Some free advice when on a first date: Do not talk non-stop about your ex-spouse, and explain all their faults that led to your breakup. Do not check out other people in an obvious manner, then comment on how gorgeous they are. And then don’t be surprised when your date doesn’t care for a second date, and you say you don’t understand, because you two are so good together. I mean, do you have a fucking clue? —Not Dating for Awhile
This article appears in Jun 14-20, 2012.
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Don’t let one bad experience sour your mood OB. The last time I was dumped I was back out dating within two weeks. Besides, if you’re just out going on random dates looking for a GF, then it’s guaranteed you’ll meet some crazies along the way.
I figured this was just a given, OB.
Do people actually do this?
This makes me very sad.
It also makes me feel very glad I’m not really in the dating game right now. I’d rather wait for someone awesome than go out with a bunch of randoms and settle.
IMO (and experience), people who talk about how horrible their exes are *usually* still have deep-seated feelings for them and are only trying to make themselves feel better bout the breakup.
People who comment on how gorgeous someone is while on a date had either be commenting on someone of the same sex (who is truly gorgeous), of out with a spouse looking to swing…
“People who comment on how gorgeous someone is while on a date had either be commenting on someone of the same sex (who is truly gorgeous)…”
I still don’t think this is an excuse… fuck I hate it.
Fishing for complements annoys the piss outta me.
either I can agree and look like a douchebag or
disagree and look like a fool unless I complement you as well… which is basically the best case.
When this happens it’s right about time to excuse yourself politely and say you’re going to the wash room. Then leave instead.
that’s the thing with most guys, they are not satisfied with who they are with. fuck, if you want someone or something else guys, then go and fucking find it. now some girls can be the same, and the same answer to you too.
if both just wanna shag their ass, then do so, and leave the dating bullshit somewhere else. guys always make a fool of themselves, yep, i did too. and we are not perfect, far fucking from it. but some women think their cunt is the center of the universe, and think they can own you with out giving it to you.
yep, i said that, and yes, i will stand by that too. any females that i have had the company to be with, have never complained a bit. well there was one lady that said i was spending too much on her.but hell, i really liked her, and had it to spend, so why the fuck not. right girls?
Trashing exes, checking out the competition? Sounds like a keeper.
One bad date does not the dating world make.
true story. i went out on a first date on sunday. he kept asking me to “whip out my tits” and kept on asking why i didnt want to sleep with him. “do you have a plug in? rip it out!” and “so, you’re 33, i know you suck dick” and “so, no blowjob, no handjob, nothing?? really????”
yeah, really…
That’s what happens when you have a thing for 18 year olds.
he wasn’t 18, he was in his 30s…if that was directed to me.
might have been, but apparently the guy being in his 30s didn’t help his maturity develop past 16.