We both have little babies.. mines 5 months and yours is 8 months..
Ive worked really fucking hard to lose the baby flub, and you do nothing about yours..
so dont roll your eyes and say “whatever” and storm out of the room when MY BROTHER tells me that i look great and must of lost a lot of weight!.. oh are you upset hes not saying the same to you? Well then get off your fat ass and do something about it!!
I didn’t do anything extreme! I don’t starve myself i dont go throw up.. i Joined Weight Watchers i eat right and do some exercise! lost 29lbs and I’m happy..
Stop with the huffing and puffing.. if you’re not happy with yourself don’t take it out on me!!
—Put down the cheetos maybe?
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Hahaha this bitch is awesome! Kudos to you for losing the weight. Let her keep huffing and puffing, and conveniently ask her opinion on the new smaller clothes you purchase!
Maybe instead of being a self-centered cunt about it, you should offer to get your sister-in-law involved in weight watchers with you. She’s obviously uncomfortable with her post-baby body and is feeling insecure about it because you’ve managed to lose the weight. And the fact that her (I assume) husband/your brother is bringing it up right in front of her is even worse. Put yourself in her shoes for a minute and see if you’d like her to act like a cunt to you. Grow the hell up, act like an adult and offer to help her out, not rub it in her face.
Kudos on the weight loss, OP. You seem to be doing everything right, and trust me, it’s not easy. WW can be a bitch to follow, especially when your points go down (although, that does mean you’re losing weight so that’s a plus), and ESPECIALLY when you have an infant. I follow weight watchers and I go to the gym 4 times a week and it’s not always fun or easy, I gotta say — so I applaud your efforts.
If your sister in law doesn’t like the fact that your brother is commenting on how great you look, then she can suck it. How dare she take away from your hard work!
I didnt have any of the baby flub so to speak so I had nothing to lose.
Good stuff, OP! Kudos for getting back in shape. Let Jabba the Hut have her double deep-fried turkey leg.
Bon, having kids doesnt up your IQ either.
NGF???
Nothing wrong with attaining a goal! The shitty people need to go fuck themselves. Just because shit-in-law can’t stay out of Dairy Queen doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate getting your bod back!
Exactly, Guyute!
If SIL wanted help she’d ask for it. Don’t kid yourselves: fat people who stuff their gobs know that stuffing their gobs is what’s keeping them fat. Sure, some people have problems losing weight, but for the most part a lot less cheetos consumed = a lot less fat people.
It’s not OP’s responsibility to make sure her SIL loses weight, and she shouldn’t feel guilty for working hard to attain a goal. Losing 29 pounds takes a shitload of work. I’ve lost 20 since January and I’ve literally worked my butt off to lose it and I’m sure as hell not selling myself short so some fat ass who can’t put their fork full of macaroni and cheese down can feel better about sitting on their asses and eating, and OP shouldn’t have to sell her efforts short either!
Nice little info-fact there NGF. Did it make you feel smarter?
That’s right-on, BF, sure don’t take any lip from anybody.
op here 🙂
Yes i have given her eating advice… i have told here where i go for support (ww) she claims its too expensive to go there.. around 15$/week.. sure it can be a little pricey.. but so is mc donalds three times a week?!
OP, Screw her. If she doesnt want the help and she doesnt do the work, I’d do the whole Kathy Griffin thing and wear a bikini everywhere I go. Women are jealous by nature, just buy her a month of weight watchers for christmas and see how well she takes that pill.
Shit, your SIL sounds lazy and full of excuses. It’s one thing to not be able to get rid of your post preg. bulge, but to add to it by stuffing your face with mcdicks?
As for WW, not like she couldn’t ask to borrow your materials and follow the plan on her own. I don’t go to meetings, but I follow the plan. It’s a pretty easy/foolproof system, although I will admit it does leave me a bit famished on occasion. All she would need to do is get the points formula, get the big book with all the food values and, what I find handy, a points calculator. And all that shit is under 30 bucks (or three trips to mcdonalds, or 10 bags of cheetos — you may have to talk in language she understands) if you help her figure out her points allowance…
Point is, if she’s going to act like that, tell her to suck it when people comment on your hard work paying off and she gets pissy/jealous about it. Losing weight is effing HARD and not fun at all…certainly not as fun as vegging in front of the tv eating a quarter pounder with cheese *sigh*
The thought of Kathy Griffin in a bikini just made me a little ill.
PS don’t hate the cheetos, hate the game. haha
I had a baby one year ago- & lost all the weight after 6 months. But I still feel for the OP’s SIL. OP, you need to get over yourself- because you sound beyond smug. Maybe you get more sleep, more support, more time to yourself so it’s been easier for you to drop the weight. Maybe her baby cries more than yours, or maybe the transition to motherhood has simply come as more of a shock to her than it has to you and so she’s been having a difficult time emotionally (ever hear of a little thing called post partum depression?) They say it’s 9 months up, 9 months down before a new mom starts to feel like herself again. A little less (you, obviously), a little more (her) for some, so get off your high horse.
NtotheAdine, “Women are jealous by nature,” I disagree. Women are, however, very competitive.
baby flub….speak to the husband. Today’s question of the day on C100 is about dumping your girlfriend if she gained weight. Baby flub is a damn good reason for him to dump her.