This article appears in Dec 6-12, 2007.
Get a Clue
Why, oh why are we flooded with media (books, television, movies) about dumb pussies looking for Mr. Right? Get a clue, girlies. There is no Mr. Right – that’s right, it’s a fucking myth. Here’s the three stages of so-called Mr. Right as I’ve seen it i
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Ah, the society we live in. One where the myth of Mr. Right still exists. The one where it’s considered “tradition” that a man should have to open the door for the woman, yet women don’t even think twice about opening a door for a man. When’s the last time a girl opened the car door for a guy? If it’s tradition, well, tradition was also that women stayed at home and took care of the kids. But that was long ago and this is now. Women are free & liberated, the way it should be. However, they still want the old, with the new, which can’t happen. Ladies, time to use your heads and move on with life.Guys, are just as guilty though. They allow this to perpetuate so it keeps going round and round. Now both sexes are guilty of Mr/Ms. Right. It should be Mr/Ms Right Now. That’s what they’re all thinking. Guys wanna get laid, so they go after the hot chick. Girls are looking for the same thing but won’t admit it. Both groups go downtown to clubs and get drunk, believing that they’ll meet that right person even though they know deep down inside they’re being superficial, but are in total denial.If they do hook up with that person, it’s only a matter of time befor there’s the blow up. The guy will get tired of the girl, but the girl will try to figure out what went wrong becuase the guy “can be fixed” and that they’re the only ones who can fix them. Neither side takes the time to get to know a person before they judge them. If you’re not “cute” aka “hot”, then they don’t even bother with you. You’re passed on like a piece of meet in the grocery store. You can’t have a conversation with someone if they don’t even want to be around you since they’re too busy chasing that “cute” guy/girl.In the end though, it just boils down to one thing: same old shit, just a different day.
Wow … Bitter indeed. Trying to catergorize the male species into 3 “stages” is beyond ignorant. Prejudice and arrogant are among the multitude of adjectives that come to mind.I do agree there is no Mr. Right. There is also no Ms. Right, Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. Yup, Men have flwas and guess what? Women have flaws too … it’s what makes us human.There are plenty of good guys out there, not perfect, but good people just the same. If you feel the need to distance yourself from dating because, you just now realize, Mr. Right doesn’t exist that is your perogative. Good for you, good for local sex shops and probably good for the single guys out there in pursuit of tortured bliss.
I think Bitter’s bubble burst!
If I treated my girlfriend like my mother, I’d have to extract a chain saw from my back. Generalization is just plain stupid.
Gee… after reading your “whine” (bitter), I couldn’t help but think women have it easy. Men only want three things. Women want cooks, cleaners, sex-slaves, massage therapists, sugar daddies, handymen, sperm-donars… and I could go on.
Just to lighten things up a bit, I got this email today and apparently I’m supposed to share it LOL. ——————–One day my housework-challenged husband decided to wash his sweat- shirt. Seconds after he stepped into the laundry room, he shouted: “What setting do I use on the washing machine?” It depends, I replied. What does it say on your shirt? He yelled back “University of Oklahoma” ———————-A couple is lying in bed. The man says: “I am going to make you the happiest woman in the world.” The woman replies: “I’ll miss you…”———————- “It’s just too hot to wear clothes today,” Jack says as he steps out of the shower: “Honey, what do you think the neighbors would think if I mowed the lawn like this?””Probably that I married you for your money,” shereplied.———————-What do you call an intelligent, good looking, sensitive man?A rumor!———————–Why do little boys whine? They are practicing to be men.———————–What does it mean when a man is in your bed gasping for breath and calling your name? You didn’t hold the pillow down long enough.———————–How do you keep your husband from reading your e-mail? Rename the mail folder “Instruction Manuals”———————–OK guys, it’s your turn :P.
Dear Bitter,Wow and you are BITTER. Let me guess you have been hurt…blah de blah blah blah. Well I hate to be the one to tell you this…you might need to sit down….WAKE THE HELL UP…we all have been hurt, suck it up princess. We all get right back up on the horse and try again. It’s called life. Maybe try to meet men other than at a bar. My advice to you is to suck it up and get over it…shit happens. And one more peice of advice: you won’t find anyone with a bitter attitude like that. Life is WAY WAY too short to be miserable, alone and BITTER.