Being friends after the awkward moments of politely rejecting you was harder for you, I know, but we talked it through and got past it. Being friends during a time when we both wanted more was the best decision we have made so far. being friends after I finally admitted (after many confusing months) that I had feelings for you and being rejected has been absolutely torturous. I professed my regret along with my adoration, and now it’s your turn; you’re an idiot for not recognizing someone who loves you for who you are and would take good care of you. I’M an idiot for just NOW realizing I’ve just been an ego boost for months. I hope it’s been fun for you—it hasn’t for me. —Deserving of Better Things
This article appears in Nov 15-21, 2012.
i’m sorry this happened to you.. but did you ever consider that he/she is NOT an idiot and simply not interested? I mean.. thinking that someone is an idiot because they don’t want to be with you is a bit presumptuous..
People are in each others lives for a myriad of reasons. Ego, caring, companionship, love are only a few.
Remember it for what it was, and move on.
Was it a she? If yes, was she fat? I don’t like them fat.
lol happens to the best of us OP. Here’s a tip: don’t try and be friends with people you want to fuck. It doesn’t make them want to fuck you.
Shit happens. Next.
Maybe he doesn’t want to be your second/third/fourth choice after saying no to him the first time. Saying to someone who has feelings for you that you just want to be friends then to change your mind months down the road is cruel on your part. Some people would call you a cock tease, I for one will call you what you call yourself – an idiot. And if you are a male, my statement stands (just change the pronouns).
I feel badly for you.I’ve been there..I know how much it hurts when you deeply care for someone who doesn’t give 2 flying fucks about you or does actually care but,won’t be truthful to themselves and you about their true feelings.So they deny everything.
Stick to your original plan and stay friends. Cram that genie back into the bottle.
funny you should bring up this bitch o.p., just today, i got a shock. a female that i have known for a few years now, asked me to be just that. or if you prefer, a fuck buddy. well now, i really didn’t know what to say right then. i had never ever thought of her as such.
but being the gentleman that i am, agreed on a trial run tomorrow night. don’t get me wrong here, a piece is a piece. and if those that want it, can damn well have it. but the ground rules are laid, and we both agree on them. the main one is that if one gets too serious, then it’s over. see woggie, and boru, yo waited too long. but as i say, there is nothing serious, and i prefer it that way. fuck buddies are the way to go guys and goils.
Ain’t nobody got time for this shit.
Blow: You can have all the F buddies you want; you know they can’t come up to the Wogster! But I digress. The OP needs to realize that love is sometimes only a one-way street. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
They don’t sound like friends to me.
Oh, please… You reject him, string him along for a while under the guise of “friendship”. Then when you feel like unshelving your “standby” he isn’t interested. LOL, looks like someone watches too many J-Lo movies.
maybe we should check that out sometime woggie?
MY GOD.
yes donk sweetie, what can i do for you?
:|
http://roflrazzi.files.wordpress.com/2010/…
Blow: Donk’s just jealous. Yes, maybe we WILL have to check that out soon. BTW I like your picture!
i don’t think so, she was adopted by a newspaper http://img2-1.timeinc.net/people/i/2010/pe…
Blow You must’ve ran out of Grecian Formula;you didn’t dye your facial hair?….”A touch of grey”, slapped you on the face? Really,I’m not shitting on you,I’m just asking.
Some men dye their hair to look young but,they forget to dye their facial hair,kinda defeats the purpose.It makes an older man look as though he’s suffering from dementia.
I don’t see a problem with men dying their hair but shit,it looks stupid when they leave their facial hair grey.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHbjpGw1s9c
2 minutes for looking so good goes to lefleur! no one can touch that chain smoking, long haired, thin lipped cutie pie.
Thanks Ivan, I thought that cheesy commercial was long gone.
You’re most welcome Trood. I love looking for old commercials on the interwebz. Who needs to worry about Alzheimers, when they have u-toob >; )
…And now I’m imagining wogdog and Sucks having nasty old people sex. All the mindbleach in the world won’t be able to help me now.
