You talk about me like I’m losing my grip to every person you know. Then to my face you’re all sweet, and just want to be supportive. I’ve lived with your two-faced shit most of my life, listened to you talk about others, and call down your best friends behind your back, but never did I think you’d do it to your own daughter. You’re a sick, demented old fuck, you hate everything and everyone.. why the hell are you still here?
I’m not losing my grip – I’m losing my patience for your shit. I will not stand by any longer while you spread poison in front of my children, and not speak up. If you don’t like my opinions – I DON’T FUCKING CARE! I don’t much care for yours either, and the next time you feel like taking a walk in the woods with your shotgun because your life is so hard — DON’T tell me — because I’ll just load it for ya! – Respectful to the Respectable
This article appears in Jan 10-16, 2013.
Even if you’re this lady’s daughter, if she has a tendency to talk trash about people even her best friends, she probably is talking about you as well. That shouldn’t be a surprise. I don’t know the kind of relationship she has with her grandchildren but if it is close, I wouldn’t cut them off. That’s just punishing the kids.
Have a civil conversation with Mom sans “demented old fuck” language and see what can be salvaged. If nothing changes, well at least you tried.
OP For your own sanity you have to know when it’s time to cut ties with mommy dearest.Yes, it would be a shame for your children if/when you cut all ties.If your mother makes you loose it.Then you end up babbling in a corner of a therapeutic room, of a mental hospital.How are you going to take care of your children then? Fuck mommy dearest you have to do whats best for your own children and you.
Good Luck
Who said it’s Mom? I reckon if OP got to the point of writing this, I’m going to give him/her the benefit of the doubt and assume they’re an intelligent person who found the perfect way to blow off some steam without hurting anybody and doesn’t need Dr Phil-type advice from the peanut gallery. You go OP! Respect is earned!
True Snubiz, the OP didn’t make it clear who was who but it seemed it was daughter to mother. My guess Mom was talking about her daughter in front of daughter’s kids, Mom’s grandchildren.
I disagree with your comment about the peanut gallery however. OP owns the bitch, the commentors own the comment section. You put it out there expect people to take a swing at it.
Lop that cunt off like a skin tag – your old lady is poison and she isn’t going to change – take it from one who knows, sweetie. Be free of this stupid old fool and slam the fucking door in her nasty mug.
IDK, to me the line about “taking a walk in the woods with your shotgun….” led me to think that it might be about a father, but I suppose anyone could have a shot gun, man or woman. Regardless, I’m sorry you have been made to endure this treatment OB. I hope you can resolve things or otherwise find the peace and happiness you deserve. Best of luck.
Agree with vastie… I immediately thought it a father/daughter complex….
though why would he go into the woods?
If he’s that poisoned and hates the world, you think he’d do it at home and make someone actually have to clean it up.
Thus, leads me to believe he’s posing and not really that suicidal at all.
So it’s OK to comment but not to comment on the comments (which troodon and I both commented on.) Comments? I don’t disagree with you TF, That was just my swing at it this time. I too am peanut.
ok, we’re getting into inception territory here.
I think that’s enough for me for one week…
I had a mother who drained me of every emotion I had – I saw it all – the guilt, the malicious gossip, the screaming phone calls, the accusations about ungrateful daughters who would end up pregnant and insane, the bullshit suicide threats plus the anger, spit and bile that would have depressed Lord Fucking Christ himself. It was all about her and you were as good as your last service. Well, OP, I put up with it until it started to interfere with my own family. Did I miss her? Did I miss shooting a nailgun through my right temple? I’m serious – free yourself from this woman.
OP I agree with TTFN.Walk away from her(do the same if it’s your father). She/he will take you down with her.
Sure old dogs can learn new tricks.But if your parent is that old nothing will change them.
I spent a life time depressed; searching for a mother figure that my own mother was not to me.
Walk away, put your energy into your children or bettering yourself.After all your parents’ bitterness isn’t your doing.She made her choice to be miserable years ago;now it’s your turn…Choose wisely.
Fur enough Snubiz.
Talking behind your back and being sweet to your face? Definitely a woman, no question about it.