I read that recent bitch about the lonely girl complaining about this long-lost ‘friend’ not wanting her on facebook. This is a bit different: We actually have been close friends for the last 3 years, and I’ve had you on facebook for about 2 years.
I’ve been nothing but a true friend and I’ve done so much for you over the years. And YOU have been a good to me as well, until the last couple of weeks before you left for Edmonton….
You were going to be gone for 2-3 years (and might not even be coming home for Christmas), so a bunch of us wanted to get together and have a party for you. You came up with some excuse that you had to do a bunch of packing on that day we were to have the party. Like you couldn’t pack any other day. We tried other days, and you still came up with lame excuses. So as it turned out, we never got together for one last night before you left for the other side of the country. I was quite upset, but not nearly as much as I am now.
It turns out that you DID go out before you left, with your fucking co-workers (one of them blurted it out to me when I ran into them at the grocery store)! And that’s not it, you also went to each one of our friends’ houses and gave a personal good-bye, BUT I didn’t get that! Maybe you stopped by when I wasn’t home, but I got no fucking phone call or a facebook message from you! What the fuck’s with that?
I did take it as maybe you would get too emotional saying bye to me (because we were close and you easily get emotional), so you avoided it all together. But, NOOO, I don’t think it was that at all anymore! You won’t even write back to me on facebook anymore, but you manage to get back to anyone else! And just last month, when I went to see family in Edmonton, and I told you I was coming, you made no attempt to get together with me! I haven’t heard from you since fucking July! Four months, I rarely even went four DAYS without talking to you before!!! What the fuck is you’re problem?? Close friends can’t pull this shit without some explanation! FUCK YOU!
This article appears in Nov 6-12, 2008.
LOL!!”Close friends can’t pull this shit without some explanation! FUCK YOU!”I nominate this for bitch of the month. To the original poster, I don’t think this person is too concerned about your threat of losing you as a friend. Maybe move on?Cheers,
Bitch of the Month..??? I don’t think so J…Another somebody done somebody wrong bitch about facebook… Who fucking cares..?? I couldn’t get past the first line in the second paragraph before I had to bail out…. Get a fucking life OP…
Easy for you guys to say ‘get a life’ and ‘move on’ when this doesn’t happen to you! What if this was one of your best friends acting like this with you? It wouldn’t bother you at all? And if you would read the damn fucking post completely and fully understand it, you would realize this isn’t all about fucking facebook, facebook’s just a small part of it! This is NOT some pathetic delusional loser getting mad at people rejecting her on facebook when they weren’t really her friends to begin with, this is a legit friendship going down the shitter because this bitch who moved to Alberta is suddenly acting weird and stupid with the op! The op has every right to be pissed off and hurt, you don’t get over a long-term friendship just like that!
Imagine calling a friend to ask why they haven’t spoken to you, and having access to, and listening to, all of their phone messages. Fucking torture! Just hang up! You don’t need to know you’re the only one they’ve dumped, and the last thing you need is to hear the happy voices of those who haven’t been.The energy one puts into scouring walls and profiles to find out who’s talking to who in a situation like this is an emotional investment. And it’s easier to be angry than hurt. If your friend didn’t have the decency to let you know it was finished, face to face like normal, you don’t need to spend any more energy on them. What they did hurt, and that’s not cool. FB has nothing to do with this, except that YOU are relying on it to further hurt your own feelings and drag this out and make it more painful. Just do your best to let it, and them, go.