Ok lemmie get this straight, OB: your friend liked you and you didn’t like them. Then your friend kept being your friend and OBVIOUSLY GOT OVER YOU and you’ve ended up into them, and then they rejected you because OH HAY they’re not into you anymore and they’re an idiot because they did the same thing you did, but you’re not an idiot because of that same reason?
AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAHA.
I’m sorry, but if I’m reading this properly, you have GOT to be one of the biggest fucktards on the planet, OB. This person isn’t an idiot, they simply got over you, and they are in no way at fault for anything just because they decide they don’t want to reciprocate your feelings just because YOU want them to.
Stop being such a SET, OB.
I was into my best friend for a while. He wasn’t into me. I got over it (honest to gawd I remember the moment I thought ‘oh hay I’d rather fuck a goat’ (no offense, biscuit) — I was in Quebec City looking at a lacoste window display on a Sunday in a mall in Ste Foy). If, for instance, he suddenly decided he was into me today, no fucking WAY I could get into it.
People like who they like and don’t like who they don’t like and sometimes the thought of being with someone you don’t like is just gross. Obv this person got over you and thinks your gross ‘in that way.’ You can do one of two things: stop being their friend or suck it up and get over it like this person obviously has.
Calm yourself Brendon-san. Remember the episode of TPB where Julian let himself go to hell and got all fucked up on swish living behind the strip mall and Bubbles had to sober him up by getting some decent rum onto him.
http://media.fakeposters.com/results/2009/…
This is kind of like that.
You’ll be okay.
Notice how I avoided the easy shot by suggesting that you might not be totally averse to old-people sex. Right fedora-boi?
Once again, Uncle Vanya takes the high road.
Don’t get too excited Blow. She’s a woman of God, her position will be purely missionary.
This is the only missionary postion I want to see bogslag in:
http://www.trimaran-naga.com/images/cookin…
“Food, Not Bombs” Tuesday Special – Chickin Chili. >; )
Woggie & Bow me up a tree…tee hee
*Blow
Whoa WTF “Donk’s just jealous.” No.
donk, you call MY GOD, and i answered you back, but you didn’t tell me what you wanted. woggie, anytime sweetcheeks. boru, my beard is just naturally gray. been like that for a few years now. but hey, the motor still works fine, tho the body be ageworn some. LET’S GET READY TO TUMBLE.
DONKey go away. Like I said you are jealous. Blow I gotta say each and every entry you make is hilarious!! People need to get a sense of humor and stop being so mean and jealous!
You go away Jignog. I’d sew you into a burka and boot you off the ramp of a C-130 over the Shah-I-Kot valley myself. See how you enjoy getting porked by Terry the Taliban.
LOL, this bitch. I can’t. Seems we have a love match here guys! Well I never!
Well it’s obvious you’ve never met the Donkster.
This bitch sounds like my grades 7 thru 12.
Teenage angst.
In any event, Ivan’s got me thinking…
Can we have the next summit in the alley behind King Of Donair with a barrel of swish on tap? I’m sure someone can provide the Dog as well…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iUCFt5o2hCs
Only if Steve French can come
http://i.qkme.me/1qtc.jpg
I’m pretty sure they can rig up some weed-jita’s for him.
“Teenage angst.”
TEENAGE angst? You sure it wasn’t just LIFE angst (since you’re not exactly a teenager anymore and, lolz).
FUCK, Ivan, I JUST saw that episode on netflix the other night. I really don’t know how I missed that one.
“OW THEY WERE SALT AND VINEGAR CHIPS!”
|IVAN Sorry you can promise all the things you want. I Don’t Like You. I don’t find your entries funny or relevant. Period. That’s just the way it is guy. You and DONKey suck. But I won’t say what.
I knew I didn’t have a chance against your prison pen-pal Mohammed Shafia, but you cun’t fault a guy for trying. If anybody wants me I’ll be on suicide watch. *le Sniff*
hahaha… I’m gonna need to confiscate those laces colonel…
you’re obviously high risk given the life-shattering news.
http://breakupemail.com/images/postit.png
I suppose I’m still kind of teenager-like…
no desire to own a house or settle down anywhere, total adrenaline junky, get my drank on when I probably shouldn’t, and I think my world is ending pretty much on the regular.
At least I don’t get the untimely zits and boners much anymore.