I’d appreciate it if other girls didn’t openly hit on my boyfriend right if front of me. Sluts.
—Just saying…
This article appears in Mar 12-18, 2009.
Fuck Off.
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Sounds like you need to talk to your boyfriend about this. All the other girls don’t have a commitment with you so it’s fair game…your boyfriends should be the one to set them straight.
Ah, teenage angst. Everything is so dramatic. You gotta love it.
Wow – you are one sad little chickie. My old man played in a band for years and always had women after him. Our relationship was based on trust (still is) and I never worried about him picking some little groupie because I knew he’d never settle for hamburger when there was steak at home. If you continue to hassle your boyfriend and NOT trust him, then don’t be surprised when he dumps your silly ass. Confidence is sexy, insecurity is not.
Really. I think the opposite, and find it to be a major turn-on when my man gets hit on by other (attractive) women. To me, nothing is sexier than a man who stays loyal and comes home to me every night, even though there are other hot women out there that would be happy to have thier hands on him. I trust him with all of my heart, so i have nothing to worry about.
Maybe you should think about why you have a trust issue instead of getting mad at these girls. I realize it’s rude and disrespectful of them to act that way in front of you, but if you trust him, what’s the problem?
It’s like when people copy your style, take it as a compliment about how good your taste is.
Jim are you sharing this account with your wife, or just being deceitful?
Balls, I’m a chick. My handle is *gasp* make believe. So if you call 1-800-546-7777 you won’t actually get me, but the real Jim Shapiro. Sorry to burst your bubble…um, you know about Santa, right?
I’d say slap a ring on him, but that involves a lot of money, stress, and time. Short term, trust the man, be flattered, come down hard on him if he actually takes their advances and acts upon them.
Balls, if I were you, I’d call Alexander & Catalano at 1-800-LAW-1333, or Cellino & Barnes at 585-454-2020. By calling Jim, you might be in a conflict of interest.
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Um, I don’t think it’s about jealousy, but about respect. It’s not cool to have someone act like that, no matter what, no matter how loyal your partner is, or even miffed or falttered or kinda turned on by the whole thing you and/or your partner may be. It’s still super disrespectful.
On a similar note, has anyone ever had the ‘waitress-flirt-thing’ happen? Where if you go out for dinner with a guy or guys, that the waitress will laugh and smile and be INCREDIBLY nice to all the guys at the table, but only kinda nice to you or your female friends?
Honest to fuck, women are each other’s worst enemies when it comes to men.
Honest to fuck, women are each other’s worst enemies when it comes to men.
Uh TTFN: are you my mother? seriously, that post makes me wonder if you’re my mom posting up in here (she married a musician who never looked at hamburger cuz my mom’s definitely steak ;)) 😛
women are not each others’ worst enemies. a woman is her very own. its that simple.
its not some other female that is your enemy, ladies. often its the jaded chick in the mirror.
I’ve everybody’s mother, PK. In my office, with my friends, with my family. Of course, I shouldn’t have come out with that totally absolute statement about women being enemies over men, especially since my two best friends are my spouse’s ex-girlfriends from when we all had perky tits. It’s our ol’ 70s mindset. We’re all old hags now and cackle with delight at the useless angst of youth. I always said my honey had great taste in women.
my last gf loved it when chicks hit on me in front of her…
She sounds like the type of person that if the boyfriend fooled around that she would blame the other woman rather than the boyfriend. If they’re hitting on him and he’s not responding or going home with them, then what’s the problem, other than your own petty jealousy. Does he get pissed off if guys look at you on the street or flirt with you?
teehee my boyfriend gets hit on all the time in front of me and i get hit on in front of him all the time… we are both secure in our relationship and how much we love each other that we usually laugh about it… if you feel thrreatened by other grls then you need to get a new boyfriend that makes you feel as though you are the only one he sees (like me fantastic man)
first thing…
I always call one, eight-hundred, five, four, six, seventy seven, seventy seven, ………that’s one, eight-hundred, five, four, six, seventy seven, seventy seven , ….for any issues I may have… and I have a lot. It gets the job Done Every Time. that’s D E T.
oh..and wait…going back to the bitch, isn’t that the time you get to play THE bitch card?
A wave of the finger, cut her down, and walk away like you’ve brought pestilence to her land.
you know you wanna….
Maybe they didn’t realize you were with him. One swift slap in the face should do the trick.
waw said it best.
i don’t think a new bf is going to settle things. the OP is probably some high school student or a first year college kid.
my ex who i’m still friends with used to get checked out by a lot of guys and it never bothered me. like waw said, if you and your partner are in a secure relationship there’s nothing to worry about.
if a gal hits on your bf in front of you AND he leaves with her, then i’d write a Bitch about this situation.
grow up kids. its other peoples’ right to look at you or me or your bf/gf.
i check out other dudes’ gfs all the time and in front of them. if the guy has a problem, fuck him. he can’t stop me from looking.
I agree with zZz – playing the bitch card sounds just about right.