone.
If you’re not willing to make yourself into a desirable person to be with, you can’t complain that you can’t meet the woman of your dreams. You also need to learn how to approach a desirable woman with confidence so that you seem like an interesting person, and not an arrogant asshole.
OP, try to flash some $$ and see how things change 😉
Mikey, I actually find your answer very interesting if I may inquire more about it.
Just curious, based on your experience as to what sort of conversations / topics / subjects of interests some of those girls would talk about? Just curious.
Yeah, start throwing mad dollah billas and see how it goes.
“Liking food more than most” is a terrible excuse for being overweight. Do yourself a favour and eat more plants, less carbs and go for a jog every now and then.
fuck you mod…
nothing I said was any worse than the rest of these idiots.
@Mr. zZz – did your comment deviate from the immutable law of “Womyn Right; Myn Wrong” perchance?
“Do yourself a favour and eat more plants, less carbs and go for a jog every now and then.”
The “low carb” diet trick has been busted by the science of dietetics. Sorry for all you Atkins lovers.