To the son of a bitch dating my best friend… you are a manipulating, abusing asshole. The only reason you act the way you do is because you are so insecure. So instead, I watch you break her down to nothing, make her feel like shit about herself, and make her believe she can’t do any better than you. The truth? She could do a million times better than you. And I won’t rest until she sees that. Maybe I’m “too controlling” as you put it, but I refuse to watch you hurt my best friend/sister. You had no problem getting up in my face, so I know you’d have no problem doing it to her. If you ever hurt her physically, you will have many people coming after you… and I will be leading the pack. You ain’t nothing but a little boy with a temper. Fuck you. —The best friend you hate
This article appears in Dec 16-22, 2010.
How is getting in a guy’s face the same as getting into a girl’s face? Difference seems pretty obvious to me…
He may not be abusing her physically but he is mentally abusing her – as far as I’m concerned, that’s just as fucking bad. Your friend needs a sizable dose of self-confidence and strength to kick this prick to the curb. Be there for her, OB, but be aware that many young women will desert their friends (including best ones)in favour of a total pig.
Been in this situation before and I lost the battle. There are a lot of women out there that think they are worthless and feel like they can’t do any better. It’s sad.
Internet tough guy alert.
I guess I get you trying to defend your sis though…
It’s simple, why doesn’t she just leave him? Or is she so brainwashed by the abuse (mental and/or physical) to know any better?
What you need to do is befriend him…if he’s even close to being as selfcentered as you imply, lead him on & when he shows up for that fun time with you , have her waiting in the next room or the closet .
Surprise …although you might piss her off, by being proven right
‘bastard: I think you answered your own question 😉
good for you o.p., smack the fuck out of him, and if you need the suckster, hey, scream and i’ll help put him in a coma too.
The old “Because I love him”. How I hate that.
Besides trying to drive you away OB, has he poisoned any of her other relationshis, friends, family? If so, then he will further isolate her until his control is complete. Best thing you can do is to be there for her. I hate to say this, but try to avoid confrontations with mr asshole, he’ll only use it as a wedge between you and your sis.
Hmmmm………???
Good advice.
how i hate that too, occifer timothy. i have slept on the ends of beds with doors bolted…grr
I’ve more hate than a sith lord convention…
boy would it be weird to just randomly get an address in my inbox.
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weird indeed.
What ever happened to the Mods not allowing posts that promote physical violence? I sure hope whoever this bitch is about sees it, takes screenshots, and in the event of an actual physical confrontation, uses it as evidence in court. Two regular posters even offered to physically assault someone they have never met based on one anonymous post telling one side of the story. Maybe the victim could get a court order for some IP addresses as well.
I think you might be reading too much into this and other people’s posts, dude…
hey, it’s a free opinion post nl, and you know what they say about if you don’t like something. yeah, and i would pound that sorry fuck in the ground, just for beating on a female. never, ever let me see anyone do that shit, or it’s a one way ticket to see daddy satan, in hell.
who’s the other regular?
nowhere have I mentioned any physical confrontation.
shame Newfoundland’s Greatest Export is an illiterate, whining douche
I always thought newfoundland’s greatest export was fetal alcohol syndrome. *narf*
Let her make her own decisions and her own mistakes. Isn’t that what feminism is all about? Besides, most girls like this love the “bad boys” anyway, almost as much as they love getting sympathy for playing the victim of it all. If this guy was nice to her and treated her really well, she probably wouldn’t even be attracted to him in the first place. She’d probably complain that he was not her type and too clingy. So fuck her.
Do it man, don’t let that swine get away with it.