What do you do when you find out your husband is fraternizing with your enemies and you have the photos to prove it? I mean, this isn’t about sex or infidelity just that respect one takes for granted within a marriage. What’s that expression “your enemies are my enemies” or something like that?
Almost a decade’s worth of lovin’ has been good so what’s a good wife like me to do? Oh, and a big congrats to the enemy mentioned in this bitch. You “win”! He’s about to have NO FAMILY left thanks to you and your incessant need to meddle with my man and not take heed to my warnings. I’m sure he’ll appreciate that when he’s also homeless.
Sorry babe, if you’re not WITH me then you’re AGAINST me and I’ve got the pictures to prove it. —Contemplating Divorce
This article appears in Mar 4-10, 2010.
wow, grow up
This reminds me of an episode of “King of Queens”
LOL
Get over it. My Husband is friends with people I can’t stand. I’m not going to forbid him from seeing them and then go out and STALK him to prove him wrong. One’s enemy is another’s friend.
Actually… get a divorce and set that poor man free.
ok darling grow up. Just because you don’t like someone doesn’t give you the right to tell ANYBODY husband included who they can be friends with. You seem very insecure and a bit jealous. I think you need to work on your self esteem and confidence issues. You should feel comfortable in your relationship and it is obvious that you don’t.
“this isn’t about sex or infidelity just that respect one takes for granted within a marriage”
You’re getting a divorce because you don’t like someone else? LOL, funniest thing I read all day.
yeah, I only have one ‘enemy’ (if you could call it that…. I prefer arch nemesis myself…)
and it was one of my wife’s friends.
the more I hated on her, the more she defended and spent time with her….
just back off and chill out.
it’ll pass… and it’s obviously not like he’s bringing her around to your house to watch the game or anything… it’s on his own damn time. (I take that as proof by your “I found pictures comment” as opposed to you saying “HE BRINGS THE TWAT INTO OUR HOME!!!”)
or as they’ve said, if you’re a domineering, control-freak fucktard who needs to be involved with and manipulate your ‘man’s every move and being… let the poor guy loose so he can live a little and you can teach your dysfunctional kid to do the same crap you’re doing.
Get a dog! Put it on a leash…then you can have the control you so desperately need!
LOL @ lorilulu…… and that’s about the size of it.
‘The Enemy’ sounds a little more involved than just someone the OP doesn’t jive with. We can’t expect our partner’s to like all our friends nor do we necessarily like all theirs, but ‘enemy’? Seems like some other element is at play.
I agree with HaliwoodGirl. Your husband probably deserves better than whatever your crazy, stalking ass is providing. Grow the fuck up you lunatic.
It would help to know a bit more about this “enemy”: an ex-partner, perhaps, or just a guy friend the OP doesn’t like? That would help us helpful, concerned LTWWBers to make a more fair assessment of the matter.
My step-mom basically ruined my dad’s friendship with his best friend simply because she didn’t like him. She found him obnoxious, my dad found him fun and had been good buddies with him since university. She never wanted him around while, since she has no friends, always insisted my dad spend time with her and other people she liked instead. He hardly sees him at all anymore. So sad – bros before hoes!
Dump the guy.
That’ll show him !
Hopefully his life will become as fabulous as mine has since my divorce ~;p
the bear and me had a best friend until he met this charming c_t of the world…she wouldn’t let him see any of his old buddies and he married her…never saw or heard from him again. she was a soul sucker
Probably the OP’s husband paingril! he may soon be free so dont be surprised when he shows up on your doorstep looking for a place to stay, lol…
Oh and OP, YOUR A WHACK JOB…
Did this person axe-murder your childhood pet or something? Because if we’re not talking about infidelity (and OP said we weren’t) then it sounds like OP is overreacting in a major way.
Trying to keep people away from their friends is a hallmark of abusive relationships. And if you have such a huge problem with this person, why not go to them before divorcing the husband you’ve had for, um, a decade?
I’m certainly not in your situation, but it sounds like you’re going to have an interesting time explaining yourself when they’re deciding custody for the kids…
You married him, not enslaved him. And since you read like a controlling dickmitten I hope he runs and does not look back.
I only have one piece of advice for the OBs husband – RUN, DO NOT WALK AWAY, FROM THIS MISERABLE BITCH!
i am now available.
Have we ever figured out why she doesn’t like him/her/them? Is it because the ‘enemy’ is an ex or just a personality conflict?
HAHAHA
This bitch is so fake it hurts.
I love these marriage bitches…they’re always amusing.
I agree with you, OP. Dump him. You deserve better.
So it’s her fault that your husband can’t keep it in his pants? He was married, she wasn’t.. he’s the one who wronged you, not her.
“this isn’t about sex or infidelity..”
fucking illitirates on here.
Well you know as soon as a man talks to a woman all he wants to do is get in her pants. Even though the OB says it isn’t about sex, in her mind it is because all men are pigs. NOT.
” illitirates “
From the spelling champion himself…..LOL
I agree OP, drop him and come to my place and get some sweet sweet revenge.
Wow, judging from your little tirade I’d say you have wrath, pride, envy and avarice all wrapped up. I’ll just bet you’re also hiding lust, sloth and gluttony somewhere aren’t cha? You may want to consider lightening up.
aaah that wrath…gets ya everytime
@Fatbastard
I was talking about the people that are taking the OP’s side because they think she was being cheated on. “Ohhh noo an I where the E should be.. Better point it out so people see how ironic that is.”
“Dickmitten” is the best nonsensical PG-13 put-down since “Asshat”. Well played, SwampDonkey.
I have been using “Dickmitten” to refer to the dumb developers I work with all morning. It not only allows me to feel like I have properly labeled them in the midst of my frustration, but it was allowed me to chuckle as well, making me forget my frustration. THANKS SWAMPDONKEY!
Dickmitten is actually a very derogatory term which relegates the person to being nothing but an orifice for personal gratification whereas asshat describes someone whose behaviour is less than favourable.
Damn, he probably just wants to get away from YOU!