I’m getting tired of my friend using my computer for his gay/and trans-porn…and asking me and my boyfriend what gay friendly spots to hit in your trip to montreal (where you say to your girlfriend its a business trip) You are always bugging us to come out to the local gay clubs with us….this isn’t what bothers me. You won’t come out and want to lie to yourself that’s fine, but don’t lie to your girlfriend who loves you to know end. You know she’s going to think somethings wrong because you don’t have sex with her and you are obviously so flaming its unreal. How doesn’t she know? Do yourself and her a favor and come out and break it off with her. Not only do you lie to yourself you lie to everyone, especially this girl who is falling in love with you. She’s going to find out from someone else’s lips and it’s going to really hurt her more than you telling her. I’m getting so tired of your Drama!
This article appears in Sep 25 – Oct 1, 2008.
Tell him that downloading porn on the whole could lead to virus. If he wants to fuck up a computer then he better spend the $300 to get his own porn box 2k8. Either that or charge him per minute.His gf doesn’t know because of the metrosexual movement that pussified a lot of men. If men spend an hour getting dressed then she has NO IDEA who is homosexual and who is not.And tell him to save the drama for his mamma and give him the boot. Either that or let him have a hershey kiss.. EVERYONE WINS!!
Thanks for the reply. Me and my boyfriend are just tired of it, because he’s even went as far as ask the girl to marry him and they are planning a family. And are to be married next year. Last night we told him we don’t want to bother with him until he sorts himself out..more importantly tell the girlfriend. I’ve seen a couple of men and women go down this road by being with the opposite sex to hide. It’s not fair to yourself and also that person. Me and my boyfriend are not going to be apart of his deception to his girl any longer. Why did I post this in the bitches? Because there are so many men and women doing this. It’s just wrong to have those who love you be a part of your lie to yourself. If they love you it’s going to hurt them so badly! I could see if he was bi then whatever, but he has told us he’s not. UGGGH, I just don’t understand it all. Sure growing up in highschool (I’m in my late 30’s) we dated girls to hide, but this is 2008, the majority of the public don’t care of your sexual preference (or atleast far more excepted than it used to be). So stop living in fear and lies, and be that one more person to make this gay/lesbian community of Halifax shine and not be a bunch of dramatic closet cases. OOH it just makes me so mad!
The other option is that you should tell his girlfriend. Mostly because that would be hilarious; make sure to have video or pictures as proof. Don’t get so down on Drama, cause you are doing her AND him a favour. And dollars to donuts says that she still stays with him and he backpedals deeper into the closet with the net effect of you not having some guy come over and wank off over your internet connection and bug you about where he can get ass on his ass-trip.Or if not, he comes out, she moves on and complains about him to her new boyfriend and you guys get another member for your team. Sure he’ll be pissed about it for a while, but its really for the best cause he will be out living a carefree gay life and won’t be secretly firing off quick easy ones in your living room when he can get a chance.