Herpes Lovin’

PK, I didn’t paint anyone with any brush. I provided a fact about the frequency that sexually active adults get tested. Regardless of what your friends happen to do, percentages don’t lie. At no point did I infer that, you, personally, don’t get tested. Also, please tell your donair-eating sidekick to go back to writing dirty limericks in bathroom stalls, or whatever it is that he does to occupy his time.

What are you, Montrealman? “References and page numbers please”. Sorry kiddos, I have limited time and I’ve already done the reading. You can google or disbelieve, I really don’t give a fuck.

Whether you choose to agree or not, my opinion is based on medical fact. For example, the Centre for Disease Control stated in Dec. of last year that they wanted to implement more regular HIV testing, since 55% of adults had NEVER IN THEIR LIVES been screened for HIV (approx 20% of people with HIV don’t know they have it, either). These are American figures, of course, but relevant nonetheless. If you like, you can look up the actual study in the American Medical Association Journal.

You two have both spent enough time in school that if you really wanted to do to prove me wrong, instead of just talking smack, you’d do the research. But of course, you know I’m probably right, and you’d rather that I waste my valuable time sifting through the interwebz to prove it to you. Fat chance.

You make me LOL, donair guts.

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PK, despite your shitty taste in friends, I don’t really have any issue with you, aside from your assertion of my “painting people with the same brush”. I made an assertion that can easily be back up with even the most cursory investigation online. You yourself make loads of medically-based assertions on these boards – “blanket statements pawned off as fact”, if you will – and I’ve never bothered to call you out and ask that you provide citations, so I’m not sure why you feel that I should be held to a different standard. You have, in turn, provided anecdotal ‘evidence’ to the contrary, which you seem to think irrefutable in disproving what I say. Personally, I don’t care because it’s a bitch board, not an academic journal, but I think I should point out the hypocrisy.

I’m well aware that there are many more STDs than HIV. However, if a person has not EVER been screened for HIV, they’re quite obviously not very thorough about their sexual health (again, I refer you to the fact of 20% of HIV-positive folks not being aware they’ve been infected). That alone is a good indication that they most likely haven’t frequently kept up with other types of STD screening throughout their sexual history. But if you’d like more facts, how about the fact that the Kaiser Institute reports that just over half of ob/gyns (54%) and family practice physicians (57%) report discussing STDs with “all” or “most” of their non- pregnant, sexually active, routine gynecological patients. The numbers are slightly lower when it comes to discussing HIV/AIDS (43% of ob/gyns and 53% of family practice physicians). Keep in mind, this is just “discussing”, not actually testing, so 50% is a pretty worrisome figure when you think about it. Unfortunately, at the moment I can’t find the other study that I’m thinking of, that says that only about 35% of sexually active adults get tested annually or between partners, but anyway, it’s out there, and is what I was referring to in my earlier posts.

In any case, I read a lot about things like sexuality, and there are certain generally accepted medical facts about sex and STDs found in much of what I read. There are loads of figures like this all over the web, but I’m not going to waste any more time rounding up info for you. If you would rather believe that everybody gets tested all the time, all your friends always tell the absolute truth about their behaviour in regards to sexual health, and married people don’t ever have to worry about contracting STDs, you go right ahead.

“take a cheap shot at me for no good reason” – LMAO. Yes, poor widdle innocent Donairious. The big bad feminist woman is soooo mean to the poor widdle fella. Gee, buddy, I really hope I didn’t hurt your feelings 😛

“refuses to back up her blanket statements” – I’ve provided several references now, in spite of my better judgement. However, I’ll be damned if I’m gonna crack a textbook in the middle of May for you, fat boy.

Anyway, this is generally amusing for me too, but your “I know you are, but what am I” retorts have become increasingly tedious. I’m done for the day, but I anxiously await tomorrow’s arrival, when I may read your inevitable final thoughts, which are sure to be sparkling with your usual jocular wit and penetrating insight into my character.

Aww geez, Donairious, you’ve totally crushed my hopes of kissing and making up on the ‘Herpes Lovin” thread. PG was even rooting for us 🙂

First of all, I didn’t call you homophobic, I said you use a homophobic slur. I have no way knowing for certain how you feel about gay folks IRL, all I see is you using anti-gay language on a message board.

Secondly, sebastian wears his miserable douchebag existence on his sleeve far more than his sexuality, and it’s his own individual douchebaggery that results in the hateful and pointless comments he makes. I’ve personally slammed him on numerous occasions, but I generally don’t bother anymore because his trolling is obvious and really only bothersome to those who are childish enough to get worked up over trolls. Besides, if I wanted a pointless altercation with a moron, I’d just go down to pizza corner on a Saturday night and tell some girl her jeggings look stupid.

“He asks for it”? I don’t care how despicable someone is, I don’t think anyone “asks” to be called ‘faggot’, ‘nigger’, ‘kike’, etc. IMO, the perpetuation of that kind of language to demean people is just simple-minded and crude.

I really do enjoy the irony of you frequently bringing up your religio-ethnicity though, because unlike you, no one here is attributing your unlikeable traits to such irrelevant personal details. I don’t care if you’re a Zoroastrian Maori transexual, it has nothing to do with your individual behaviour and the fact that choose to act like an immature dink. Am I mistaken, or are you actually trying to infer that I’m an anti-Semite, simply because I think your your slur-ridden comments are repugnant? Talk about playing the “race-card” (I realize Jews are not technically a race, so please save your righteous indignation). Of course, you’re certainly not the first member of an oppressed people who’s used that as an excuse to shit all over another oppressed people. However, your assertion that your continuous use of ‘faggot’ ≠ homophobia, but me calling you out on your shit = anti-Semitism sure gave me a good laugh. When I mention it to my Jewish grandmother, I’m sure it’ll give her a good chuckle too, so thanks for that.